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This PR adds support for automatic retry of failed appends.  Failures are evaluated both from the perspective of any receive errors getting the response, as well as any response that may be embedded in response from the service.  Previous behavior was to simply re-attempt failures when issuing the append.

This PR also adds a new WriterOption (`DisableWriteRetries(disable bool)`) to control this behavior (default is to have retries enabled).

For users sensitive to write duplication, this PR also exposes a new TotalAttempts method on the AppendResult, which will indicate the total number of times this write was attempted.

This also tries to clean up retries in general a bit more.  The generated client will already retry unary RPCs, subject to the [service config](https://github.com/googleapis/googleapis/blob/master/google/cloud/bigquery/storage/v1/bigquerystorage_grpc_service_config.json) present when generating the storage API.

We specifically clarify/introduce two additional kinds of retries above that: a unary retry and a stateless retry.

The unary retry is used to (re)open the underlying bidi network connection which appends are sent upon, as we want to be resilient to reconnection.  The unary retry is effectively stateful for the operation of reopening the connection, and thus uses a gax-based backoff that backs off with increasing intervals.

The stateless retry is used when processing the responses returning from the backend on the bidi stream, where backing off incrementally doesn't make sense.  Instead, we use a base backoff and jitter, and for cases where a more severe backoff is warranted (throughput exhaustion) we use a multiplication factor.  The intent here is to provide backpressure which will eventually saturate the append queue and cause blocking/rejection of writes until the backlog recovers.