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    The Sarcasm Handbook
    The Sarcasm Handbook
    The Sarcasm Handbook
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    The Sarcasm Handbook

    By Lawrence Dorfman and James Michael Naccarato

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    From the author of the bestselling Snark series comes the premiere guide to satire, sneering, jeering, and mockery in their finest forms. A surviving knight of many a verbal joust, Larry Dorfman has become an expert at backhanded sass and cathartic banter.

    Featuring life lessons from the master himself, as well as quotes and quips by some of history’s sarcastic greats, The Sarcasm Handbook teaches readers how to deflect stupidity and express their inner dissatisfaction with a keen sensibility, hushing subtlety, and wisecrack wit. Included in these invaluable teachings are chapters on achieving the right tone, sarcastic bastards in history, as well as scenarios depicting some of the greatest moments in sarcasm.

    So pick up your copy today and start learning the art of disparagement through passive aggressiveness!
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherSkyhorse
    Release dateAug 22, 2017
    ISBN9781510723276
    The Sarcasm Handbook
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    Lawrence Dorfman

    Lawrence Dorfman has more than thirty years of experience in the bookselling world, including stints at Simon and Schuster, Penguin, and Harry N. Abrams. He is the author of the Snark Handbook series including The Snark Handbook: Politics and Government Edition, The Snark Handbook: Insult Edition; The Snark Handbook: Sex Edition, Snark! The Herald Angels Sing, and The Snark Handbook: Clichés Edition. He lives in Connecticut.

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      Funny book ! Recommended for all fans of sarcasm. And jokes lovers too.

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    The Sarcasm Handbook - Lawrence Dorfman

    Introduction

    If you don’t want a sarcastic answer, don’t ask me a stupid question.

    —UNKNOWN

    In 2009, I lost my job in publishing.

    The great geniuses *(S) who ran the company (and believe me there were many) decided that my position was no longer necessary—despite the fact that they didn’t have a clue as to what I did or how I did it.

    However, they did have the big desk, and after years of calling meetings and having lunches, they knew *(S) that without my position, there would be greater profit and bigger bonuses for all of them.

    After all, they had been barely squeaking by on high six-figure salaries. *(S) And to be fair, publishing wasn’t all that different from just about every other business at the tail end of the I got mine 90s, which had followed hot on the tail of the Who can I screw now? 80s.

    On the street for the first time in my life, I jumped on the fun-filled carousel of job hunting, hoping to quickly grab that golden ring of job security and career fulfillment. After months of nausea and the vertigo of the interview process, I got a call from a friend who was an editor at a newish publisher and was looking to build a list.

    She asked me if I wanted to write something.

    I laughed. An author? Me?

    I had spent a lifetime watching stay-at-home moms, overworked teachers, and road-weary salesmen approach the altar of fame and fortune with their blood-and-sweat-stained manuscripts only to be beaten back by self-righteous publishing folks critical of material that was too derivative, too original, too limited, too unfocused, too … unpublishable. Thanks for playing, but don’t let the door hit yr ass on the way out.

    And they were the lucky ones.

    The poor slobs who were allowed to enter the arena typically found their heartfelt prose twisted, tweaked, sliced and diced. Their titles were discarded and their cover concepts designed by people who had never read a single word of their work. Demanding deadlines were enacted, penalties imposed, inflated print runs established.

    And if by some very small chance it did well, you were committed to do it again … and again … and again … every year.

    Did I want to add to the vast wasteland that book publishing had become? Was the next great American (or Lithuanian) novel percolating inside me, rife with product placement and of the time content that made it easier to tie in to advertising and sponsors?

    Was I dying to explore some quasi-great figure from history or spew out a bio of some momentarily interesting musician or flash in the pan that Rolling Stone deemed hot?

    Would my legacy be a commitment of time and energy in hopes of producing some great remainder-in-waiting, destined to sell at Barnes and Noble on the $4.98 table next to the Pictorial History of the Merchant Marines?

    Oh, yes. Can I, can I please? *(S)

    No, really. Can I, can I please?

    I wanted to—no, needed to—prove to all those colleagues, through all those years, at all those publishing houses, that I could do it differently.

    I would be an Author. (With a capital A.) Author!

    But now I needed something to write about?

    I was always a voracious reader. This was made easy by working in a business where free books were a major perk. Not much money for us lowly grunts in publishing, but all the books you can eat. *(S)

    When I started, we got one free copy of every book that my company published. Every single one. Every bodice-ripping romance and no-taste diet cookbook. We had some mighty toasty fires those years. *(S)

    Other sales reps were always sending me packages with new titles from their companies. Soon my name was added to a number of big mouth lists, where it was expected that I talk up the new book by Stephen King’s wife’s sister’s nephew’s babysitter’s mother on the chance I could get someone to buy it. I would search through daily deliveries for the rare book that would be worthy of my big mouth.

    I sat comfortably in the wormhole of contemporary publishing and picked my target.

    One of the books I enjoyed reading recently was a thin tome called Snark by David Denby. Denby was a well-known critic for the New Yorker, a world-class snarkist, and sarcastic as all get out. But in this book, he took issue with the repartee that was prevalent at the time, making the point that snarky shots (mostly in political dissertation) were overtaking real thought and discussion. He saw snark and sarcasm as the lowest form of wit and humor and postured that it was ruining all conversation, creating a wasteland in personal relationships, and would possibly—no, probably—lead to the end of the world as we knew it. An interesting point I couldn’t disagree with more.

    I have always loved sarcasm and snark and have employed it almost from the moment I could speak. (Mama. DaDa. I’ll smile when I’m good and ready. And who thought walking around with three pounds of cotton between my legs would help me learn how to walk? Sheesh.)

    I was weaned on the television greatness of the Three Stooges and the Marx Brothers, and sat glued to the set watching the likes of David Steinberg, Jackie Mason, and Mort Sahl. When I got a little older, the joy of reading people like Kurt Vonnegut, John Barth, Tom McGuane, Tom Robbins, and John Irving came into play. Later came David Sedaris, Carl Hiaasen, Jim Harrison, Christopher Moore, and many, many others. Cable brought me Sam Kinison, Bill Hicks, and Denis Leary.

    So in 2009 I wrote The Snark Handbook: A Reference Guide to Verbal Sparring.

    Got some nice reviews, lots of kudos from friends and colleagues … but barely a blip on the radar of the publishing movers and shakers who were off flying from the Frankfurt Book Fair to the London Book Fair to the Book Expo to … (Did they ever work?)

    I decided I’d give them another chance with The Snark Handbook: Insult Edition in 2010.

    Still busy.

    I did Snark the Herald Angels Sing the next year.

    Snark Handbook: Sex Edition the next.

    Snark Handbook: Politics the next.

    Snark Handbook: Parenting and Schadenfreude after that.

    And the publishing world continued to ignore my brilliance. What was wrong with these people? How far did they have their heads up their …

    I was done. Finished. Kaput.

    At least I got out before climbing into a bottle with F. Scott Fitzgerald or choking on an all-day sucker with Ernest Hemingway. *(S)

    So when my publisher, a glutton for P&P (profit and punishment) *(S), called again and asked Hey Snarky, wanna focus that red-hot wit of yours on SARCASM? my first thought was: Jeez, every time I think I’m out, they try to pull me back in.

    Then, I thought Cool, an advance.

    And my third thought was I’m hungry.

    So, in reverse order, I ate a sandwich, planned how I would spend my advance, and called him back to say Sure, why not?

    I’d give them another shot. I’m a ho.

    Maybe they learned.

    Maybe publishing had found its way back from the edge of the abyss of self-absorption and delusion to the ethical moral center of days of old.

    Nah.

    Well, there’s always the $4.98 table at Barnes and Noble.

    Definition of Sarcasm

    Some sarcasm is best told simply.

    —KEVIN HART

    sar·casm ( ) n. 1. The use of irony to mock or convey contempt. 2. Sharp, bitter or cutting expression or remark (may employ ambivalence). 3. The use of words that mean the opposite of what you want to say, especially to show insult, show irritation, or be funny.

    Ridicule, Scorn, Scoff, Sneer.

    Yeah, right. *(S)

    Defining sarcasm is like defining irony, or bullshit. It just can’t be done. Try as hard as you like, all you can do is come reasonably close (and this ain’t horseshoes). Defining sarcasm is elusive. It

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