Rizal's Family Values and Relationship With His Siblings
Rizal's Family Values and Relationship With His Siblings
Rizal's Family Values and Relationship With His Siblings
Teodora Alonso. It was she who opened his eyes and heart to the world around him—with all its soul
and poetry, as well as its bigotry and injustice.
1. His mother was his first teacher, and from her he learned to read, and consequently to value
reading as a means for learning and spending one’s time meaningfully. It did not take long
before he learnt to value time as life’s most precious gift, for she taught him never to waste a
single second of it. Thus as a student in Spain he became the most assiduous of students, never
missing a class despite his activities as Propaganda leader, or an examination, despite having to
take it on an empty stomach.
2. By taking the lead in running the family’s businesses- farms, flour and sugar milling, tending a
store, even making fruit preserves, aside from running a household, Teodora imbibed in him the
value of working with one’s hands, of self-reliance and entrepreneurship. And by sharing with
others she taught him generosity and helping to make the world a better place for those who
had less in the material life. All these lessons he applied himself during his exile in Dapitan, as
he improved its community by building a dam; encouraging the locals to grow fruit trees,
establishing a school, even documenting the local flora and fauna.
3. His mother also taught him to value hard-earned money and better yet, the importance of
thrift and of denying oneself, and saving part of one’s earnings as insurance against the
vagaries of life. Thus he learned to scrimp and save despite growing up in comfort and wealth.
- Also called ‘Concha’ by her siblings, Concepcion Rizal (1862-1865) was the eight child of the
Rizal family. She died at the age of three.
- Of his sisters, it was said that the young Pepe loved most little Concha who was a year
younger than him. Jose played games and shared children stories with her, and from her he felt
the beauty of sisterly love at young age.
- Josefa Rizal’s nickname is Panggoy. She’s the ninth child in the family.
- Panggoy died a spinster.
- After Jose’s martyrdom, the epileptic Josefa joined the Katipunan and was even said to have
been elected the president of its women section. She was one of the original 29 women
admitted to the Katipunan along with Gregoria de Jesus, wife of Andres Bonifacio.
- Also called ‘Choleng,’ Soledad Rizal was the youngest child of the Rizal family. Being a teacher,
she was arguably the best educated among Rizal’s sisters.
- In his long and meaty letter to Choleng dated June 6, 1890, Jose Rizal told her sister that he was
proud of her for becoming a teacher. He thus counseled her to be a model of virtues and good
qualities “for the one who should teach should be better than the persons who need her
learning.” Rizal nonetheless used the topic as leverage in somewhat rebuking her sister for
getting married to Pantaleon Quintero of Calamba without their parents’ consent. “Because of
you,” he wrote, “the peace of our family has been disturbed.” Choleng’s union with Pantaleon,
nonetheless resulted in Rizal family’s becoming connected by affinity to Miguel Malvar, the hero
who could have been listed as the second Philippine President for taking over the revolutionary
government after Emilio Aguinaldo’s arrest in 1901.