Emotional Effects of Parenting Styles Among Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Sciences (HUMSS) Students of Holy Family Academy
Emotional Effects of Parenting Styles Among Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Sciences (HUMSS) Students of Holy Family Academy
Emotional Effects of Parenting Styles Among Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Sciences (HUMSS) Students of Holy Family Academy
Members:
Andal, Juvylene P.
Pagkaliwangan, Renalyn G.
Torregoza, Charisse B.
APPROVAL SHEET
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
The making of this study passes a great challenge in the life of researchers
which ultimately gives inspiration for its completion. The researchers particularly
indebted to those persons and wished their heartfelt thanks and gratitude to all the
people who shared their generous assistance, continuous encouragement and full
Mr. Edwin Cubero, researcher’s professor, for his valuable help, suggestions,
Mrs. Matilde P. Castillo, Principal of Holy Family Academy, for her kindness and
her approval to conduct this study for the concern on the progress of her students in
the campus.
to their families for the nonstop support physically, emotionally and financially.
The Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Sciences Students of Holy Family
Academy and their Parents, researcher’s respondents who gave their full
All those Great Persons, whose not mentioned for their incomparable, full
Above all, to our, GOD ALMIGHTY for he is always at the researcher’s side, guiding,
helping and sustaining light to their minds in order to keep everything right as for as
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DEDICATION
has been the source of our strength throughout the entire process of creating this
study. We also dedicated this study to our parents, for their word of encouragement
and for their endless love and support for us to accomplish this piece of work. For
our professor, Mr. Edwin Cubero for his unending support, patience, efforts and
advice to make this study possible and for teaching us the things we still need to
know as we go along the process. Also those friends, classmates and all the people
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Title Page
Approval Sheet
Acknowledgement ………………………………………………….i
Dedication……………………………………………………………ii
Table of Contents…………………………………………………...iii
List of Tables……………………………………………..…………v
List of Figures………….…………………………………………...vi
List of Appendices…………………….…………………………...vii
Introduction 1
Conceptual Framework 4
Definition of Terms 7
Parenting Styles 9
Dos of Parenting 15
Synthesis 16
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III. RESEARCH METHODOLOGY
Research Design 18
Research Locale 19
Sampling Technique 20
Research Instruments 20
Findings 34
Conclusions 35
Recommendations 37
REFERENCES 38
APPENDICES 39
CURRICULUM VITAE 44
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LIST OF TABLES
Table
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LIST OF FIGURES
Figure
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LIST OF APPENDICES
Appendix
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CHAPTER 1
Introduction
Parents play a vital role in fostering their child’s growth and development.
They are the ones who are responsible for taking care of their children to be fully
developed in all aspects. But many parents are not aware of the implications of
Parenting style refers to how parents handle their children and how they
behave around their children. Parenting styles refer to a global construct reflective
the parental behaviors and attitudes towards their children and the qualities of
interactions and relationships among parents and children and used to categorize
and attitudes which are shown by parents in rearing their children (Gota, 2012). On
the other hand, Baumrind (2013) also defined parenting style as a stable indication
of the overall climate of the parent-child relationship over time. Like in some
instances, the more focused the parents to their child the more likely the child excels
in all aspects of his life. The parents’ affection to their children is very efficient in
building stronger personality to cope up with every situation in life. Diana Baumrind
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and Martin added the fourth style of parenting and they called it as “uninvolved
parenting style.” The four types of parenting styles are categorized according to the
the family by demanding maturity in their children, supervising and disciplining their
cognizant and supportive of their children’s interest, needs and demands (Abesha,
2012). In a recent study, Baumrind (2013) suggests that rather than responsiveness
and firm behavioral control versus lax behavioral control can be used to
The different types of parenting style have various causes that may affect
study Morris, Cui, & Steinberg (2013) denote that parenting style is related to the
emotions, parental expression of emotion, and the overall emotional climate of the
parent-child relationship. Additionally (Calafat et al., 2014) also state that parenting
style may have a greater impact on shaping a child's daily activities, eating
behaviors, and emotional functioning. It has an impact to how a child regulates their
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emotions in certain situations. There are children who can cope up and control their
emotions. Children who are aware of their emotions have the lower risk of having an
anxiety disorder. But there are also children who do not know how to regulate their
emotions particularly when they are in trouble or having a hard time. Youth who
cannot regulate his emotions may undergo to the possibilities of committing violent
crimes, having an anxiety disorder and to end his own suffering by committing
Puliafico, & Kurtz, 2014). In addition to, studies show that anxiety in childhood
usually leads to anxiety during adulthood along with additional mood and
externalizing disorders (Carpenter et al., 2014). It means that if one parent can deal
with the presence of anxiety on their children they can avoid of having mental health
disorder in their adulthood. In able them to deal and identify their emotions, parents
should guide and motivate them in solving their problems. Parents can help children
style to the child's emotional aspects. We will able to address the positive and
negative emotional effects associated with each parenting style. This type of
research is truly important because as of today there are a lot of adolescents who
are suffering from depression, anxiety, and other mental health disorder. This will
give parents suggested ways to improve both their parenting and the development of
their children. Further research on the effects of parenting style on the emotional
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Conceptual Framework
independent and dependent variables. The independent variables of this study were
parenting styles which were divided into the following component; authoritative
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parenting style, authoritarian parenting style, permissive parenting style, and
uninvolved parenting style. The dependent variable was the emotional state of
Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Sciences (HUMSS) student at Holy Family
Academy. Wherein, the independent variable has a contingent positive and negative
influence on the dependent variable. It also shows the positive and the negative
This study aims to identify the effects of the different parenting styles in the
emotional state of the child, particularly the Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social
1. What type of parenting style is commonly used by the parents of Grade 11 and 12
2. What are the positive emotional effects of the different parenting styles to
students?
3. What are the negative emotional effects of the different parenting styles to
students?
4. What are the ways to improve the application of the different parenting styles?
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Significance of the Study
The different parenting styles can have a huge contribution to the child’s
growth and development and to their consciousness as a child. The study includes
the positive and negative effects of the application of the different parenting styles.
Parents. This research can help them to have a sense of ethical and proper
enough or they will still have shortcomings in fulfilling their responsibilities and
duties as parents and above all, to determine what is the most accurate
Children. With the help of this study, children will know the concept of parenting
Community. This study will help them to deal with the emotional stability of the
children within the community. It will change the traditional practices and
beliefs about disciplining a child in his early age. They will also realize the
Future Researchers. The research will guide them and it will help them to have
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This study aims to provide readers a wider knowledge about the topic. The
focus of the study is to examine the effects of parenting styles to the emotional
aspects of the Grade 11 and 12 Humanities and Social Science (HUMSS) students
The study therefore does not include those HUMSS student who is not living
together with their parents, who is living with their guardians. Also, it only
investigates one parent, assuming that the other parent acts similarly with the
questioned parent, without taking consideration of both mother and father. The study
is delimited by the sources of data and information that the researchers need. This
study does not also cover the effects of parenting style to the intellectual,
Definition of Terms
Authoritarian parent. This term is the kind of parents that are rejecting and
In this study this term used as a kind of parent that is too strict about
their rules among their child but they are not being able to tell what is the real
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Authoritative parent. This term refers to the parents who are high on acceptance
In this study this term used as a kind of parent that is thorough and
(McCrae, 2009).
In this study, the term refers to the hindrance and difficulty that the
In this study the term refers to how parents handle their children and
Permissive parent. This term refers to kind of parent that promotes psychological
In this study this term used as a kind of parent that warm, responsive
Uninvolved parent. This term refers to a kind of parent that is rejecting and has lax
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In this study this term used as a kind of parent that cold, unresponsive
CHAPTER 2
This chapter deals with the presentation of related literature and studies use
Parenting Styles
Parenting style is the attitude that parents express to their children (Rosli,
a pattern of child rearing that is the result of parents’ reactions to their child or
children (Lau et al., 2012). Rosli (2014) also mentioned that parenting styles
about balance. In abstract, the authoritative parenting style places limits and controls
communication with their parents. In an authoritative household, the fair and age
appropriate rules are plainly stated for the children. The children are always
permitted to speak their minds in the authoritative household, but the final decisions
lie in the hands of the parents because they believe that they know what is best for
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their children (Williams, 2013). He also mentioned that authoritative parents tend to
think of themselves as personal role models for their children. Additionally, these
parents are more likely to support their children in obtaining goals through
and developed their own identities, but at the same time they also provide rules and
boundaries for their children (Grolnick & Pomerantz, 2009). Due to the guidance
children receive, once authoritative parents set rules and guidelines, the children
tend to follow them consistently (Timpano et al., 2010). In this parenting style, two
way communications exists between parents and students, which helps develop
parenting tends to lead to the most positive child outcomes including appropriate
The authoritarian parenting style is also based upon very rigid disciplinary
rules; therefore, failure to comply with these rules often results in severe punishment
for the children (Williams, 2013). The parents tend to be conservative and strict. The
children are given little choice and have to follow parents’ orders (Gfroerer et al.,
2004). They punish their children harshly through the exercise of parental power,
specifically threats (Miller, Lambert, & Neumiester, 2012). These actions have been
their ability to live life on their own and take on certain leadership positions as adults
(Williams, 2013). Parents have expectations, and children are not allowed to disobey
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their parents (Takeuchi & Takeuchi, 2008). Another characteristic of authoritarian
parenting is that authoritarian parents talk to their children rather than with their
children and do not consult with their children when making decisions (Alegre,
2011). This one way communication does not gave children space to express their
needs and does not give children reasons for their expectations. Authoritarian
parents can be categorized as demanding, expect much of their children, and are
parenting is restrictive, rigid and punitive where parents pressure children to follow
their direction and to respect their words and efforts (Timpano et al., 2010). Marsiglia
et al., (2007) also founded authoritarian parents punitive their children with physical
warmth and affection toward their children and do not stray from their rigid parenting
freedom to act without monitoring and setting limits. Hoeve et al., (2009) found that
permissive parents show high responsiveness and support for their children, while at
the same time having low or little control of the children. Permissive parents hope
that by giving their children freedom, their relationship with their children will become
closer (Marsiglia et al., 2007). Gfroerer et al., (2004) emphasized that permissive
parents are more liberal and give full autonomy to children and support what children
like to do. Some instances of permissive parenting are when children are permitted
to regulate their own behaviors; the children are in an ideal position to learn how to
be independent. They aim to make their children the center of their lives, doing
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everything for them to the extent that the children never learn how to care for
others because they have not been given any direction or routines to follow as
children in order that they might develop self-sufficiency; nor have they been given
parents often plan and regulate their own activities at a young age without parental
attention. Lee et al., (2006) found that while parents with a permissive parenting
style are responsive to the children, they fail to set expectations or boundaries for
their children. Permissive parenting style is potentially unsafe for children because it
Mccoby and Martin later added the fourth parenting style, the uninvolved
parenting. Uninvolved parents are rejecting and have lax behavioral control
parents showing low support and low control of their children. They pay less
attention and give little care to their children (Kim & Rohner, 2002). Alegre (2011)
do not set limits. Uninvolved parents do not pay attention to children’s emotions and
opinions. Parents may be emotionally unsupportive of their children, but still provide
for their basic needs such as foods and shelter. Children whose parents are
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uninvolved may feel that other aspects of the parents’ lives are more important than
they are. According to Lee et al., (2006), parents with uninvolved parenting style
The different parenting styles have its effects on the emotional aspect of the
(Liem, Cavell & Lustig, 2010). Also Jackson & Schemes (2005) found that
Authoritative parenting style also has an effect on life satisfaction. Children may feel
happy in their life when their parents show love and support consistently. According
also mentioned that when children grow up with authoritative parents, the way their
(2009) found that, adolescents who live with authoritarian parents had more
depression than those who lived with authoritative parents. Other researchers also
found that authoritarian parenting and depression are strongly correlated (Milevsky
et al., 2007). Thompson, Hollis & Richards (2003) also found that depression occurs
among children between the age of 5 and 10 if they live in an authoritarian home.
Taken together, the studies suggest that authoritarian parenting may contribute to
low self-esteem and authoritarian parents among children (Martinez & Garcia, 2008).
Other researchers found that compared to children who received warmth and
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acceptance behaviour from their parents, children who are controlled by their
parents may display low self- esteem (Barnow, Lucht, & Freyberger, 2005).
Additionally, Leung, McBride-Chang, & Lai (2004) stated that the element of control
and punitive nature of authoritarian parenting may cause children to feel unhappy
and dissatisfied with their life. It is suggested that authoritarian parenting may
minimize life satisfaction among children. According to Beck, Daley, Hastings, &
Stevenson (2004), authoritarian parenting, with less caring and firm characteristics,
will have a negative impact on children’s aggression. Moreover, strict and harsh
upbringing which includes yelling, scolding, spanking and physical punishment leads
to aggression among children (Knutson et al., 2005). Another study, Barnow et al.,
(2005), found that when children are exposed to strict parenting, they may show
aggressive attitude as a protest to their parents. Overall, one might say that children
what their children want to do and this attitude decreased depression among
contributes to depression among children because when parents are too lenient and
allowed whatever the children wish to do, the children have no focus and might do
something inappropriate. In addition, children who live with permissive parents, they
might show antisocial behaviour such as being rebellious and disruptive (Knutson et
al., 2004) One may predict that permissive parenting results in more problematic
children’s behaviour.
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Uninvolved parenting style also has an effect on children’s emotions and
depression, and sadness among children (Spinrad, Eisenberg, Harris, & Hanish et
al., 2004). Knutson et al., (2004) found that neglectful parenting, which included
Dos of Parenting
Here are some advices for the effective parenting. First, be consistent. Be
open and clear with the children about the absolute-no-budge rules, and then
enforce these rules all the time (Stöppler, 2012). If there are certain rules that the
parent are open to discussion about, make it clear that disobeying these rules
without first conversing together and being allowed reprisal will be considered a
breach of the rules and will be punished accordingly. For instance, if the parents are
open to allowing their children later curfew under certain circumstances, make it a
set rule that any deviation from a set curfew be first discussed and a new curfew
denoted before a later curfew is allowed. In addition, allow the child’s independence.
Setting limits for the child is only half the battle, to be a functional member of society
the child will also need to know how to control them and set their own limits.
Creating an open and accepting environment within your household will help
facilitate your child’s creativity, which will help grow their independence (Lim &
Smith, 2008). Furthermore, being involved in the child’s life is pivotal to their success
later in life. If the parents are involved in the child’s life, parents are more likely to
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know the situations they face on a daily basis and how are they going to handle
them. This knowledge will help them in making informed decisions about the rules
parents set, the leniencies they allow, and overall parenting method in general. It is
important to note that parents can never love their children too much. There is a
large difference between loving the child and spoiling the child – spoiling your child
is giving them something (new clothes, relaxed rules, etc.) in place of love (Stöppler,
2012).
Synthesis
various authors regarding the parenting style. It also includes the implications of
parenting style to the emotional aspect of a student. It also tackles brief and
comprehensive suggested ways in order for the parents to know the proper way to
Some of the authors provide their own insights regarding the different
parenting style in which Rosli (2014) states that parenting style is the attitude that
parents express to their children. On the other hand, Lau et al., (2012) notes that
parenting style is a pattern of child rearing that is the result of parents’ reactions to
their child or children. Meanwhile, Rosli (2014) states that parenting styles as
(2004) in authoritarian parenting style, the parents tend to be conservative and strict
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and their children are given little choice and have to follow parents’ orders. For
permissive parenting style, Hoeve et al., (2009) found that permissive parents show
high responsiveness and support for their children, while at the same time having
low or little control of the children. Moreover In uninvolved parenting style, Kim &
Rohner (2002) emphasize that parents pay less attention and give little care to their
children. Another set of authors provided their studies about the possible emotional
effects of the different effects when children grow up with authoritative parents, the
way their parents nurture them may help these children become mature. Joshi et al.,
(2009) also mentioned that, adolescents who live with authoritarian parents had
more depression than those who lived with authoritative parents. Milevsky et al.,
Eisenberg & Harris, et al., (2004) cites that uninvolved parenting led to
dissatisfaction, depression, and sadness among children. Some of the authors also
provided advices for the effective parenting, according to Stöppler (2012) parents
should be consistent, be open and clear, as well as be involved in the child’s life.
Furthermore, Lim & Smith (2008) suggests that creating an open and accepting
environment within your household will help facilitate your child’s creativity, which
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CHAPTER 3
METHODOLOGY
This chapter presents the methods used in this study to examine the
presents the methods used to know the effects of different parenting styles to the
emotional state of children. It contains the research design, research locale, sample
analysis procedure.
Research Design
the gathering of information about prevailing conditions or situations for the purpose
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amassing and tabulating facts but includes proper analyses, interpretation,
This study was also conducted using mixed method research design.
Mixed method research represents research that involves collecting, analyzing, and
studies that investigates the same underlying phenomenon (Leech & Onwuegbuzie,
2008). Criswell & Clark (2007) indicates that the central premise of mixed method
In this study the researchers used both forms of data; the quantitative and
qualitative data. After gathering both forms of data they integrate overall
Research locale
Garcia, Batangas, particularly within the grounds of Holy Family Academy. The
survey was only held at the Senior high school department specifically in the
Holy Family Academy (HFA) is the only catholic school within the
1962. This is the fourth OSJ School built after Saint James Academy, Saint Joseph
Institute and Our Lady of Mercy Academy. The said institution offers education for
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Sample or the Respondents
The respondents in this study were the Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students
of Holy Family Academy Academic School Year 2017-2018. The Grade 11 HUMSS
has three sections including St. Catherine of Sienna (45 students), St. Joan of Arc
(46 students) and St.Teresa of Avila (43 students). On the other hand, the Grade 12
HUMSS has two sections including St. Joseph Marello (38 students), and St. John
Bosco (38 students). The total number of students in combining the five sections
was two hundred ten (210) but only fifty (50) students able to answer the survey
form given because some of those who did not answer were not present, varsity
players, not willing to participate, and not qualified to be one of our respondents.
Because there is an inclusion criteria for the students to be included in the survey
that the researchers going to conduct were either one or both of their parents should
be together with him/her in their homes. The reason is that they will include the
Sampling technique
2005). For this purpose, the population is divided into a number of parts called
sampling units. Sampling techniques can be simple random, cluster, stratified and
non-random sampling. But in this study the researchers decided to use the cluster
sampling wherein it has two stages: (1) a sample of areas is chosen (Holy Family
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and 12 HUMSS Students). In cluster sampling, sampling units are groups rather
than individuals.
Research Instruments
collecting data are: 1) it is simple to administer; 2) the data obtained is reliable; and
3) the coding, analysis and interpretation of data are relatively simple and straight
forward.
There are two set of questionnaires that separates the questions for the
student and to their parents. The questionnaire for parents consists of forty (40)
style; thirteen items relate to authoritarian parenting style; nine items relate to
permissive parenting style and there are five question related to uninvolved
parenting style. Likert-type scale was applied to all the questions in the
ranging from 4- Always to 1- Never). The advantages of Likert scaling are that it is
easy to construct and understand as well as flexible and economic in terms of space
determine the effects of parenting style to their emotional aspect. The said
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questionnaires are construct and develop based on other related studies and
(Fraenkel & Wallen, 2003) and measure attitudes and opinions of groups towards
certain issues (Ary et al., 2002). Surveys can be conducted through various methods
such as mail, telephone, and personal interviews. This research adopted a self-
conduct a survey was secured and given to the principal of Holy Family Academy.
HUMMS Students wherein the questionnaire for parents was sent home with each
child. The researchers went from one section to another to discuss the significance
collected the answered questionnaire and expressed their gratitude to those who
participate and cooperated in the data gathering. After which, data gathered were
First, the researchers collected all the data they have gathered.
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Next, they started to analyze the collected data using Statistical Package for
Social Sciences (SPSS) version 16.0. SPSS is a windows based program that can
be used to perform data entry and analysis and to create tables and graphs (Field,
2009)
They analyze the collected data by encoding the frequency tally; measuring
the central tendency particularly the mean. Then, the researchers calculated the
Subsequently, each data was tabulated using the scale and verbal
interpretation below.
Then, the researchers started to interpret and analyze each result. When the
researchers got done interpreting, they do the conclusions based from the facts
presented by the analyze data as well as the information coming from related
recommendations that could be offer to the parents, children, and future research.
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CHAPTER 4
This chapter presents the analysis and interpretation of data that we gathered
in this study.
Table 1
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6. I explain the reasons behind 3.08 Practiced
my expectations.
Authoritative Parenting Style. The result reveals that questions are practiced except
the statement 1 and 11 which are highly practiced. Then it depicts that this parenting
style is widely practiced by most of the parents wherein the weighted mean is 3.30
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1.2 Authoritarian Parenting Style
Table 2
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make sure he/she will not do them
again.
Authoritarian Parenting Style. The result reveals that though the statement 12 is
highly practiced and statements 1, 2, 3, 10, 11, and 13 is practiced by some parents
but still the weighted mean is 2.53 that means this parenting style is practiced.
Table 3
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6. I hate saying “No” to my child. 2.04 Less Practiced
Permissive Parenting Style. It reveals that the statement 3 is not practiced by most
of the parents and the statements 2, 5, 7, 8 and 9 are practiced by them still the
Table 4
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4. I don’t get real upset over my 2.32 Less Practiced
children’s mistakes.
the parents and the remaining statements are less practiced by them. The result
reveals that the weighted mean is 2.13 which are under the scale of less practiced.
Table 5
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Uninvolved 2.13 Less Practiced
The Table 5 illustrates the mean of the different parenting style specifically
the Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and the Uninvolved. The results show
that the Authoritative Parenting Style is the most widely used by the parents with the
mean of 3.30 which is under the scale of Practiced ranged. The second commonly
used by the parents is the Authoritarian Parenting Style with the mean of 2.53 which
is under the Practiced range, then the Permissive Parenting Style with the mean of
2.48 that is also under the Less Practiced range and the least is the Uninvolved
Parenting Style with the mean of 2.13 which is also under the Less Practiced range.
Table 6
Well-focused 3 3.0 7
Well-determined 5 5.0 5
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The Table 6 shows that the three most listed positive effects of Authoritative
parenting style among Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students are maturity developed as
rank one with a percentage of 32.7, followed by being loved as rank two with a
percentage of 20.0 and being satisfied as rank three with a percentage of 19.0.
Table 7
The Table 7 shows that the three most listed positive effects of Authoritarian
parenting style among Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students are maturity developed as
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3. Negative Emotional Effects of different Parenting Styles to Students
Table 8
The Table 8 shows that the three most listed negative effects of Authoritative
parenting style among Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students are got upset as rank one
percentage of 25.7 and got stressed as rank three with a percentage of 10.9.
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2.3 Authoritarian Parenting Style
Table 9
The Table 9 shows that the three most listed negative effects of Authoritarian
parenting style among Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students are got stressed as rank
one with a percentage of 33.3, followed by feeling unloved, less motivated, got upset
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CHAPTER 5
This chapter presents the summary of the findings, the conclusions arrived
Findings
The analysis and interpretation of data resulted with the following findings
1. The study reveals the weighted mean of each parenting style practiced by
2. The research indicates that 32.7% of the total respondents said that one of the
positive effects of authoritative parenting style is that the children become mature,
20% students who said that they feel that they are being loved by their parent and
3. It also indicates that 71.4% of students sort out maturity developed as one of the
positive effects of authoritarian parenting style and 14.3% of the respondents said
4. The analyzed data indicates that 32.7% of the total respondents said that the
children that are raised by authoritative type of parents will more likely to get upset,
stressed.
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5. It also shows that 33.3% of the total respondents said that children raised by
authoritarian parents have a high risk to get stressed, 16.7% of the respondents said
that they feel being unloved and they become less-motivated, emotionally sensitive
Conclusions
The following conclusions were drawn from the foregoing summary of findings.
Mostly of the parent of Grade 11 and 12 HUMSS students practiced the authoritative
parenting style towards their child. It was the type of parents that understand their children’s
feelings and teach them how to regulate themselves (Marsiglia et al., 2007).
There are only two type of parenting style that is mostly practiced by the parents of Grade
11 and 12 HUMSS students at Holy Family Academy and that is authoritative and authoritarian
parenting style. While the other type like permissive and uninvolved parenting style sort out as less
practiced.
have really positive effects towards children’s emotional aspect. This research
reveals that in spite of the positive impact of the two existing type of parenting style
at Holy Family Academy, it also has a negative effects to the children’s emotional
effects.
In this study the researchers concludes the following; children who are
Although authoritative parenting possesses authority or power and later giving the
reason of giving authority, child accepts it as their parent’s way of love and care for
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them. In that perception, children feel the satisfaction and the love of being secured
and involved of their parents. Also, it made a child matured in their later adulthood.
The results further revealed that although authoritarian parenting style has
been said to have an impact to children negatively, it can also lead to a positive
authoritarian parenting style can also make children matured. Having a strict parents
or lacking support coming from them can result to children’s independence. Also,
children who are raised in this kind of environment seemed to be well-focused and
Researchers have established that even authoritative parenting has also a negative impact.
Even the children are always permitted to speak their minds in the authoritative
household, but the final decisions lie in the hands of the parents. There are times
that a child doesn’t accept the reason behind their rules and decision. In that case,
children are more likely to get upset and stressed and become emotionally sensitive.
experienced of feeling of being unloved, higher rates of stressed and getting upset,
who have low self-esteem and become emotionally sensitive. Thus, the researcers
Recommendations
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In the light of the findings and conclusions of the study, the following are
2. Children should learn to manage their emotions with the help of their parents.
3. It is important for parents to teach children the best ways to express their feelings
and they should also teach their children how to deal with distress and other
upsetting feelings.
4. For parents, there should also a wide focus and broader knowledge to the growth
5. Community should offer counselling to the students who are suffering emotional
problem.
6. Also, community should provide seminars for parents in order to improve the
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ACADEMY
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Oblates of Saint Joseph Schools
HOLY FAMILY ACADEMY
Banaba, Padre Garcia, Batangas
MATILDE P. CASTILLO
Principal
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Name: Status
Gender: No of Children:
Age:
Directions: Kindly put a check on the provided boxes according on how you often
engage in the different parenting practices, listed below. Score range from “Always”
to “Never”.
Part I:
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expectations.
16. I spank my child when I don’t like
what he/she does or says.
17. I use criticism to make my child
improve his/her behavior.
18. I enjoy the chaos of parenting.
19. I believe my children need freedom
to learn who they are.
20. I don’t keep track of what my
children are up to- they seem fine and
have teachers and child care providers
to watch over them.
21. I provide comfort and
understanding when my child is upset.
22. I compliment my child.
23. I use threats as a form of
punishment with little or no justification.
24. Uses physical punishment as a
way of disciplining our child.
25. I hate saying “No” to my child.
26. I don’t believe in lots of rules-when
I am with my children I want to enjoy
them and have fun, not be
disciplinarian.
27. I don’t get real upset over my
children’s mistakes.
28. I consider my child’s preferences
when I make plans for the family (e.g.,
weekends away and holidays)
29. I respect my child’s opinion and
encourage him/her to express them.
30. I openly criticize my child when
his/her behavior does not meet my
expectations.
31. I find myself struggling to try to
change how my child thinks or feels
about things.
32. I want my children to like me.
33. I try to keep up with my children’s
comings and goings, but sometimes
they won’t tell me.
34. I don’t give much attention to my
children; they seem to be doing fine.
35. I treat my child as an equal
member of the family.
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36. I provide my child reasons for the
expectations I have for him/her.
37. I feel the need to point out my
child’s past behavioral problems to
make sure he/she will not do them
again.
38. I remind my child that I am his/her
parent.
39. I have warm and intimate times
together with my child.
40. I remind my child of all the things I
am doing and I have done for him/her.
Based on: Robinson, C., Mandleco, B., Olsen, S.F., & Hart, C.H. (1995). Authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive parenting
practices: Development of a new measure. Psychological Reports, 77, 819-830.
Pitzer, R. (2001). What is your Parenting Style? A parenting styles self-assessment. St. Paul, MN: University of
Minnesota Extension
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Name: Gender:
Grade and Section: Age:
Part II:
Please answer the following questions with all honesty and sincerity.
1. What are the positive effects of your parents’ parenting style to your emotional
aspect? (Cite at least three).
1._____________________________________________________________
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2._____________________________________________________________
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3._____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
2. What are the negative effects of your parents’ parenting style to your emotional
aspect?
(Cite at least three)
1._____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
2._____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
3._____________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________
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Name: John Marvin Alcaraz Vergara
Contact No: 09071451860
Facebook Account: John Marvin Alcaraz Vergara
EDUCATION:
Senior High School Awards Received
Elementary
Bawi Elementary School
Bawi, Padre Garcia, Batangas
Skills
Computer Literate
Interests
Playing guitar
Playing basketball
Driving
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Name: Juvylene Palo Andal
Contact No: 09505109637
Facebook Account: Juvylene Abby Andal
Instagram Account: imabbyandalxx
EDUCATION:
Elementary
Bukal Elementary School Third Honorable Mention
Bukal, Padre Garcia, Batangas Best in Hekasi
Skills
Computer Literate
Communication Skill
Interests
Dancing
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Name: Anna Rose Serrano Ceria
Contact No: 09282585677
Facebook Account: Anna Rose Ceria
EDUCATION:
Elementary
Pansol Elementary School Salutatorian
Pansol, Padre Garcia, Batangas
Skills
Computer Literate
Communication Skill
Interests
Playing Futsal
Reading Books
Writing Poetry
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Name: Renalyn Garcia Pagkaliwangan
Contact No: 09159579457
Facebook Account: Renalyn Garcia Pagkaliwangan
EDUCATION:
Elementary
San Antonio Central School Perfect Attendance
Poblacion, San Antonio, Quezon Most Punctual
Skills
Computer Literate
Communication Skill
Interests
Writing Poetry
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Name: Charisse Baetiong Torregoza
Contact No: 09066867861
Facebook Account: Charisse Torregoza
Instagram Account: charrriisseee
EDUCATION:
Elementary
Padre Garcia Central School With Honor
Poblacion, Padre Garcia, Batangas
Skills
Computer Literate
Communication Skill
Interests
Playing Badminton
Driving
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