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Weekly Knowledge Sheets given by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar, a practice which began from the year 1995 and now, have been compiled into Seven Volume Series of books. This book (Volume I) is a collection of weekly talks, conversations and messages that Sri Sri Ravi Shankar gave between June 21 1995 to June 13 1996. An Intimate Note to the Sincere Seeker is a compilation of excerpts of talks by Sri Sri Ravi Shankar in the year 1995 - 1996. While these talks often discuss the state of the world at the time they were written, because they discuss human life on the most basic levels - love, hatred, trust, peace, silence, happiness, they are still valuable today. They give us an insight into this knowledge that is so deeply profound, yet so simple, knowledge that does not just remain in the intellect, but is beautifully and effortlessly integrated into daily life. Sri Sri avoids lengthy discussions about the deeper philosophy of life, yet his talks reflect these values to their very core. This book is specially compiled to help readers going through an emotional phase or who need a guidance in life. The reader can go through any one random page (365 chapters for 365 days) for help or can follow as per ones discretion
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1. This Begins a New Practice
This begins a series of weekly notes of Knowledge from Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar.
Beyond an event is Knowledge.
Beyond an object is Infinity.
Beyond a person is Love.
Knowledge is beyond events. Every event colours your awareness in some way: pleasure, pain, joy, sorrow, anger, jealousy. Each event gives you a false notion of what reality is. Truth is beyond all the colours of particular events.
Behind every object is infinity. Objects are limited and changing, yet they exist in infinite space that never changes. Reduce any object to atoms; you will find that within each atom is contained infinite space. Beyond all objects is infinity.
Beyond each person is love. A personality changes. A body, a mind, a complex of behaviours is always changing. Beyond each personality there is unchanging love; love is what you are. When you lose your self, you’ll find your Self !
The event behind the event is Knowledge. The object behind the object is infinity. The person behind the person is love.
Maya – delusion – is when you are stuck in events, personalities, or objects. Brahman – divine consciousness –is seeing beyond all these.
See? Just a little shift.
June 21, 1995 (Part II¹)
Big Sur, California
2. Close to the Master
If you’re not feeling close to the Master, it’s because of you – because of your mind, your ego concepts.
Just being on the levels of formal and informal communication cannot make you feel close. How are you?
Where are you going?
How have you been?
Stop these formal and superficial conversations with the Master. Speak with your heart what is deep in your life, what is important and intimate to you. Don’t just say how much the squash costs – 30 cents or whatever.
Share what you have and don’t judge, Oh, this is garbage.
The Master is ready to accept garbage of any extent. However you are, he will embrace you. Do not feel shame, shy, or judgmental about yourself.
If you don’t feel close to the Master, there’s no point in having a Master. He is just another burden to you, and you have enough burdens already. Just say, Goodbye.
Question: When you play little games with us and push us away, how can we feel close to you?
Gurudev: You should feel more close if you are scolded or ignored, because to ignore somebody takes a lot of effort. When a Master does not even ignore wrapping paper or a flower in a vase, how can he ignore a walking, talking, breathing human being who is connected to him? Once you understand this, you immediately feel close.
Torre: Can we call you every week?
Kenny: Call Gurudev²every week, and if he doesn’t answer the phone, then you know you are loved!
Gurudev: Yes, put that in. (Laughter)
You are with the Master to share the joy of the Master, to share the consciousness of the Master.
For this, you have to empty your cup of what is already in it.
The Master is ready to share. You have only to share from your side.
1 Gurudev thought to send out Weekly Knowledge notes, and everyone liked the idea-so this first week he sent two!
2 People around the world commonly address Gurudev as Guruji (honoured teacher)
June 29, 1995
California
3. Prarabdha Karma and Sanchita Karma
Some karma can be changed and some cannot.
When you prepare a dessert, if sugar or ghee is too little, you can add more. If some other ingredient is too much, it can all be adjusted and repaired. But once it is cooked, it cannot be reversed.
Milk can become sweet yoghurt or sour yoghurt, and sour yoghurt can be sweetened. But neither can be reversed back to milk.
Sanchita karma can be changed and adjusted by spiritual practices. Prarabdha karma cannot be changed. And Satsang³ burns the seed of all negative karmas before they are given a chance to sprout.
3 The company of the Master; also refers to a group of individuals who come together to celebrate the Knowledge.
July 4, 1995
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
4. Only Speak Knowledge; Find Comfort in Conflicts
Only speak Knowledge. Don’t repeat anything bad that someone tells you about someone. And don’t listen to someone who tells you that so-and-so said such-and-such
about you. When someone comes to tell you such things, discourage them. Don’t believe it.
If someone blames you directly, don’t believe in what they say. Just know that they are taking away your bad karma and let it go. And if you’re one of the Master’s close ones, you will take all the blame of the world with a smile.
When you blame someone,
you take on their bad karma;
When you praise someone,
you take on their good karma;
Surrender both good and bad karma to the Divine – and be free.
Conflict is the nature of the world; comfort is the nature of the Self. Amidst conflict, find the comfort.
When you are tired of conflicts and the games of the world, get into the comforts of the Self. When you are bored with comfort, get into the games of the world. If you are one of the Master’s close ones, you do both simultaneously.
People who love peace do not want to fight, and those who fight do not have peace. What is needed is to be peaceful within and then fight. Just trying to end a conflict only prolongs it.
Instead, face the conflict while seeking the comfort of the Self. Does this ring a bell? This is the whole message of the Bhagavad Gita - Krishna tells Arjuna to be centred in peace and to fight at the same time.
God is alive in the world and has been putting up with all conflicts throughout the ages. If God can put up with all these conflicts, you can too. And the moment you agree to be with a conflict, it no longer appears as a conflict to you.
The nature of this world is that once you resolve one conflict, another arises. For example, Russia is solved and then Bosnia is in trouble. Or you get a cold, then you get better – then your back hurts, then it gets better. And when your body is fine, then the mind goes. Things in this world run this way, don’t they?
Without any intention, misunderstandings simply happen and conflicts arise. It’s not up to you to resolve them. Just be with them and be alive!
July 12, 1995-Guru Purnima⁴ morning
Montreal Ashram, Ontario, Canada
5. Master is the Door
You are lost on the street. There is rain, thunder, wind and cold; you need shelter. You look around and you find a door. You come to the door because it is more inviting, more charming, more joyful than anything out on the street.
When you enter the door of the Master, you come Home. You see the world from a new perspective. From inside you can still hear the thunder and see the rain, but it no longer disturbs you. Inside there is warmth and security. The world looks much more beautiful – not a nasty place, but a place filled with love, cooperation, compassion. Your fear drops away.
When you can see the whole world through the eyes of the Master, it is a sign that you have come to the Master; you have entered the door. This is the purpose of having a Master.
If you are still seeing the world as before, then you have not yet come to the Master; you are still standing out in the street, cold and wet; you are only looking at the door, you have not yet entered in.
What does it mean to see through the eyes of the Master
? Just this: Every situation that you face, you are thinking- If this situation comes in front of the Master, how would he handle it? If this complication comes to the Master, how would he take it? If someone blames the Master, what would he do?
The key is to feel the Presence of the Master. The Master is the Presence, not a relationship. Relationships can be broken, mended, and broken again. There is craving and aversion in every relationship. This is the wheel of sansara, the misery of the world. All relationships go topsy-turvy, whereas the Presence is vast, infinite, stable and centred.
Don’t make the Master a worldly relationship. Oh, he looked at me.
He didn’t look at me.
Oh, he said this.
He didn’t say that.
Somebody else is close; I am not close.
All this garbage comes into it.
Just enter the door of the Master and come Home. Only the Presence of the Master will bring fulfilment to your life – and to all your relationships.
4 the full moon day in July when one traditionally celebrates and honours the Master.
July 20, 1995
Montreal Ashram, Ontario. Canada
6. Doubt
A doubt is a gray area. Gray is something which is neither white nor black. Now, how to solve a doubt?
Accept a doubt as either black or white.
See your doubt as white and there is no doubt. See the doubt as black and accept it. Either way, you accept it and move on.
See someone as either honest or dishonest and accept him. Then your mind is quiet. Then you are not in the gray area of doubt. Have conviction: He is dishonest and yet he is still part of me. I accept him as he is.
That’s it. Finished.
Doubt is an unstable state with footing neither on this shore nor that shore. From there tension arises. One way or the other, take a direction and regain your footing.
Have you noticed that you usually doubt only the things that are positive in your life? Negative things you don’t doubt. You doubt a person’s honesty, and you believe in his dishonesty. When someone is angry with you, you have no doubt about his anger. But when someone says he loves you, a doubt creeps in: Does he really love me? When you are depressed, do you ever think am I really depressed? No, you take your depression as a fact. Yet when you are happy, you doubt: Am I really happy; is this really what I wanted? You doubt that you are capable, but do you ever doubt that you are incapable?
See this tendency to doubt the positive things in your life.
Put doubt in its proper place and doubt the doubts.
Doubt the negative and put your trust more in the positive.
July 24, 1995
Montreal Ashram, Ontario, Canada
7. Fire
The senses are like fire. Whatever you put into your senses burns in this fire.
A fire of toxic material creates pollution and bad smell. But if you burn sandalwood, it creates fragrance.
The same fire that supports life can also destroy. A fire can heat your home or burn it down. Celebration happens around a bonfire. Grief happens around the fire of cremation. A burning tyre creates toxic fumes. A ghee lamp lights your way and purifies the surroundings.
Does your fire create smoke and pollution – or are you like a camphor flame that creates light and fragrance? A saint creates light and the fragrance of love. He is the friend of life.
A fire that creates light and warmth is of high quality. A fire that creates light and a little smoke is of medium quality. The fire that creates smoke and darkness is of low quality. Learn to distinguish these different fires.
When your senses are engaged in goodness, then you will create light and fragrance; When engaged in impurity, you create smoke and darkness.
It is sanyama that transforms the quality of fire in you. Next week we will discuss sanyama.
July 30, 1995
Brookfield, Connecticut
8. Habits and Vows
How to get rid of vasanas (impressions)? This is a question for all those who want to come out of habits.
You want to get rid of habits because they give you pain and restrict you. The nature of a vasana is to bother you – bind you – and wanting to be free is the nature of life. When a soul does not know how to be free, it wanders for lifetimes craving freedom.
The way to come out of habits is vows.
A vow should be time-bound. For example, suppose someone says, I will quit smoking;
but cannot do it. He can take a time-bound vow not to smoke for five days. If someone is used to cursing and swearing, he can take a vow not to use bad language for ten days. Don’t take a vow for a lifetime – you will break it immediately! If you happen to break it anyway, don’t worry; just begin again. When you fulfil your vow, pick a new starting time and renew it again. Slowly increase the length of your vow until it becomes your very nature.
This is sanyama. Everybody is endowed with a little sanyama. When the mind falls back into its old patterns, two possibilities can happen. One is, you feel discouraged, you blame yourself, and you feel you have not made any progress. The second possibility is that you see it as an opportunity for sanyama and feel happy about it.
Bad habits will clog you and drain your life energy. Without sanyama, life will not be happy and disease-free. For example, you know you should not eat three servings of ice cream or eat ice cream every day. If you do, you will get sick. Just give a positive direction to your life energy and you can rise above any habit through sanyama.
All those habits that bother you, bind them in vows, in sanyama. Take a time-bound vow today and make a note of it. If you break a vow, make a note of it and share the time and date at the next Satsang. Continue it again. Tie those habits which bring you pain in sanyama.
August 10, 1995
Braunlage, Germany
9. Dealing with Blame
When someone blames you, what do you usually do? You blame them back or you put up a resistance in yourself.
How do you feel when someone blames you? Hurt, unhappy, sad, heavy? This is all because you are resisting! What you resist, persists.
You get hurt because you resist the blame.
Know that when someone blames you, they take away some negative karma from you. If you understand this, you will only feel happy about it. .
If you resist when someone blames you, you are not allowing them to take away the negative karma. Even if you don’t react outwardly, you may still be resisting inside.
Actually it’s fine to resist outside, but inside don’t resist. You will feel immediately lighter. You can feel happy: Oh, good, somebody is blaming me and taking some of my negative karma.
The ignorant person says, Don’t blame me
because it hurts him. An enlightened person also says, Don’t blame me.
Do you know why? Because it might hurt you. You can tell someone not to blame you out of anger or out of compassion.
• News Flash:
Gurudev arrived in Poland for an enchanting course with nearly 400 people. Every eye filled with tears of gratitude. Then Gurudev came to Braunlage, Germany, where more than 200 people are celebrating the silence.
August 16, 1995
Rotterdam, Netherlands
10. Today is Krishna’s Birthday: Birth of the Centre of Attraction
Krishna means the most attractive. He is the divinity, the energy, that pulls everything to it. Krishna is the formless centre that is everywhere.
Any attraction anywhere comes only from Krishna.
Often people fail to see the spirit behind an attraction and merely hold on to the outer shell. The moment you possess the shell, you will see Krishna has played a trick. You will be left empty with the shell in your hands and tears in your eyes.
Don’t be tricked by Krishna – be clever like Radha. Krishna could not escape from Radha, for her whole world was filled with Krishna. If you can see that wherever there is an attraction, there is Krishna, then you have become Radha. Then you are always in your centre.
The mind moves towards beauty, joy, and truth. So Krishna tells Arjuna, I am the beauty in the beautiful, the strength in the strong, the wisdom in the wise.
In this way he attracts the mind so that it does not move away from him.
Krishna reveals this Knowledge to Arjuna because he is anasuya. Next week we will see what anasuya is.
August 24, 1995
London, United Kingdom
11. Asuya and Anasuya
There is a certain mind set that always finds fault even under the best conditions. When you give such a person the best possible things, he finds faults. Even with the ideal companion or the most beautiful painting, he will still find something wrong. This kind of mind set is called asuya; it can never know the sacred Knowledge.
Asuya is finding a fault or seeing a malicious intent everywhere. Suppose it is windy and you shut the door, but at that moment someone else was just about to walk in. He will think that the door has been slammed in his face! This is asuya.
You have a friendship, and after ten years you find a fault and decide to break it off. Now you do not see any good from that entire relationship. This is asuya.
The moment you are out of the spiritual Path, you feel that everything on the Path was all wrong. This is asuya.
Asuya is when a child says, Mother, you don’t love me!
The child’s vision is wrong; if the mother does not love the child, who will? It frustrates the mother.
Asuya is when someone comes to me and says, Gurudev, you don’t love me!
If I don’t love them, forget about it. Who else in the world will? Yet a Master never becomes frustrated.
Knowledge is different at different levels of consciousness. At a particular point you become anasuya.
Anasuya means being devoid of fault-finding eyes.
Krishna tells Arjuna that he is giving him the Royal Secret because he is anasuya: You are not finding fault in Me, even though you are so close.
From a distance, it is easy to miss a fault in somebody; up close, no fault escapes you. Even craters cannot be seen from afar; up close, even a smooth surface has imperfections. If you are interested only in holes, you will not see the larger dimension of things.
Unless you are devoid of fault-finding eyes, there is no point in giving you Knowledge because it cannot blossom in you.
If a mirror is dusty, you can clean it. But if your eyes have a cataract, any amount of dusting the mirror will not help. You have to remove the cataract. Then you will see that the mirror was already clean.
Asuya – fault–finding eyes, give you the idea, The whole world is not sharp, the whole world is no good.
Anasuya is knowing, It is my own vision of the world that is blurred.
And once you discover you have the wrong vision, half of the problem has already disappeared.
August 31, 1995
Here and Now
12. The Love of the Ignorant, the Anger of the Enlightened
The love of the ignorant can be harmful, yet even the anger of the Enlightened is not harmful. It can only be good!
We have a school at the ashram in Bangalore. There are 250 children enrolled, but only 200 come to class on any given day. Fifty children don’t show up! Why? Because they cry at home, Mother, I don’t want to go to school.
The mother says, Oh, la la, don’t cry...okay.
She thinks, No child in the world is like my child.
She gives in to the child and defends him. She does not see the teacher’s point of view.
So, what happens? The child grows up spoiled. The child will never learn the alphabet, never learn to read or write. And the mother says, Oh, never mind, there are sheep to look after and fields to tend.
Her love in ignorance has spoiled the child.
On the other hand,
The anger of the Enlightened is a blessing.
The Puranas give many instances of this. Once a Master was travelling with a disciple in the middle province of India. Some boys who were rude, rough, and abusive began to throw stones and tease the disciple, calling him names. This went on for some time as the boys followed the Master and the disciple.
They came to a river. The Master and the disciple got into a boat and started to cross. The boys got into another boat which began to sink in the middle of the river.
The Master slapped the disciple across the face. The disciple was so surprised, as he had not said a single word in response to the boys’ taunts! He had been such a good disciple and yet the Master had slapped him.
The Master said, It is your fault. You are responsible for their boat sinking. You did not respond to their abuse. Nature has now punished them in a worse way because you did not have enough compassion to quell their insults.
That slap from the Master took away the karma of this event so that it would not be carried into the future of the boys. It also served to take away any little bit of joy the disciple may have felt as he was seeing the boys’ boat sink! Thus, it also took away the karma of the event for the disciple.
Even the anger of the Enlightened is a blessing!
September 6, 1995
Bangalore Ashram, India
13. A Liar is Innocent
A dear person whom you trust lies to you and you catch him. What do you feel?
1. Sadness
2. Anger
3. Cheated
4. Disappointment
5. Compassion
6. Let down
7. Loss of respect
8. Wonder
9. Shock
10. Embarrassment
Recently when someone lied to me, I felt happy and more love, for they were not a good liar. Had he been a good liar, he would not have been caught. I thought He is so innocent that he could not even lie properly. He lied and got caught! If he had not been caught, how would ever you know he was a liar?
So... you can never know a good liar.
The person you call a liar is not a good liar... and he is innocent. Isn’t he?
And so... (Laugh), you need not go through all the above listed mental gymnastics. Instead melt and dissolve in love.
September 13, 1995
Melbourne, Australia
14. Be a Gopal
You walk until you come to the ocean. You don’t walk or run in the ocean – you float and swim. Like this, once you come to the Master, seeking stops, blossoming begins.
You seek until you Come to the Master.
Seeking is a desire. Desire is a thought. Thoughts are in the mind. The mind is in the Big Mind. The Big Mind in me is love. Emotions are ripples in love. Love is all Knowledge. Every atom of the Big Mind is crammed with Knowledge. Knowing this, you stop seeking.
You are Knowledge. Every atom in you is shimmering with Knowledge. In Sanskrit, this is called go. Go has four meanings:
• Knowledge
• Movement
• Achievement
• Freedom or liberation
Pal means friend or protector – one who takes care of you. Be a Gopal (go-pal); be a friend in Knowledge. Often you become friends by:
• Gossiping about negative things
• Complaining
• Similar cravings or aversions
• Common enemies or common problems
• Common goals or common addictions
You become friends with someone because you have something in common. But coming together in Knowledge is rare.
Be a friend in Knowledge. Uplift each other in Knowledge.
All Satsangees are Gopals – reminding each other of the Knowledge, coming together for Knowledge. That is Gopal. Be a protector of this Knowledge.
September 21, 1995
Bangalore Ashram, India
15. Silence
Prayer within breath
Is silence
Love within Infinity
Is silence
Wisdom without words
Is silence
Compassion without aim
Is silence
Action without doer
Is silence
Smiling with all the Existence
Is silence!
September 27, 1995
Bangalore Ashram, India
16. The Big Mind
You know there is a big mind and a small mind. Sometimes the Big Mind wins over the small mind, and sometimes it is the other way around.
When the small mind wins over, it is misery; when the Big Mind wins, it is joy. The small mind promises joy and leaves your hand empty. The Big Mind may bring a resistance in the beginning but later fills you with joy.
Jai means victory.
Guru means great.
Deva means the Divine who is fun-loving, playful, light.
Jai Guru Dev means victory to the Greatness in you, victory to the Big
Mind in you that is both dignified and playful.
Usually one who is playful is not dignified, and one who is dignified is not playful. But the Divine in you – the Big Mind –is both together.
Jai Guru Dev need not be thought of as victory to the Master. Rather, it is victory to your own Self, your own Big Mind over the wailing small mind.
October 5, 1995
Bangalore Ashram, India
17. The Only Thing You Must Remember
The only thing you must remember is how fortunate you are. When you forget this, you become sad.
Sorrow indicates:
1) your attachment to negative qualities, and
2) your attachment to positive qualities.
Your negative qualities make you sad. And when you think you are so great, you start blaming others; this also makes you become sad.
The purpose of sorrow is to bring you back to the Self, which is all joy. But this realisation is possible only through Knowledge – awareness. Knowledge leads sorrow towards the Self. Without Knowledge, the sorrow does not get completed and instead multiplies. Knowledge completes sorrow.
Only with the power of Knowledge do you transcend sorrow.
In this Path you have everything. This beautiful Knowledge is complete with all flavours in it: wisdom, laughter, service, silence, singing, dancing, celebration, yagnas, complaints problems, complications, and chaos to add spice.
Life is so colourful!
October 10, 1995
Bangalore Ashram, India
18. Freedom and Discipline
Freedom and discipline are opposites. And they are also complementary.
The purpose of defence is to protect freedom. But is there freedom in defence? Do soldiers have freedom? No, they are bound, not allowed to put the right foot down when told the left foot. Their steps are measured; they are unable even to walk with a natural rhythm. There is no freedom in defence, yet this is what protects the freedom of the country!
Freedom without discipline is like a country without a defence. Discipline protects freedom. They both go hand in hand. Understand this and move ahead in life. You have certain restrictions that allow you your freedom. You can focus either on freedom or discipline, and be happy or unhappy.
Fences have a definite place and purpose. If you build a fence all over the entire property, then where will you put your home? Yet a well placed fence protects the property. Love puts you on track. Fear also puts you back on track, as is the case with religions that have put fear as the main motivating force.
Nature itself induces fear in a child at a certain age. A child has no fear when very young; he gets 100% love and attention from the mother. But as he grows more independent, nature brings in an iota of fear; he learns to become cautious. With increasing freedom, the child learns to walk more carefully.
There is a state of absolute freedom, unlimited bliss, the freedom Advaita⁵ talks about. But the Advaita Knowledge has been totally misused according to people’s fancies and conveniences. We need to be very practical. There must be freedom in the mind, love in the heart, and discipline in action. Fear of losing freedom brings discipline and defence. And the purpose of defence is to eliminate fear.
On this Path, Knowledge is your freedom - and also your defence.
5 the non-dual philosophy of the Upanishads expounded in detail by Adi Shankara
October 17, 1995
Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada
19. Discipleship Ends
Knowledge has an end. Knowledge completes.
So also does discipleship, for the disciple is aimed at acquiring Knowledge. Once you cross the water, however nice the boat is, you get out.
After twelve years, the disciple completes his studies. The master does a ceremony called Samavarta. He asks the disciple to now behave at par with him and allow the Divine – the Brahman – to manifest; he thus ends the discipleship.
Sakha is a beloved companion in life and death. A Sakha only wants the beloved, he longs only for the beloved. He doesn’t care about Knowledge or liberation. His love is infinite, and infinity can never be full. His love is complete in its eternal incompleteness. There is no end on the path of love...
Arjuna was a Sakha to Krishna, and although Krishna was a perfect Master, he was a Sakha, too.
What are you:
a shishya (disciple),
or a Sakha (beloved companion)?
October 24, 1995
Montreal Ashram, Ontario, Canada
20. Sakha: Your Reliable Sense
There are three Sanskrit words: sukha, joy; duhkha, sorrow; and Sakha, companion. These have one thing in common: kha, which means senses.
The Self experiences the world through the senses. When the senses are with the Self, that is sukha (joy), because the Self is the source of all joy or pleasure. When the senses are turned away from the Self – in the mud, lost in an object – that is duhkha (misery). Mud, misery, mind – they are all connected.
Sukha is the nature of Self. And all sense objects are a diving board to take you back to the Self. You close your eyes in a pleasant experience: when you smell a flower, when you taste or touch something nice. Sukha is that which takes you to the Self.
Duhkha is that which takes you away from the Self. Sorrow means that you have been caught in an object that has pulled you off your Self.
Sakha is the companion who is there for you in all experiences of sukha and duhkha. Knowledge is your companion, and the Master is the embodiment of Knowledge. If you are stuck in an object, his wisdom pulls you out and leads you back to your Self.
Sakha (sa-kha) also means He is the senses. Sakha is one who has become your senses. It means you get Knowledge through him; he is your sixth sense. As you trust your mind, so you trust him. Usually a friend is an object of your senses, but a Sakha has become your senses.
Sakha means, He is my senses, I see the world through his wisdom.
Your head will be in the mud in a few years; in the meantime, don’t put mud in your head while you are still alive! See through the eyes of the Master and you will see the whole world as divine.
• News Flash:
Gurudev spoke at the United Nations 50th Anniversary Celebration on October 22. Here are a few quotes:
"Spiritual education is needed to uncover the knowledge that we are, first, part of the Divine, and second, we are human beings.
In this age, even when technology has advanced so far, we have cared very little for the emotional and spiritual needs of people. Neither at home nor in school have we been taught how to release negative emotions. Either we regret the past and worry about the future or we get stuck in negativity.
A stress-free mind and disease-free body are the birthrights of every human being. Only true spiritual knowledge can help us to handle our mind and bring us back to the present moment.
Breathing techniques, meditation, and yoga can be used as powerful tools to release tensions and negative emotions, enabling one to live more fully in the present moment.
November 1, 1995
London, United Kingdom
21. Scepticism
Ignorance is being a sceptic and not knowing it.
If you think you are a sceptic, you are no longer a sceptic! You already have a clue of something beyond. So, in reality, you can never know when you are a sceptic!
A sceptic is stuck in a paradigm that closes off all other possibilities. But this creation contains all possibilities. As you understand how paradigms shift, scepticism drops.
A real scientist can never afford to be a sceptic because scepticism will not probe into unknown areas of existence. Scepticism is an I know it all
attitude, and this attitude is unscientific. Scepticism is dispelled by Knowledge.
Do not recognize someone’s scepticism and try to argue. Arguments only strengthen scepticism. Fear of losing one’s freedom brings more resistance and causes more scepticism.
Deep inside every human being there is faith and love – Scepticism is only a thin layer. If you hold in your mind This person is a sceptic, you only empower his or her scepticism.
Your silence and the smile from your heart will dispel any scepticism. There is nothing better than silence to break it. Silence means a