Re: Vehicle weight?
So firstly, thanks for acknowledging there is a difference.
The issue, I believe, is you don't think that 0.5mph difference is particularly significant. Problem is: It can be.
So: a 1tonne car hits you in the hip. It causes bruising. I can pop a cold pack on that, offer you paracetamol, check you can walk, signpost you to the hospital (self-present) and discharge you at scene if I'm confident it is just bruising. Sure, I'd much rather have an ambulance crew check you out, just to be sure, but you're considered non-urgent so it could be a while, and that's why I'd advise self-presenting to the hospital.
A 1.5 tonne car at the same speed (say the e-208 rather than the 208) that's now fractured the neck of your femur. Now you need a traction splint (outside my scope of practice) so that's an ambulance, but I can (if I've my kit) give you Penthrox or Entonox (depending on if I have the latter) as an analgesic. You're going to hospital, possibly cat1, possibly cat2 - I don't make that call.
Now, a 2 tonne car hits you at that same speed and that's a pelvic fracture. You're now in so much pain you can't follow the instructions for the analgesics I can provide, so you're waiting on the ambulance for morphine. You'll also need a pelvic binder which, while within my scope of practice, I don't carry - so that's waiting on the ambulance, too. Good news, however, is you're a cat1. Stat. So the nearest ambulance, unless already on a cat1, is getting diverted to you. You're in a really bad way with a pelvic fracture: Internal bleeding, organ displacement, intense pain: You could die very easily, so this is a real major case.
This isn't a joke, btw: Injuries aren't a linear progression: Even a 0.1mph difference could be the difference between soft tissue injury only and bones breaking. So to me (I'm a First responder btw) the milder the impact, the better (with no impact being the best!).
And that is why I say: the larger the mass at a given velocity, the more momentum (hence force) results in a greater risk of injury. The body can absorb x amount of force without issue, but it doesn't take much beyond that for the injuries to stack up and move from mild to critical.