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True self and false self
True self and false self are concepts introduced into psychoanalysis in 1960 by D. W. Winnicott. Winnicott used "True Self" to describe a sense of self based on spontaneous authentic experience, and a feeling of being alive, having a "real self".
"False Self" by contrast Winnicott saw as a defensive facade — one which in extreme cases could leave its holders lacking spontaneity and feeling dead and empty, behind a mere appearance of being real.
Characteristics
Winnicott saw the True Self as rooted from early infancy in the experience of being alive, including blood pumping and lungs breathing – what Winnicott called simply being. Out of this the baby creates the experience of a sense of reality, a sense that life is worth living. The baby's spontaneous, nonverbal gestures derive from that instinctual sense, and if responded to by the motherer, become the basis for the continuing development of the True Self.
However, when what Winnicott was careful to describe as good enough parenting — i.e. not necessarily perfect! — was not in place, the infant's spontaneity was in danger of being encroached on by the need for compliance with the parents' wishes/expectations. The result for Winnicott could be the creation of what he called the False Self, where “Other people's expectations can become of overriding importance, overlaying or contradicting the original sense of self, the one connected to the very roots of one's being”. The danger he saw was that “through this False Self, the infant builds up a false set of relationships, and by means of introjections even attains a show of being real”, while in fact merely concealing a barren emptiness behind an independent-seeming facade.
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True Self
True Self is the fourth album by the Chicago-based music group Soil. It was released in the US on May 2, 2006, via DRT Entertainment. This is the band's first album with the new vocalist AJ Cavalier, formerly of World In Pain and Diesel Machine. True Self was leaked onto P2P and BitTorrent sites on March 4, almost two months before its official release. The album sold 4,000 copies in the US during its first week of release.
A music video was filmed for "Give It Up" and released shortly before the album.
In promotion of the album, Soil did a European/USA tour with Staind, USA tours with Sevendust, 10 Years and Godsmack, as well as numerous UK and European festival and headline tours. Soil ended the cycle with the summer 2007 True Rock Tour.
Track listing
All tracks were recorded at Bombshelter Studios in Los Angeles, California, unless otherwise noted.
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True...
"True..." is the first single by Riyu Kosaka. It was released on October 17, 2001. It features her solo track True..., which debuted on Konami's DDRMAX Dance Dance Revolution 6thMix. It also features a cover of BeForU's Dive, entitled Dive to the Night.
Track listing
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Hilary Duff
Hilary Erhard Duff (born September 28, 1987) is an American actress and singer. Duff began her acting career at a young age, and quickly became labeled a teen idol as the starring titular character in the television series Lizzie McGuire (2001–04). The series proved to be a hit, leading to a film adaptation of the series to be released. Duff began working on numerous projects with the Disney channel, including the film Cadet Kelly (2002). She later began work on an album, releasing the Christmas themed Santa Claus Lane (2002) through Walt Disney Records. Upon signing with Hollywood Records, Duff began working on her second studio album, Metamorphosis (2003). The album achieved critical and commercial success, topping the Billboard 200 and selling over three million copies in the United States alone. The album also found success in both Canada and Japan. Duff's success in both acting and music led to her becoming a household name, with merchandise such as dolls, clothing, and fragrances being released.
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True (EP)
True is the debut extended play (EP) by American recording artist Solange Knowles, first released on November 27, 2012 digitally through Terrible Records. Following the release of her second studio album Sol-Angel and the Hadley St. Dreams (2008), Knowles announced that she had parted ways with Interscope Geffen A&M after releasing just one album on the label, and further revealed that she had chosen to go an independent route, eventually signing with Terrible Records. In 2009 Knowles began the recording of a studio album, during which she suffered a "breakdown" due to the amount of time and emotion she was putting into the recording process
A neo soul album, True contains an eclectic sound that takes influence from PBR&B, new wave music, dance, 1980s pop, and electronica, whilst the extended play's production is characterized as containing '80s references, keyboards and African percussion. The recording process took three years and was handled by Knowles and producer Dev Hynes. Together the pair produced, wrote and composed all of the songs, a decision Knowles made due to their chemistry, friendship and work relationship.
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Podcasts:
True
ALBUMS
- Still Life released: 2010
TRUE
ALBUMS
- はじまりの翼 / TWIN BIRD released: 2014
- バディ・コンプレックス オリジナルサウンドトラック released: 2014
- UNISONIA released: 2014
バディ・コンプレックス オリジナルサウンドトラック
Released 2014- A breakfast
- Bright sunny days
- Young soldiers' feelings
- Day-to-day war
- There if I look up
- Collision
- 想う
- Gatherting
- Reflexion
- Sense of discomfort
- Quiet battle
- Search
- Unclear
- Midnight
- Feeling swaying
- Fathers
- 想いの交錯
- タイムリープ
- 出会いと別れ
- あいつのこと
- そこには雛!
- 歓迎の儀式
- Recording PV
- レッツ、カップリング!
- ゾギリア親衛隊
- 死という別れ
- 常夏の島
- ビゾンと雛
- 淡い想い出
- 青葉と雛
- 衝撃的な事実
- 雛 (タイムリープ)
True
ALBUMS
- The Adventures Of... released: 2008
- Högre standard volym 1+2 released: 2008
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The True and the False Self
A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occasionally having to wear the mask of a False Self. But for this to be possible, we need a certain sort of childhood - as the masterful British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott helped to explain in his theory of the true and the false self, outlined here. Enjoying our Youtube videos? Get full access to all our audio content, videos, and thousands of thought-provoking articles, conversation cards and more with The School of Life Subscription: https://t.ly/WBr_n Be more mindful, present and inspired. Get the best of The School of Life delivered straight to your inbox: https://t.ly/fRltk The School of Life runs a global online psychotherapy service that assists clients from over 40 countries. To find out...
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We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we truly are? Who and what is our true self? What is our false self? This video explores Winnicott's concept of the true and false self and what it really means to just 'be ourselves.' My name is Alizia, I am a second-year clinical psychology doctoral student and student therapist. Thank you for stopping by!
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False Self vs. Real Self - Teal Swan
👉 Would you like to dive deeper in spirituality? Access Teal's (FREE) Lounge to get workbooks, summaries, reflective exercises and more. Click here: https://tealswan.vip/workbooks Most of us have no idea who we really are because we are shamed out of our true selves as children growing up in dysfunctional families in this dysfunctional human society. In order to adapt to our families and to society, we have created false selves. We have created false selves that are so good at what they do; even we have mistaken them for ourselves. We have a major problem differentiating between our false self and our real self. In this episode, Teal Swan explores the topic of the 'false self' in depth and gives suggestions for how we can begin to drop the façade and live as our true selves. Access ALL o...
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True vs False self
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The Difference Between The Ego Self and Your True Self
It's hard to always know if we are acting out of ego or out of our true self. But it's important we learn the difference because when we act out of ego, we never feel truly satisfied because the ego seeks from the outside to overcompensate for a lack on the inside - which, it can never truly do. Watch this video here on my channel @Julia Kristina Counselling a few times and really take it in, and learning how to act out of your true self vs. your ego self will transform how you feel everyday. ___ RESOURCES: GET THE SIMPLE STEPS TO SELF-TRUST: https://courses.juliakristina.com/self-trust Get on the waitlist for The Shift Society: https://courses.juliakristina.com/pl/163945 ----- CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JuliaCounsellor/ Instagram: https://www.ins...
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The pain of hiding your true self | Ruth Clare | TEDxYouth@LGS
Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she ...
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Donald Winnicott - True and False Self
Download Donald Winnicott True and False Self - FREE PDF handout HERE - https://counsellingtutor.com/counselling-terminally-ill-clients/ True and false self is determined by how far a young child is allowed to be themselves by their caregiver e.g. if a child is told something along the lines of ‘boys don’t cry’, this will effect the way the young boy grows up, and his relationship with showing emotion through crying. These children grow into adults, and adults present in the therapy room – allow them to show their true selves. Clients may show this through being childish, aggressive, or by challenging you – this is the client showing parts of themselves they couldn’t express as a child. The counsellor will need to be strong and robust to manage this - undergo your own therapy. It’s a...
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The True and the False Self
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A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occasionally having to wear the mask of a False Self. But for this to be ...
A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occasionally having to wear the mask of a False Self. But for this to be possible, we need a certain sort of childhood - as the masterful British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott helped to explain in his theory of the true and the false self, outlined here.
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“One of the most surprising but powerful explanations for why we may, as adults, be in trouble mentally is that we were, in our earliest years, denied the opportunity to be fully ourselves, that is, we were not allowed to be wilful and difficult, we could not be as demanding, aggressive, intolerant, and unrestrictedly selfish as we needed to be. Because our caregivers were preoccupied or fragile, we had to be preternaturally attuned to their demands, sensing that we had to comply in order to be loved and tolerated; we had to be false before we had the chance to feel properly alive. And as a result, many years later, without quite understanding the process, we risk feeling unanchored, inwardly dead and somehow not entirely present…”
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A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occasionally having to wear the mask of a False Self. But for this to be possible, we need a certain sort of childhood - as the masterful British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott helped to explain in his theory of the true and the false self, outlined here.
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“One of the most surprising but powerful explanations for why we may, as adults, be in trouble mentally is that we were, in our earliest years, denied the opportunity to be fully ourselves, that is, we were not allowed to be wilful and difficult, we could not be as demanding, aggressive, intolerant, and unrestrictedly selfish as we needed to be. Because our caregivers were preoccupied or fragile, we had to be preternaturally attuned to their demands, sensing that we had to comply in order to be loved and tolerated; we had to be false before we had the chance to feel properly alive. And as a result, many years later, without quite understanding the process, we risk feeling unanchored, inwardly dead and somehow not entirely present…”
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The True Self and The False Self | WHO ARE WE? - Winnicott
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We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we truly are? Who and what is our true self? What is our false self? Thi...
We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we truly are? Who and what is our true self? What is our false self? This video explores Winnicott's concept of the true and false self and what it really means to just 'be ourselves.'
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We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we truly are? Who and what is our true self? What is our false self? This video explores Winnicott's concept of the true and false self and what it really means to just 'be ourselves.'
My name is Alizia, I am a second-year clinical psychology doctoral student and student therapist. Thank you for stopping by!
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False Self vs. Real Self - Teal Swan
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Most of us have no idea who we really are because we are shamed out of our true selves as children growing up in dysfunctional families in this dysfunctional human society. In order to adapt to our families and to society, we have created false selves. We have created false selves that are so good at what they do; even we have mistaken them for ourselves. We have a major problem differentiating between our false self and our real self. In this episode, Teal Swan explores the topic of the 'false self' in depth and gives suggestions for how we can begin to drop the façade and live as our true selves.
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Most of us have no idea who we really are because we are shamed out of our true selves as children growing up in dysfunctional families in this dysfunctional human society. In order to adapt to our families and to society, we have created false selves. We have created false selves that are so good at what they do; even we have mistaken them for ourselves. We have a major problem differentiating between our false self and our real self. In this episode, Teal Swan explores the topic of the 'false self' in depth and gives suggestions for how we can begin to drop the façade and live as our true selves.
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Today, she’s also become an International Speaker, having facilitated retreats and life changing workshops in large venues worldwide. Teal was ranked 15th on The Watkins Most Spiritually Influential Living People in 2023.
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True vs False self
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A brief discussion on True vs False Self
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It's hard to always know if we are acting out of ego or out of our true self. But it's important we learn the difference because when we act out of ego, we neve...
It's hard to always know if we are acting out of ego or out of our true self. But it's important we learn the difference because when we act out of ego, we never feel truly satisfied because the ego seeks from the outside to overcompensate for a lack on the inside - which, it can never truly do. Watch this video here on my channel @Julia Kristina Counselling a few times and really take it in, and learning how to act out of your true self vs. your ego self will transform how you feel everyday.
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The pain of hiding your true self | Ruth Clare | TEDxYouth@LGS
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Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence an...
Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Donald Winnicott - True and False Self
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True and false se...
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True and false self is determined by how far a young child is allowed to be themselves by their caregiver e.g. if a child is told something along the lines of ‘boys don’t cry’, this will effect the way the young boy grows up, and his relationship with showing emotion through crying.
These children grow into adults, and adults present in the therapy room – allow them to show their true selves.
Clients may show this through being childish, aggressive, or by challenging you – this is the client showing parts of themselves they couldn’t express as a child.
The counsellor will need to be strong and robust to manage this - undergo your own therapy.
It’s about you being the good enough other.
https://wn.com/Donald_Winnicott_True_And_False_Self
Download Donald Winnicott True and False Self - FREE PDF handout HERE - https://counsellingtutor.com/counselling-terminally-ill-clients/
True and false self is determined by how far a young child is allowed to be themselves by their caregiver e.g. if a child is told something along the lines of ‘boys don’t cry’, this will effect the way the young boy grows up, and his relationship with showing emotion through crying.
These children grow into adults, and adults present in the therapy room – allow them to show their true selves.
Clients may show this through being childish, aggressive, or by challenging you – this is the client showing parts of themselves they couldn’t express as a child.
The counsellor will need to be strong and robust to manage this - undergo your own therapy.
It’s about you being the good enough other.
- published: 11 Feb 2023
- views: 9777
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The True and the False Self
A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occ...
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The True and the False Self
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A good life is one in which we can dare to show our True Self and do not mind too much occasionally having to wear the mask of a False Self. But for this to be possible, we need a certain sort of childhood - as the masterful British psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott helped to explain in his theory of the true and the false self, outlined here.
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“One of the most surprising but powerful explanations for why we may, as adults, be in trouble mentally is that we were, in our earliest years, denied the opportunity to be fully ourselves, that is, we were not allowed to be wilful and difficult, we could not be as demanding, aggressive, intolerant, and unrestrictedly selfish as we needed to be. Because our caregivers were preoccupied or fragile, we had to be preternaturally attuned to their demands, sensing that we had to comply in order to be loved and tolerated; we had to be false before we had the chance to feel properly alive. And as a result, many years later, without quite understanding the process, we risk feeling unanchored, inwardly dead and somehow not entirely present…”
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The True Self and The False Self | WHO ARE WE? - Winnicott
We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we...
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The True Self and The False Self | WHO ARE WE? - Winnicott
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We're often given the advice that we should just 'be ourselves,' but how do we know who we truly are? Who and what is our true self? What is our false self? This video explores Winnicott's concept of the true and false self and what it really means to just 'be ourselves.'
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False Self vs. Real Self - Teal Swan
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Most of us have no idea who we really are because we are shamed out of our true selves as children growing up in dysfunctional families in this dysfunctional human society. In order to adapt to our families and to society, we have created false selves. We have created false selves that are so good at what they do; even we have mistaken them for ourselves. We have a major problem differentiating between our false self and our real self. In this episode, Teal Swan explores the topic of the 'false self' in depth and gives suggestions for how we can begin to drop the façade and live as our true selves.
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True vs False self
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The Difference Between The Ego Self and Your True Self
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It's hard to always know if we are acting out of ego or out of our true self. But it's important we learn the difference because when we act out of ego, we never feel truly satisfied because the ego seeks from the outside to overcompensate for a lack on the inside - which, it can never truly do. Watch this video here on my channel @Julia Kristina Counselling a few times and really take it in, and learning how to act out of your true self vs. your ego self will transform how you feel everyday.
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The pain of hiding your true self | Ruth Clare | TEDxYouth@LGS
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Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading Ruth Clare is the award-winning author of the acclaimed memoir, Enemy (Penguin 2016), a book about her experience growing up in a home with domestic violence and an exploration of the psychological impact of war on veterans and their families. As well as working as a copywriter for over a decade, she teaches creative and non-fiction writing, and is a passionate advocate for the rights of children. Her work has appeared in publications such as Meanjin, Elle, The Good Weekend and Better Reading. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Donald Winnicott - True and False Self
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True and false self is determined by how far a young child is allowed to be themselves by their caregiver e.g. if a child is told something along the lines of ‘boys don’t cry’, this will effect the way the young boy grows up, and his relationship with showing emotion through crying.
These children grow into adults, and adults present in the therapy room – allow them to show their true selves.
Clients may show this through being childish, aggressive, or by challenging you – this is the client showing parts of themselves they couldn’t express as a child.
The counsellor will need to be strong and robust to manage this - undergo your own therapy.
It’s about you being the good enough other.
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True self and false self
True self and false self are concepts introduced into psychoanalysis in 1960 by D. W. Winnicott. Winnicott used "True Self" to describe a sense of self based on spontaneous authentic experience, and a feeling of being alive, having a "real self".
"False Self" by contrast Winnicott saw as a defensive facade — one which in extreme cases could leave its holders lacking spontaneity and feeling dead and empty, behind a mere appearance of being real.
Characteristics
Winnicott saw the True Self as rooted from early infancy in the experience of being alive, including blood pumping and lungs breathing – what Winnicott called simply being. Out of this the baby creates the experience of a sense of reality, a sense that life is worth living. The baby's spontaneous, nonverbal gestures derive from that instinctual sense, and if responded to by the motherer, become the basis for the continuing development of the True Self.
However, when what Winnicott was careful to describe as good enough parenting — i.e. not necessarily perfect! — was not in place, the infant's spontaneity was in danger of being encroached on by the need for compliance with the parents' wishes/expectations. The result for Winnicott could be the creation of what he called the False Self, where “Other people's expectations can become of overriding importance, overlaying or contradicting the original sense of self, the one connected to the very roots of one's being”. The danger he saw was that “through this False Self, the infant builds up a false set of relationships, and by means of introjections even attains a show of being real”, while in fact merely concealing a barren emptiness behind an independent-seeming facade.
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