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The Look Book Goes to the Grindr Pleasure Ball

A Georgian-era dress code was strictly enforced by hosts Billy Porter and Frankie Sharp.

Photo: Frankie Alduino
Photo: Frankie Alduino

Ryan Petersen (pictured above)
Writer and DJ, Ridgewood

You look amazing.
I’m working the event, and they dressed everyone who is working the party. There’s also a makeup artist and a person styling the wigs. It’s a full production.

How’d you get the gig?
My friend is one of the party planners. He hired me and my boyfriend to be gossipers or handlers. The job description is really just to be hot and walk around. It’s the perfect job for me.

How has the party been?
It’s kind of like a corporate party with a smattering of gay nightlife people in there as well. There are gay drag-queen–porn-star people, but I also met the woman in charge of privacy for Grindr. I finagled getting Grindr Xtra, which is the premium subscription, for free for a year. It isn’t quite a sexy, sexy party.

What makes a party “sexy, sexy”?
It’s tacky, but there’s a party called Wrecked at Basement, which is more like a shirts-off-dancing, gay sex party. It’s a good place for me and my boyfriend to go and have a good time with a hot guy who’s visiting New York. I’ve unfortunately been several times.

Will Cappelletti

Start-up CEO, Washington, D.C.

Sean Patrick Henry

Product director, Washington, D.C.

Matt “Cayden Foxx” Tobin

Wig dresser, Los Angeles


What were you up to before this?

Mildly having a panic attack because I had a whole suitcase of bits and bobs and jewelry and accessories, and I had to lay it all out and make sure I hadn’t forgotten anything. And then I was timing everything in my head — when to do my makeup, when to get dressed. It was a logistical, planned-out day for me.

Gracie J

Nail artist, Brooklyn

Harley Harris

Musician and DJ, Ridgewood


Seen anything weird tonight?

Not really. I mean, besides I guess the weird ways that gay people on alcohol normally behave. But that’s not even weird to me at this point.

Zach Patton

Editor, Fort Greene

Keletso Makofane

Social-network epidemiologist, Harlem

Angie Ta

Brand coordinator, Bedford-Stuyvesant

Frankie Sharp

Event producer, Times Square


Any entertainment tonight?

There’s a person writing beautiful custom poems that are sort of dirty limericks. I told her about my mother, who was a go-go dancer, and my father, who was a sailor — he was her No. 1 tipper, and that’s how they met. After a while, they got married. They’re still madly in love and very embarrassing in public. I adore them.

Sophie Saint Thomas

Author, Hell’s Kitchen

Chet Callahan

Architect, Los Angeles

Justin Swisher

Brand-activation manager, Philadelphia


Tell me about your outfit.

This is actually my plan-B look. My other outfit was vetoed by my friend because I was showing a bit too much skin, so I toned myself down. I pulled these pearls off a mannequin in Rome a few weeks ago when I was there for a wedding. I was like, I’ve got to have these. I have a costume closet, so I pulled some of the other stuff from there and then bought a new pair of boots.

Shane Cahill

Director of AI legislation, Washington, D.C.

Drew Lausch

Comedian, actor, writer, Prospect–Lefferts Gardens

Jacinto Hernandez, Principal at architecture firm, Los Angeles.

CT Hedden

Curator and artist, East Village

Tristan Pineiro

Head of marketing, Los Angeles


Did you take the subway in this outfit?

We got a taxi. However, I failed to realize how big my head was with the wig on, so I had to sit on the floor behind the driver, who was very worried that I didn’t have my seat belt on. Luckily, there wasn’t far to go. I literally fell out onto the sidewalk when I got here. It wasn’t a glamorous entry, but I was fine once I got in.

Yves Mathieu East

Model, singer, and animal rescuer, East Village

Photographs by Frankie Alduino

Will Cappelletti

Start-up CEO, Washington, D.C.

Sean Patrick Henry

Product director, Washington, D.C.

Matt “Cayden Foxx” Tobin

Wig dresser, Los Angeles


What were you up to before this?

Mildly having a panic attack because I had a whole suitcase of bits and bobs and jewelry and accessories, and I had to lay it all out and make sure I hadn’t forgotten anything. And then I was timing everything in my head — when to do my makeup, when to get dressed. It was a logistical, planned-out day for me.

Gracie J

Nail artist, Brooklyn

Harley Harris

Musician and DJ, Ridgewood


Seen anything weird tonight?

Not really. I mean, besides I guess the weird ways that gay people on alcohol normally behave. But that’s not even weird to me at this point.

Zach Patton

Editor, Fort Greene

Keletso Makofane

Social-network epidemiologist, Harlem

Angie Ta

Brand coordinator, Bedford-Stuyvesant

Frankie Sharp

Event producer, Times Square


Any entertainment tonight?

There’s a person writing beautiful custom poems that are sort of dirty limericks. I told her about my mother, who was a go-go dancer, and my father, who was a sailor — he was her No. 1 tipper, and that’s how they met. After a while, they got married. They’re still madly in love and very embarrassing in public. I adore them.

Sophie Saint Thomas

Author, Hell’s Kitchen

Chet Callahan

Architect, Los Angeles

Justin Swisher

Brand-activation manager, Philadelphia


Tell me about your outfit.

This is actually my plan-B look. My other outfit was vetoed by my friend because I was showing a bit too much skin, so I toned myself down. I pulled these pearls off a mannequin in Rome a few weeks ago when I was there for a wedding. I was like, I’ve got to have these. I have a costume closet, so I pulled some of the other stuff from there and then bought a new pair of boots.

Shane Cahill

Director of AI legislation, Washington, D.C.

Drew Lausch

Comedian, actor, writer, Prospect–Lefferts Gardens

Jacinto Hernandez, Principal at architecture firm, Los Angeles.

CT Hedden

Curator and artist, East Village

Tristan Pineiro

Head of marketing, Los Angeles


Did you take the subway in this outfit?

We got a taxi. However, I failed to realize how big my head was with the wig on, so I had to sit on the floor behind the driver, who was very worried that I didn’t have my seat belt on. Luckily, there wasn’t far to go. I literally fell out onto the sidewalk when I got here. It wasn’t a glamorous entry, but I was fine once I got in.

Yves Mathieu East

Model, singer, and animal rescuer, East Village

Photographs by Frankie Alduino

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