PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Submitted byMario William DSilva Batch: B3

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
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am very Grateful for the Strong support and Guidance provided to me by my Personality Development Teacher Mrs.SHERIN Madam who guided me for Developing my Personality. . I am also very grateful to Frankfinn Institute for Teaching us such a very important skill Personality Development .

INTRODUCTION
Personality Development which means self development in this process we need to go through the some stages and study. This assignment for me, its was not a just study Its a lesson for my life.

Task 1 LO1 of Unit 1

Change Personality
hange Personality My first day at College it was grand moment in my life I was placing my feet on first step of my Dream Career some where I was nervous because of new place, new syllabus and new environment. As a new student I was quite and watching what is going in the class when I started to speak I got panic due to nervousness and environmental changes. But now I am friendly with this environment after this event day now I am comparing my previous days with this days now I am become judicious and rational I could manage hard situation with correct decision making.

Task 2 LO1 of unit 1

Make your own SWOT

SWOT
Strength

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Weakness Opportunity Threats

Ive good Short communicati tempered on skill Ive lot of patience Im a good leader I dont have the ability to say NO Bad Listener

Cop

Aggressivene ss

Engineer

Businessman

AFTER JOINING COLLEGE

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Strength
Ive become a good listener Reasonable Eye contact Well Groomed

Weakness
Short tempered I dont have ability to say no Im Emotional

Opportunity
Businessman

Threats
Laziness

Hospitality

Businessman In Travel and tourism

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
Task 3 LO1 of Unit1

What factors do you think are impo

What factors do you think are important for development of Ones personality? Justify by giving Examples rtant for
development of Ones personality? Justify by giving Examples

Task 3 LO1 of Unit1 MOST IMPORTANT FACTORS FORPERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

Rationality Empathic Positive Attitude Leadership Motivation

As I know to develop some ones personality mentioned all factors are very important. With all factors any one can become a good human being Rationality:- The person who is very wise, judicious, intelligent and good command over the emotions that person called as a rational person. Example:- I choose a new hi-fi system based on reading a few magazines and listening to several friends. When the sales person offers me a better bargain, I still turn it down.

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Empathy:- It s a kind a strong strength like put our self into others persons shoes and treat according that individuals level. With this you can become more understandable and a boost toward the success. Example:- friend is complaining of feeling exhausted after having pulled an overnighter studying for an exam. Out of your own experience, you know what that feels like--you have empathy with his fatigue, and may be able to suggest something that you've done in the past that may help your friend.

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Positive Attitude:- it is place your standpoints and view points which leads to responses to different stimuli. That is attitude but with positive stand and view points. It will help you to achieve your goal within the measurable time. Example : - Nicholas James Vujicic is an Australian and motivational speaker born with tetraamelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterised by the absence of all four limbs. As a child, he struggled mentally and emotionally as well as physically, but eventually came to terms with his disability and, at the age of seventeen, started his own non-profit organisation, Life Without Limbs.

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Motivation:-its an act to pushing your self to do some thing which you feels right. With motivation we can achieve what we dream its a self encouragement to your self Example:A child obeys its parents to avoid punishment A clerk works overtime so that he can afford a better car A politician lies to improve his chances of re-election

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TIME MANAGEMENT

Why do you think Time has to Managed?

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WHAT IS TIME MANAGEMENT

It is a set of principles, practices skills, and system that help you use your time to accomplish what you want. Importance of Time management:Time is a special resource that you cannot store or save for later use. Everyone has the exact same amount of time each day. Time not well used cannot be retrieved. Through time management you can create the time you need, and not just wait for it to come. By planning your time wisely, you will have more time to do more things.

Task 1 LO2 of unit 1

Time

management will help you set up your priorities. Time management helps you make conscious choices, so you can spend more of your time doing things that are important and valuable to you.

Time

management will help you set up your priorities. Time management helps you make conscious choices, so you can spend more of your time doing things that are important and valuable to you.

TASK 2 LO2 OF UNIT 1

During your class Activity how you manage your time, What Sort of Typical barriers you face and how you overcome them.

BARRIERS OF EVENTS TIME MANAGEMENT

TASK 2 LO2 OF UNIT 1

Likes

and Dislikes A Lack Of Discipline Procrastination Weak Interests In Life Improper Reference Groups

LEADERSHIP

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WHAT IS LEADERSHIP
leadership can be defined as one's ability to get others to willingly follow. Every organization needs leaders at every level. Leaders can be found and nurtured if you look for the following character traits .A leader with vision has a clear, vivid picture of where to go, as well as a firm grasp on what success looks like and how to achieve it. But its not enough to have a vision; leaders must also share it and act upon it. Jack Welch, former chairman and CEO of General Electric Co., said, "Good business leaders create a vision, articulate the vision, passionately own the vision and relentlessly drive it to completion."A leader must be able to communicate his or her vision in terms that cause followers to buy into it. He or she must communicate clearly and passionately, as passion is contagious . A good leader must have the discipline to work toward his or her vision single-mindedly, as well as to direct his or her actions and those of the team toward the goal. Action is the mark of a leader. A leader does not suffer analysis paralys

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Nelson Mandela
He first joined the African National Congress as a student in 1942,working toward the goal of emancipation from apartheid. He spent 27 years behind bars before emerging in 1990 and becoming president of the ANC .In 1993, he was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize. He served as president of South Africa from1994-99

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NELSON MANDELA
July 18, 1918, in the district of Umtata. His family homestead remains at rural Qunu today. Born Rolihlahla Mandela into a branch of the Thembu dynasty, he was given the name Nelson by a teacher at age 7. Career: Intent on becoming a lawyer, he became involved in the resistance movement against apartheid while studying at University College of Fort Hare, where he was suspended for participating in a protest boycott. (Hewould later study for and receive a bachelor's degree in law during his decades behind bars.) Imprisoned on charges including sabotage, Mandela spent 27 years behind bars until released by President F.W. de Klerk, who had just replaced apartheid supporter P.W. Botha. Upon his election as president, Mandela made de Klerk his first deputy in a Government of National Unity

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LEADERSHIP QUALITIES OF NELSON MANDELA

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of Patience Under standing Poor people highly competent and experienced, can unite in their efforts to improve and to solve the problems Hardworking Mandela thing future life

LO3 of Unit1 MY LEADERSHIP QUALITIES

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of Patience Under standing Poor people I dont thing future life I live at Present I know how to handle huge problems Experience wise situation in my life I can develop my lack of qualities.

LO4 of Unit 1 OPEN SELF PERSONALITY

What do you understand by open Self Personality?

IMPORTANCE OF HAVINGAN OPEN SELF PERSONALITY

An

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Open self personality is who knows others and himself/herself very closely. Having an Open self personality one can maintain good and long term relations and Business contacts with others. You feel more oriented regards to your objective or goals

You

will share your Dreams, Desires, Hobbies and ambitions with others. You will also respects others Dreams and Ambitions. You will place Helping nature with all like Senior citizens and children. Respect of time and opportunity. Smile is identity of Open self personality.

APPLYING OPEN SELF PERSONALITY SO

You need to Aware about your self in other hand what qualities and potentials you have. Define your Goal and its Height and term. Be Punctual and Attentive Make Good relation with your self and others also. Smile and establish conversation first. Say Hi and Hello to others.

Deal

your Ideas, Dreams, Hobbies, Goal and Ambitions with others. Respects others concepts and ideas and Welcome them Keep others Happy and you too. kindness and sympathy towards others.

Define the Term Transactional Analysis and what sort of Ego state you mostly operate justify by giving examples.

TA is a neo-Freudian theory of personality. Berne's ego states are heavily influenced by Freud's id, ego and superego, although they do not precisely correspond with them.[3] A primary difference between Berne and Freud is the former's treatment of the observable transactions known as "games". A number of books popularized TA in the general public but did little to gain acceptance in the conventional psychoanalytic community. TA is considered by its adherents to be a more user-friendly and accessible model than the conventional psychoanalytic model. A number of modern-day TA practitioners emphasize the similarities with cognitive-behaviorist models while others emphasize different models.

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Each

EGO STATES

and every human being behaving indifferent ego states depending upon moment and person. Parent ego state Adult ego state Child ego state Most of the time I am in Adult and Parent ego states

PARENT EGO STATE

A state in which people behave, feel, and think in response to an unconscious mimicking of how their parents (or other parental figures) acted, or how they interpreted their parent's actions. For example:- a person may shout at someone out of frustration because they learned from an influential figure in childhood the lesson that this seemed to be a way of relating that worked.

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ADULT EGO STATE

The Adult ego state is about direct responses to the here and now. We deal with things that are goingon today in ways that are not unhealthily influenced by our past. While a person is in the Adult ego state, he/she is directed towards an objective appraisal of reality.

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CHILD EGO STATE

The Child ego state is a set of behaviors, thoughts and feelings which are replayed from our own childhood . Example:- A person who receives a poor evaluation at work may respond by looking at the floor, and crying or pouting, as they used to when scolded as a child. Conversely, a person who receives a good evaluation may respond with a broad smile and a joyful gesture of thanks. The Child is the sour ce of emotions, creation, recreation, spontaneity and intimacy.

MY PARENT EGO SATE

Some

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time I advise my friend with parents egostate like please dont do this do this it will give you benefits. I advice my friends and my family for their advantage.

TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS IN ORDER TO STRUCTURAL MODEL

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Transaction al Model 1

Transactional model2

parent

parent

adult
parent adult

adult

child

child

child

Experience Of Field Activity

Place: Gold Souk Grande

Team Members !!!

MARIO

WILLIAM DSILVA

EDWIN

ANTONY AMAL KUMAR ARUN SOMAN RAHUL RAJ

About his personality

He have an open mind personality. He shared his experience with us . so I faced no difficulties while talking to him

Conclusion
He have and open self personality . So we faced no difficulties while sharing his experience .