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Hey Chicago,
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If columnist Ismael Pérez doesn’t have the answers, chances are another Chicagoan will.
With this column — through every insecurity we overcome, gems we discover throughout our city, new passions we find within ourselves — you’ll leave feeling connected to someone in Chicago.
Make him do you the favor of leaving by giving his presence purpose elsewhere.
Behind any kind of reward there should be recognition.
When we refuse to listen to the signs that tell us to slow down, the universe intervenes, and it’s not always pretty.
When in doubt, turn to what you feel is good, and use that to define your own purpose during your time on Earth.
You can still be friendly, but you have to stop treating your crush like a friend.
A good way to reach everyone feeling like they are doing just “enough” is to sit down with your spouse and talk about splitting responsibilities equitably based on availability and contribution toward the household.
Sometimes in order to maintain peace with those we love, we have to face things that make us uncomfortable and try our best to work it out.
It’s important to remember who you started this relationship journey with and why.
If we sometimes forget our manners from time to time, try to be patient with little kids who are still figuring out how they fit into civilization.
Trying to be selfless is understandable, but you really need to put yourself first.