Who Are Lonely
Who Are Lonely
Who Are Lonely
MAGNHILD NICOLAISEN
Ageing and Health, Norwegian Centre for Research,
Education and Service Development
KIRSTEN THORSEN
Ageing and Health, Norwegian Centre for Research,
Education and Service Development;
University College of Buskerud and Vestfold; and
Norwegian Social Research (NOVA)
ABSTRACT
This study asks if the prevalence of loneliness in the population varies
depending on the measures used, with special focus on loneliness among
the elderly. The study compares loneliness in different age groups between
18 and 81 years old (N = 14,743) using two measures of loneliness: the
(indirect) six-item De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale and a single-item,
direct question about loneliness. Data are from the Norwegian LOGG
(Life Course, Generation, and Gender) study. We compare the findings on
loneliness according to age, gender, health, and partner status. Overall,
the two loneliness measures indicate a similar prevalence of loneliness,
*The NorLAG and LOGG surveys are financed by the Research Council of Norway
(grant no. 149564 and 168373), Ministry of Health and Care Services, Ministry of Labour,
Ministry of Children, Equality and Social Inclusion, Ministry of Local Government and
Regional Development, Norwegian Social Research (NOVA) and Statistics Norway. The
LOGG and NorLAG datasets are part of the ACCESS Life Course infrastructure project
funded by the National Financing Initiative for Research Infrastructure at the Research
Council of Norway (grant no. 195403) and NOVA.
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“How, if at all, can we identify who is lonely and who is not?” (Victor, Bond,
& Scambler, 2009, p. 55). This question is still posed, even after decades of
research into the subject of loneliness. Loneliness is important to the quality
of life (Shiovitz-Ezra, Leitsch, Graber, & Karraker, 2009), and is strongly
associated with aspects of mental health, such as depression (Cacioppo,
Hawkley, & Thisted, 2010; Heikkinen & Kauppinen, 2011; Paul, Ayis, &
Ebrahim, 2006; Routasalo, Savikko, Tilvis, Strandberg, & Pitkälä, 2006;
Thorsen & Clausen, 2008). Loneliness is also associated with—but not
equivalent to—social isolation. Peplau and Perlman (1982, p. 3), in their
summary of the common elements of loneliness, still influential after more
than 30 years, state: “First, loneliness results from deficiencies in a person’s
social relationships. Second, loneliness is a subjective experience; it is not
synonymous with objective social isolation. People can be alone without
being lonely, or lonely in a crowd. Third, the experience of loneliness is
unpleasant and distressing.” Thus, in contrast to the objective state of social
isolation (being alone), loneliness is a subjective experience.
Important questions are: In the population, which people are lonely? Are
older people more lonely than younger people, or is it the other way around?
Are women more lonely than men? What factors are associated with loneli-
ness in the different age groups, indicating possible causes and different factors
influencing loneliness across age groups? At another level the question can
be asked: Are the answers to these questions and the picture we get of
loneliness in the population different depending on what measures are used?
More specifically: do they vary between “direct” and “indirect” measures?
Different measures have been used in loneliness research. However, few
studies have directly compared prevalences of loneliness yielded by these
measures. This article investigates rates of loneliness in men and women
across a range of age groups using two different measures:
The study compares the empirical results in age groups 18-81 years old using
the two measures.
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WHAT IS LONELINESS?
THEORIES AND CONCEPTS OF LONELINESS
In most research on loneliness, being alone and being lonely are not
synonymous, but a lack of social contact and support are key antecedents
that can lead to loneliness. Weiss (1973), in his classical and still influential
study of loneliness, distinguished between two forms of loneliness: the experi-
ences of emotional and social isolation. The first form indicated missing
intimate social relations, the second the lacking of a wider social network.
The distinction between emotional and social loneliness may be particu-
larly relevant for studies involving older people because, due to stressful life
events such as the death of a spouse/partner and aging relatives or friends,
the probability of having or finding an intimate attachment figure decreases
with age (van Baarsen, Snijders, Smit, & van Duihn, 2001, p. 133). However,
studies indicate that even if the number of peripheral social contacts is greatly
reduced in very old age, there is little difference in the number of emotionally
close partners reported (Field & Minkler, 1988; Lang & Carstensen, 1994).
Across adulthood, an increasingly larger percentage of the network is emo-
tionally close social partners (Carstensen, Isaacowitz, & Charles, 1999).
In contrast to an explanation that focuses on losses in old age reducing the
size of the social network, socioemotional selectivity theory suggests that,
ideally, older people prefer to have relatively small networks, emphasizing
emotionally close social partners. The importance of emotional ties increases
in old age (Carstensen et al., 1999). Younger people, by contrast, have rela-
tively larger, more diverse networks that include a high proportion of relatively
new social partners. But, as people get older, they become increasingly aware
that time is “running out.” More social contacts feels superficial—in contrast
to deepening ties of close relationships and pursuing emotionally meaningful
goals (Carstensen et al., 1999).
The De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale has also met with some criticism.
One strand points at the lack of precision in the items in the scale, which may
result in aspects of mental health and well-being other than loneliness being
measured (Shaver & Brennan, 1991). Kirova (2003) suggests that multiple
question scales focus more on measuring individuals’ perceived social deficits.
Items like “I often feel rejected” and “I experience a general sense of empti-
ness” may refer to other mental states—such as depression, for instance.
Further, asking about numbers of close relationships (many, plenty, enough)
may trigger a negative feeling of being socially unsuccessful and make people
think that they “should” have more contacts. Thus, also items included in the
multi-question loneliness scales may elicit “socially acceptable” responses.
Given the decision to measure loneliness indirectly, nevertheless most
measures (like the De Jong Gierveld Scale) are validated by showing that
they correlate with direct self-reports of loneliness (Shaver & Brennan,
1991, p. 248).
women are consistently more likely to report being lonely than men (Jylhä,
2004; Pinquart & Sörensen, 2001; Savikko, Routasalo, Tilvis, Strandberg,
& Pitkälä, 2005; Victor & Yang, 2012). The finding that men are less lonely
appears to be related to men’s greater reluctance to disclose socially
undesirable feelings (Borys & Perlman, 1985). Some studies find that
female gender is independently associated with loneliness (Savikko et al.,
2005), others find no gender difference once other factors like marital
status, age, health, and living arrangements are controlled for (Aartsen &
Jylhä, 2011; Jylhä, 2004; Nicolaisen & Thorsen, 2012; Victor, Scambler, et al.,
2005). When measures that avoid the word loneliness are used, such as
the De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale or the UCLA Loneliness Scale, no
gender differences are consistently found (Pinquart & Sörensen, 2003).
Some studies, using separate scales for social and emotional loneliness,
with the aid of the De Jong Gierveld subscales of loneliness, find that
men appear to be less emotionally lonely but more socially lonely than
women (de Jong Gierveld & van Tilburg, 2010; Dykstra & de Jong Gierveld,
2004). Steed, Boldy, Grenade, and Iredell (2007) found that gender differences
regarding social networks and loneliness emerged only when loneliness was
measured by the De Jong Loneliness Scale.
One challenge in measuring the impact of social networks on loneliness—
applying the 11-item De Jong Gierveld Scale—relates to the fact that contact
with friends and confidants is included in this measure of loneliness.
The six-item scale does not have questions which ask specifically about contact
with friends but explores friendly social relations by asking—for example—
about people one trusts completely, people one can lean on when one has
problems, and people one feels close to (see the Methods section for the
wording of the six-scale items), with answers indicating satisfaction with
the number of people.
Regardless of the measure of loneliness that is used, marital status and
living arrangements are consistently found to be correlated with loneliness.
Those who are married or living with someone are less likely to be lonely
than those who live alone (Nicolaisen & Thorsen, 2012; Pinquart & Sörensen,
2003; Sundström et al., 2009; Victor & Yang, 2012).
Being in poor health (by various measures) is also associated with loneli-
ness. The association between health and loneliness seems to go both ways:
being in poor health predicts loneliness (Cohen-Mansfield, Shmotkin, &
Goldberg, 2009; Tijuis, de Jong Gierveld, Feskens, & Kromhout, 1999),
and loneliness predicts poor health (Luo, Hawkley, Waite, & Cacioppo, 2012;
Nummela, Seppänen, & Uutela, 2011). Subjective health is a commonly
used measure in loneliness studies. It seems to be a summary of one’s status
in many health-related domains (Deeg & Bath, 2003; Moum, 1992).
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METHOD
Data
The study uses data from the cross-sectional LOGG (Life Course, Gener-
ation and Gender) study conducted in 2007-2008 with a sample of people
18–81 years old at the time of the interview. LOGG merges two studies: the
second wave of the Norwegian Life Course, Ageing and Generation
study (NorLAG) and the first wave of the Generations and Gender Survey
(GGS-Norway). The LOGG study uses a combination of telephone interviews
(CATI) and postal questionnaires. The response rate to the telephone inter-
view was 60.0%, and 72.5% of those interviewed by telephone subsequently
answered the postal questionnaire. Response rates were lower in the youngest
(18-29) and the oldest (70-79) groups and among persons with lower education
(Bjørshol, Høstmark, & Lagerstrøm, 2010). The sample does not include
people living in institutions. This study uses data from those who answered
all the loneliness questions (N = 14,743). The data on loneliness and health are
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from the telephone interview. Age and marital status/partnership are data
taken from public records (Statistics Norway), added with the respondents’
informed consent.
The data analyses are performed on four age groups, 18-29 years old, 30-49
years old, 50-64 years old, and 65-81 years old. In general, many of the
youngest group (18-29 years old) are students, do not have children, and have
not yet “settled down.” Most people 30-49 years old are in the middle of
their working careers. In this age group, most people still have children
living in the household. In the age group 50-64 years old, most households
are smaller, as children have grown up and moved out. Some people have left
the work force, most of them because of health problems. In the oldest group,
65-81 years old, employment rates are low because most people have left
the work force. As people approach advanced age, deteriorating health and
the loss of a partner become more prevalent.
Measuring Instruments
Measures of Loneliness
The study used two measures of loneliness: a direct single question and
a multiple-question scale, the six-item De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale
(de Jong Gierveld & van Tilburg, 2006). Whereas the De Jong Gierveld
measure assesses severity of loneliness, the single-item measure probes fre-
quency of loneliness (Iecovich, 2013). The direct single question assesses
loneliness by the global question: “Do you feel lonely?” Response categories
are 1 = “often,” 2 = “sometimes,” 3 = “seldom,” or 4 = “never.” The values
were recoded so that higher scores indicate more loneliness.
The De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale (as used in the GGS) encompasses
two components of loneliness: emotional and social. None of the items refers
directly to loneliness and the word “loneliness” was not used in the set of items.
The items of the scale related to emotional loneliness are three negatively
formulated items: “I experience a general sense of emptiness,” “I miss having
people around,” and “Often, I feel rejected.” The items of social loneliness
are three positively formulated items: “There are plenty of people that I can
lean on in case of trouble,” “There are many people that I can count on
completely,” and “There are enough people that I feel close to.” Answer
categories for the De Jong Gierveld scale varies according to how the data
are collected. The response categories are “yes!,” “yes,” “more or less,”
“no,” and “no!,” or “yes,” “more or less,” and “no,” and differs for face-to-face
interviews, telephone interviews, and mail questionnaires. In the LOGG
study, the items had five similar response categories: “strongly agree,” “tend to
agree,” “neither agree nor disagree,” “tend to disagree,” “strongly disagree.”
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Processing the scale data entailed counting neutral and positive answers
(“neither agree nor disagree,”1 “strongly agree,” and “tend to agree”) on the
negatively formulated items (measuring emotional loneliness) and counting
neutral and negative answers (“neither agree nor disagree,” “strongly dis-
agree,” and “tend to disagree”) on the positively formulated items (measuring
social loneliness).2 The resulting loneliness scale scores range from 0
(not lonely) to 6 (intensely lonely).
The reliability coefficient (Cronbach’s alpha) is 0.67 for the total
sample. The alphas of the four age groups in our study, 18-29, 30-49,
50-64, and 65-81 are, respectively: 0.67, 0.68, 0.67, and 0.63. That is, for
most groups, the reliability scores are about 0.7 and are thus considered to
be quite good.3
Using the De Jong Gierveld Scale, those who score 2 or more experience
loneliness (to various degrees). This dichotomization is in accordance with
previous studies (Fokkema & Naderi, 2013). Similarly, using the direct
one-item measure of loneliness, those who experience loneliness often or
sometimes are considered as “lonely” (to various degrees) (i.e., Holmén
& Furukawa, 2002; Thorsen, 1990; Tiikkainen & Heikkinen, 2005). In the
literature, we have not found further cut-points on the short De Jong Scale,
comparable to the responses to the direct one-item measure of loneliness.
Hence, we have used the dichotomized versions when comparing the fre-
quencies of the two measures directly.
Independent Variables
1 The “neither agree nor disagree” answers (equivalent to “more or less”) are not
considered to be neutral answers but indicators of loneliness (de Jong Gierveld &
Kamphuis, 1985), given the social stigma associated with loneliness (Dykstra et al., 2005).
2 de Jong Gierveld and van Tilburg (1999) note that in view of the available computer
programs, they had to dichotomize the item scores. New releases of the computer programs
allow multi-categorical item scores. For the time being, de Jong Gierveld and van Tilburg
(1999) prefer the scale score based on dichotomous scores, which facilitate comparison
of results with earlier studies. However, some recent studies (using the 11-item scale)
have used scale scores based on multi-categorical item scores (Iecovich, 2013).
3 When using the original five-item scores, the reliability/internal validity is better:
For the unidimensional, overall loneliness scale, reliability of internal consistency
showed a Cronbach’s a of 0.75 calculated with the original multi-categorical (five
response) item scores (strongly agree–strongly disagree), compared to an a of 0.67 with
the dichotomized item scores.
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Analyses
The data were analyzed using SPSS version 19.0. In the analyses we measure
loneliness by a direct measure of loneliness and by the six-item De Jong
Gierveld Loneliness Scale and explore and compare the associations between
loneliness by the respective two measures and key correlates including
gender, age, subjective health, and partner status. Blockwise multiple regres-
sion analysis is applied to assess the relative significance of the independent
variables for loneliness by the two measures. Age is introduced at step 1.
At step 2, gender is entered. At step 3, health is entered. At step 4, partner
status is entered into the model. Each model is estimated separately for the
four age groups under study (18-29, 30-49, 50-64, and 65-81). An alpha
level of 0.05 is used for all statistical tests.
Both parametric and non-parametric tests were performed because loneli-
ness score distributions were skewed. That is, most respondents do not feel
lonely and/or have low scores on the De Jong Gierveld Scale. Since these
tests revealed similar results, only parametric test results are presented.
RESULTS
The mean age of the sample is 46.41 (SD 16.01). The sample consists
of slightly more women than men (50.7% vs. 49.3%), and the majority
(55.5%) are in excellent or very good health. Most respondents are married
or cohabitant (67.4%) (see Table 1).
Table 2 displays the frequency of loneliness, measured by the six-item
De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale, and by the the direct single question.
According to the De Jong Gierveld Scale, 24% experience loneliness (to
various degrees, score 2-6). According to the direct measure, 21% experience
loneliness often or sometimes.
Overall, the prevalence of loneliness seems quite similar when using the
De Jong Gierveld Scale and the direct self-rating measure. Descriptive statistics
of the scores in the different age groups under study (Table 3) reinforce this
impression of similarity in the results.
However, three out of four age groups seem to be slightly lonelier when
using the De Jong Gierveld Scale than when using the direct measure
of loneliness. The only exception is the youngest group, aged 18-29. But
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Variables N %
Gender
Men 7,268 49.3
Women 7,475 50.7
Age
18-29 2,550 17.3
30-49 5,946 40.3
50-64 3,948 26.8
65-81 2,299 15.6
Subjective health
Excellent 3,542 24.0
Very good 4,638 31.5
Good 3,489 23.7
Fair 2,330 15.8
Poor 729 4.9
Marital status
Married/cohabitant 9,944 67.4
Not married/cohabitant 4,799 32.6
De Jong Gierveld
(21%) is characterized as lonely by one measure but not lonely by the other
measure (table not shown).
Also, the association between gender and loneliness differs depending on
which measure we use. If we measure loneliness with the direct single question,
women are significantly more often lonely than men. Using the De Jong
Gierveld Scale, men are significantly lonelier than women in the younger
groups (18-29 years old and 30-49 years old), but not in the older groups (50-64
years old and 65-81 years old) (table not shown).
We examined whether there was a gender difference in emotional loneli-
ness and social loneliness respectively in our material, using cross-tabulations
and chi-square significance tests. The results from these additional analyses
showed that men are more socially lonely than women in all age groups, and
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De Jong Gierveld
Total
Variable sample 18-29 30-49 50-64 65-81
Total
Variable sample 18-29 30-49 50-64 65-81
especially among those aged 30-49 (Chi square = 71.00, p < .001) and 50–64
(Chi square = 32.12, p < .001). Women are somewhat more emotionally lonely
than men, but only in the two oldest age groups, among those aged 50-64
(Chi square = 8.66, p = .034) and 65-81 (Chi square = 29.61, p < .001).
Multivariate Analysis
Age 30-49a .06 .03 .02 .050 .06 .03 .02 .050 .01 .03 .00 .738 .24 .03 .09 <.001
Age 50-64a .11 .03 .04 .001 .11 .03 .04 .001 –.07 .03 –.02 .045 .16 .03 .05 <.001
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Age 65-81a .31 .04 .09 <.001 .31 .04 .09 <.001 .07 .04 .02 .085 .23 .04 .07 <.001
Female –.09 .02 –.04 <.001 –.12 .02 –.05 <.001 –.14 .02 –.06 <.001
Age .00 .01 .01 .548 .01 .01 .01 .519 –.00 .01 –.00 .856 .01 .01 .03 .127
Female –.12 .05 –.05 .019 –.15 .05 –.06 .002 –.11 .05 –.05 .022
Health .28 .02 .23 <.001 .28 .02 .22 <.001
Partner –.23 .06 –.09 <.001
R square .000 .002 .053 .059
R square .000 .002 .050 .006
change
F change .361 5.56 135.38 16.36
(p-value) (.548) (.019) (<.001) (<.001)
30-49 years
Age .00 .00 .01 .549 .00 .00 .01 .521 –.00 .00 –.01 .441 .00 .00 –.00 .897
Female –.17 .03 –.07 <.001 –.21 .03 –.08 <.001 –.21 .03 –.08 <.001
Health .28 .02 .24 <.001 .27 .02 .23 <.001
Partner –.55 .04 –.18 <.001
R square .000 .004 .059 .090
R square .000 .004 .055 .031
change
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F change 5.61 3.08 196.42 188.14
(p-value) (.018) (.079) (<.001) (<.001)
65-81 years
Age .02 .01 .08 <.001 .02 .01 .08 <.001 .02 .01 .06 .002 .01 .01 .04 .072
Female .09 .06 .03 .124 .07 .06 .03 .202 –.09 .06 –.03 .108
Health .23 .02 .20 <.001 .22 .02 .19 <.001
Partner –.65 .06 –.23 <.001
R square .007 .008 .047 .094
R square .007 .001 .039 .048
change
F change 15.01 2.36 93.66 120.94
(p-value) (<.001) (.124) (<.001) (<.001)
aReference category: age 18-29.
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also depend on what loneliness measures are used. Studies exploring the
impact of different measures have focused on elderly people (Shiovitz-Ezra
& Ayalon, 2012; Victor, Grenade, et al., 2005). This study has empirically
used two frequently used measures of loneliness, a single direct question of
loneliness and the (indirect) six-item De Jong Gierveld Loneliness Scale,
comparing loneliness among men and women in different age groups (18-29,
30-49, 50-64, 65-81). Overall, the results from using the direct and indirect
measures indicated a similar prevalence of loneliness. However, we find that
the two different measures seem to provide rather different pictures of loneli-
ness in different age groups, ranging from 18 to 81 years. This age-range is
larger than the ones used in previous studies measuring loneliness among
elderly people both by a direct and by an indirect measure of loneliness
(Shiovitz-Ezra & Ayalon, 2012; Victor, Grenade, et al., 2005).
When applying the direct measure of loneliness in the present study, the
youngest (18-29 years old) and the oldest (65-81 years old) groups reported
loneliness most often. Applying the De Jong Gierveld Scale, we found a
significant and positive association between age and loneliness; the older
the more lonely.
As people reach older age, various changes and events—for example,
becoming retired, the deterioration of health and functional capacity, the
deaths of one’s partner and/or peers—become more likely and more prevalent,
resulting in more limited networks. Although de Jong Gierveld states that
loneliness is a subjective experience and, as such, is not directly related to
situational factors (de Jong Gierveld & van Tilburg, 1999), several scale items
(the social loneliness items) emphasize and relate to the size of the respondent’s
network in different aspects of social relations. Thus, the scale may indicate
feelings of social deficiency, feelings of insufficient social relationships (or
feelings of not living up to social expectations) not always experienced as
loneliness. The same may apply to a sense of emptiness or a feeling of rejection.
Furthermore, our multivariate analyses yielded different rankings of the
(key) factors associated with loneliness by the two measures, both for the whole
sample and for the different age groups under study. Overall, partner status
showed the strongest association when loneliness was measured by the single
direct question. Health showed a stronger association with loneliness than
did partner status when loneliness was measured indirectly by the De Jong
Gierveld Loneliness Scale.
Social losses in old age make people more vulnerable to loneliness. But
elderly people have coping strategies and reactions, making adaptations to
changed social realities (Baltes & Carstensen, 1996). They may lower their
aspirations and expectations concerning social network and social activities.
Older people with smaller networks and fewer social activities may not feel
Table 5. Predictors of Loneliness Measured by the (Single Item) Direct Question about Loneliness among
People in Different Age Groups
Direct Measure of Loneliness
Total Sample
Age 30-49a –.14 .02 –.08 <.001 –.14 .02 –.09 <.001 –.17 .02 –.10 <.001 .03 .02 .02 .096
Age 50-64a –.13 .02 –.07 <.001 –.13 .02 –.07 <.001 –.22 .02 –.12 <.001 –.01 .02 –.01 .528
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Age 65-81a –.09 .02 –.04 <.001 –.09 .02 –.04 <.001 –.21 .02 –.09 <.001 –.06 .02 –.03 .013
Female .17 .01 .11 <.001 .16 .01 .10 <.001 .14 .01 .09 <.001
Age .00 .01 .01 .794 .00 .01 .00 .862 –.00 .01 –.01 .685 .02 .01 .07 .001
Female .15 .03 .09 (<.001) .13 .03 .08 <.001 .18 .03 .12 <.001
Health .13 .02 .16 <.001 .12 .02 .16 <.001
Partner –.33 .04 –.20 <.001
R square .000 .009 .033 .064
R square .000 .009 .025 .031
change
F change .07 22.09 64.63 84.97
(p-value) (.794) (<.001) (<.001) (<.001)
30-49 years
Age –.00 .00 –.03 .027 –.00 .00 –.03 .022 –.01 .00 –.04 .001 –.01 .00 –.03 .008
Female .14 .02 .09 <.001 .12 .02 .08 <.001 –.12 .02 .08 <.001
Health .14 .01 .19 <.001 .13 .01 .19 <.001
Partner –.49 .02 –.26 <.001
R square .001 .009 .045 .112
R square .001 .008 .036 .066
change
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change
F change .99 43.85 129.89 312.81
(p-value) (.319) (<.001) (<.001) (<.001)
65-81 years
Age .01 .00 .05 .011 .01 .00 .05 .023 .01 .00 .03 .092 .00 .00 –.00 .937
Female .29 .04 .16 <.001 .28 .04 .16 <.001 .14 .04 .08 <.001
Health .12 .02 .15 <.001 .11 .02 .14 <.001
Partner –.57 .04 –.31 <.001
R square .003 .028 .052 .137
R square .003 .026 .023 .085
change
F change 6.53 60.45 56.22 226.79
(p-value) (.011) (<.001) (<.001) (<.001)
aReference category: age 18-29.
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lonely, or the feelings of loneliness may be diminished (Baltes & Baltes, 1990).
The age difference in loneliness is linear, and larger when using the De Jong
Gierveld Scale than when using the direct measure of loneliness. This may
indicate some adjustment in aspiration, concerning the number of social rela-
tionships. However, due to the loss of a partner, close friends, or family
members through death, the probability of lacking an intimate attachment
figure increases with age. Thus, when people grow older, emotional loneli-
ness (Weiss, 1973) may become more widespread, and the loss of the most
important close relationships may increasingly have more impact on loneliness
than the number of social contacts.
Young people, by contrast, may have great aspirations for social success,
including many friends, being popular, living in a context of constant com-
parisons with other young people. They are preparing for the future, and
seeking diverse social networks (Carstensen et al., 1999), and hoping for
intimate social relations—a partner or spouse and a family life.
In accordance with previous studies (Jylhä, 2004; Nicolaisen & Thorsen,
2012; Pinquart & Sörensen, 2001; Savikko et al., 2005; Victor & Yang, 2012),
women were more often lonely than men in all age groups, using the direct
measure of loneliness. Using the De Jong Gierveld Scale, men were lonelier
than women. This gender difference was found in the two youngest age
groups, but not in the two oldest groups (50-64 and 65-81 years old). When
other variables were controlled for, the gender difference was found in all
age groups, except in the oldest group (65-81).
The different findings using the two measures may be related to men’s
greater reluctance to “admit” to being lonely (Borys & Perlman, 1985) when
asked directly. An additional separate analysis of our data, splitting the De Jong
Gierveld items into the two sub-groups of emotional and social loneliness,
indicated that the gender difference was especially pronounced regarding
social loneliness, which accords with previous studies (de Jong Gierveld &
van Tilburg, 2010; Dykstra & de Jong Gierveld, 2004). This was found in all
age groups. Men were more socially lonely than women, or put differently:
it was easier for men to admit to a lack of social contacts than to emotions
of missing contact. We found that women were more emotionally lonely
than men in the two oldest age groups (50-64 and 65-81) with this measure,
which would be expected since women generally lose their partner earlier
than men and live alone for a longer time.
Returning to the definition of loneliness by Peplau and Perlman (1982),
which summarizes the common elements of the loneliness concept in
studies: loneliness is the negative feeling of a gap between the contact that is
desired and the contact that is experienced. Lonely people want more social
contact—qualitatively and quantitatively—than they currently feel they have.
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The authors would like to thank the IJAHD reviewers and the editor for
their valuable suggestions and comments.
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