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1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?
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2) Do we have a clear idea of each otherâs financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?
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3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?
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4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?
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5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?
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6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?
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7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?
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8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one anotherâs ideas and complaints?
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9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each otherâs spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?
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10) Do we like and respect each otherâs friends?
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11) Do we value and respect each otherâs parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?
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12) What does my family do that annoys you?
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13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?
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14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the otherâs family, are we prepared to move?
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15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the otherâs commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?
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