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A funny thing happened to me not long ago…I woke up on my birthday last month and realized I’m getting older. I know, it sounds ridiculous, everyone gets older. But this was different, this was the realization that I’m now at an age where I question things that I wouldn’t have given a second thought to a few years back. I don’t feel old in any way physically, or even mentally, but I wonder about my style, is it reflecting my age? Has it begun to look like an old lady’s house, or a cat lady’s house? {That’s really not possible since we have a pair of dogs} 🙂
For example, I’ve always felt confident in my ability to decorate my home in a style that works for my tastes, and seems to be acceptable to our family. And as if validation mattered, I receive compliments along the way from visitors who have stated that our home is pretty. I don’t say that in any kind of boastful way, but rather to make the point that I never second guessed every little decision where decor was concerned.
I still love many of the same things I’ve always loved, English country style with a bit of French thrown in, more Ralph Lauren than Matthew Patrick Smyth, and because of the size of our home, it’s more rustic than elegant. It’s evolved as we’ve aged and I’ve worked hard to keep the tchotchkes edited down. I have always been open to change and like to rotate certain accessories/accents for the season. All that said, I’ve begun to wonder…is my house beginning to look dated? Does this happen to any of you?
I took heart from a recent Charlotte Moss quote I read in Veranda magazine:
“I’m a collector…You know when you lock eyes with a person? I’ve been locking eyes with objects my entire life.”
I’ve always been more riveted by a beautiful tabletop than the table itself. Maybe that’s why I worry about getting carried away with the very treasures I love.
A great vignette, with the right accessories, can make me weak in the knees. My files are filled with rooms that are especially beautiful due to great styling details. Is this the very thing that has me worried? Maybe. I do embrace the minimalists approach which stresses living with what you love, and I do [live with what I love].
That said, I think it doesn’t hurt to be mindful of one’s surroundings, not overly sentimental. So, my dear friends, keep me honest. If I share a room that’s beginning to look one knick-knack short of a hoarders den, gently remind me of this post! 🙂
Do you ever have doubts about the direction you’re going where home/style is concerned? Any remedies? 🙂