"It is a great thing to know the season for speech and the season for silence." Seneca Have you ever known anyone who must constantly be talking. Â You know the one's we lovingly call "chatty Cathys". Â It seems as though they can't stand one moment of silence. "Say nothing unless it improves upon the silence" the Buddha (I think) Which brings to mind a thought.....If we must always be talking or thinking of what we are going to want to say next...How can our mind's ever be at rest? Â How can we ever be in the present? When Brad and I travel across this beautiful country of ours....as we are doing now.....there are often long stretches of silence. Sometimes I'll look at him and ask "What are you thinking?" Â More often than not his reply is this "I'm not thinking.....I'm driving...when I drive.... I drive." " I have often regretted my speech.......never my silence." Pullilus Syrys We both just may