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Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more. Share your love story with us.

Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more. Share your love story with us.

Highlights

  1. Field Notes

    Booking the Venue Before Popping the Question

    Many couples consider proposals a mere formality, and they’re eager to get on with planning a major life event before there’s even a ring.

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    CreditLorenzo Gritti
  1. At First They Hid Their Love, Then a Reality Show Gave Them Courage

    Gregory Mathis and Richard Cooper bonded over faith and family. Mr. Mathis said he felt early on that their souls were aligned. But both feared the judgment of being openly gay.

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    Gregory Mathis, left, and Richard Cooper had their wedding ceremony on Oct. 21 at the Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico.
    CreditMC Weddings
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  2. Need an Arabic-Hebrew Ketubah? This Artist Can Help.

    Josh Berer makes most of his money designing Arabic tattoos. He also has a side business designing cross-cultural marriage contracts.

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    Josh Berer is an Arabic calligrapher based in Washington, D.C., who creates intricately designed multilingual marriage contracts.
    CreditAlyssa Schukar for The New York Times
    Q. And A.
  3. Do You Have a Favorite Wedding Keepsake? We Want to See It.

    Tell us about the items you saved from your wedding day that you still cherish today.

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    CreditElizabeth Weinberg for The New York Times, Michael Ciaglo for The New York Times, Cindy Schultz for The New York Times
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  4. First They Built a Relationship. Then They Built a Brand.

    When Barry Bordelon and Jordan Slocum connected on Grindr, becoming the Brownstone Boys was not on their bingo card.

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    On Oct. 5, Barry Bordelon, left, and Jordan Slocum, also known as the Brownstone Boys, were married on the stoop of (where else?) their brownstone in Bedford Stuyvesant, Brooklyn. A block party followed.
    CreditJustin McCallum Photography
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  5. Mini-Vows Submission Form: Apply Here to Have Your Wedding Featured

    You may also have questions about how this process works. We have answers.

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    Credit L. R. Legwin/Hulton Archive, via Getty Images

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Mini-Vows

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  1. Six Weeks After Their First Date, They Moved to Paris

    Soon after they met, Delanie Linden and Zack Burton took a leap of faith and flew to France. There, they fell in love.

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    CreditLizzie Kassab
  2. Their Life as a Classic Movie (With a Modern Twist)

    Sydney Reade and Samuel Zweighaft, both fans of the TCM channel, met four years ago. Their first conversation lasted four hours.

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    CreditGruber Photographers
  3. Sharing More Than a Last Name

    Haley Cohen and Jason Cohen met briefly as children, then matched on an app as adults. “It just seemed like fate,” the groom said.

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    CreditHechler Photographers
  4. A Tale of Two Kelseys

    Kelsey Castañon and Kelsey Whitaker had a lot in common — and a lot of differences.

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    Kelsey Castañon, left, and Kelsey Whitaker.
    CreditPaulina Bichara
  5. Thanks to the ‘Little Gay Book,’ a Love Match

    Dorie Clark and Alexis Redding met on a Zoom speed-dating event two years ago. Among all of the tiny video boxes, they were immediately drawn to each other.

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    Dorie Clark, left, and Alexis Redding.
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Modern Love

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  1. When the Cost of Being Unmarried Is Too High

    In an uncertain world, a marriage skeptic comes around.

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    CreditBrian Rea
  2. Tiny Love Stories: ‘Humor to Counter Despair’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

    CreditBrian Rea
  3. Thanksgiving With My Wife and Girlfriend

    Townsend Davis and his wife Bridget were happily married for more than a decade when an unexpected diagnosis disrupted everything.

     By Anna MartinReva GoldbergEmily LangDavis LandChristina DjossaAmy PearlJen PoyantLynn LevyDaniel RamirezDan PowellAman SahotaElisheba IttoopCarole SabouraudPat McCusker and

    CreditIllustration by Brian Rea; Inset Illustration: Brian Rea and The New York Times
  4. What’s the Worst Date You’ve Ever Been On? We Want to Hear About It.

    Tell us about your experience, and you may be featured on the Modern Love podcast.

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    CreditBrian Rea
  5. Have You Ever Ghosted Somebody? We Want to Hear About It.

    Tell us about your experience for a New York Times Magazine article about how we communicate in our dating lives and relationships.

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    CreditKinga Krzeminska/Moment RF, via Getty Images

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Vows

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  1. They Love John Fluevog Shoes So Much They Married at One of His Stores

    Amber Walker and Ron Dutt held a surprise wedding during the “Flummunity Fest,” a fan-driven gathering for admirers of the designer.

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    Amber Walker and Ron Dutt were ceremonially married on Oct. 20 in a surprise wedding during the Flummunity Fest in Vancouver, a gathering for fans of John Fluevog shoes.
    CreditAlana Paterson for The New York Times
  2. They Were Just What They Needed

    Jonathan Otcasek and Erin Kim connected 10 years ago over a gravesite. They’ve had the kind of relationship even their parents admire since.

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    Erin Kim and Jonathan Otcasek, the son of Ric Ocasek and Paulina Porizkova, were married Oct. 11 in Manhattan. “Erin has this amazing, beautiful, analytical mind that is completely unmatched in anyone I’ve ever met,” Mr. Otcasek said.
    CreditEmily Li Photography
  3. Before the First Kiss, Plenty of Drives Home

    Jocelyn DeGroot-Lutzner grew up four blocks from Ephream Seyoum in West Philadelphia. But the two didn’t meet until she applied for a job at his family’s Eritrean restaurant.

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    Ephream Seyoum and Jocelyn DeGroot-Lutzner were married Oct. 5 at the Jesus Christ Eritrean Church in Darby, Pa.
    CreditKriston Jae Bethel for The New York Times
  4. From Wingman to Main Man

    Wilson Payamps approached Cameron Kirk on behalf of a female friend. Lucky for him, she wasn’t Mr. Kirk’s type.

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    Wilson Payamps, left, and Cameron Kirk were married Sept. 14, 2024, at Casa Cipriani in New York.
    CreditAndy Martinez
  5. 13 Days After Meeting, She Proposed on TV and He Followed Suit

    Tessa Tookes and Joey Kirchner were both feeling down on love. Then they were cast on “Bachelor in Paradise Canada,” and had a change of heart (with the help of producers).

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    Tessa Tookes and Joey Kirchner were married Sept. 21 at the Brighthouse Farm in Ontario, Canada. The couple met in 2022, as cast members of “Bachelor in Paradise Canada.”
    CreditGillie Bird

Field Notes

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  1. First Comes Marriage. Then Comes the Rehearsal Dinner.

    Some couples are opting to get the wedding out of the way first, so they can relax and enjoy the rest of the festivities.

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    Zach and Caitlyn Chilelli chose to hold their wedding and reception on a Friday so they could relax with guests for the rest of the weekend in Montauk, N.Y.
    CreditLana Rowe Photography
  2. What’s the Best Wedding Favor? Let Your Guests Decide.

    A growing number of couples are including gifting suites that allow their wedding attendees to pick a souvenir they’ll actually use.

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    CreditKristen Kilpatrick
  3. And the Groom Wore Shorts

    Call it an unintended consequence of climate change or a relaxation of fashion dictates: At weddings, more guests and couples are showing a little leg.

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    Elena Marrone Filarecki, left, knew she wanted all the men (including her groom, Brent Filarecki) to wear shorts at her wedding in the Florida Keys.
    CreditThe Big Day Photography
  4. Lavish Pre-Wedding Parties That Rival the Main Event

    The celebrations hosted by the Ambani family have thrusts the trend into the spotlight. Wedding professionals say couples are spending more than ever on extravagant events to kick off their nuptials.

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    The pre-wedding celebrations for Anant Ambani and Radhika Merchant, who were married this summer, included an elaborate light show in Jamnagar, India.
    CreditReliance Industries, via Reuters
  5. Bridal Hats Are Making a Stylish Comeback

    Fashion experts cite the influence of the British royals, along with high-profile events like the Kentucky Derby for the resurgence of this vintage wedding trend.

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    Rose Minutaglio, who married Chris Marazzo last winter, wore a custom, ivory-colored felt top hat to their rehearsal dinner in New York.
    CreditJules Miranda

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Unhitched

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  1. They Were Once ‘Hippie vs. Soviet.’ Now They’re the Best of Friends.

    “We genuinely like each other,” Alex Yaroslavsky said of his ex-wife and co-parent, Liza Cooper. They even live in the same apartment building.

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    CreditChristopher DeLorenzo
  2. After Their Divorce, She Was ‘Best Man’ at His Second Wedding

    “We were best friends before and we are better friends now,” said Mike Mitchell, a sheriff’s deputy in Indiana, of his ex-wife Marissa Mitchell.

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    CreditMelek Zertal
  3. After the Divorce, a Different Kind of Family

    This couple survived tragedies during their relationship, but they couldn’t overcome tight finances and a drinking problem. Today, their love “is like that of brother and sister.”

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    CreditMartin Nicolausson
  4. To Fix a Broken Marriage, an Experiment With Polyamory

    After 10 years together, a Bay Area couple opened their relationship. But contrasting sexual needs led to a permanent split.

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    CreditLiv Garber
  5. After a Painful Split, a Functioning Family

    Rebecca and Drew Kuntz say they have had a healthier relationship since their five-year marriage ended.

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    CreditJill Senft

Self-Care

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  1. How to Meditate When You Can’t Sit Still

    Closing your eyes and focusing on breathing can be hard for those who are easily distracted. But it is possible.

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    CreditFrancesco Ciccolella
  2. Feeling Dismissed? How to Spot ‘Medical Gaslighting’ and What to Do About It.

    Experts share tips on advocating for yourself in a health care setting.

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    CreditLucy Jones
  3. Can’t Talk, I’m Busy Being Hot

    A social media movement inspired by the rapper Megan Thee Stallion strikes back at the gatekeepers of beauty.

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    CreditZeloot
  4. You Can’t Outrun Athletic Greens

    In the oversaturated world of wellness, the company has forced itself to the front with prolific podcast ads and a network of influencers.

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    After more than a decade in business, the powdered supplement company Athletic Greens is becoming a household name.
    CreditJon Premosch for The New York Times
  5. The Worst Foods and Drinks for Your Teeth

    When assessing how likely a given meal, snack or drink is to harm your dental health, there are two main things to consider, experts say.

     By

    CreditKelsey McClellan for The New York Times

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  1. Mini-Vows

    Two Bar Patrons Step Into a Twitter Feed

    Tina Survilla Lindell and Cesar Kuriyama, who met at the start of the pandemic, connected over the temporary closing of their favorite bar.

    By John Otis

     
  2. Mini-Vows

    All It Took Was 10 Days of Dating

    When Saira Badat and Raed Khan met in July, they knew almost immediately that they would be married — ideally this year.

    By Shivani Vora

     
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    A Love for Service and Each Other

    Ana Lejava and Nickolas Calbos had dates all over the world. “I was acting out of my gut, not out of my brain,” Ms. Levaja said.

    By John Otis

     
  10. Field Notes

    Through the Turnstile and Down the Aisle

    Forget the picture-perfect setting; some couples are embracing the gritty, chaotic appeal of the subway system for their wedding ceremonies and receptions.

    By Sarah Lyon

     
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