BEHAVIOUR
TRANSACTIONAL
ANALYSIS
Sanjiv Bosamia
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES
PARENT
ADULT
CHILD
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES
PARENT
ADULT
CHILD
P
A
C
PAST / ARBITRARY
AUTHORITY FIGURES
NON-PERCEPTIVE
DATA / SORTING
REALITY PROCESSING
ACTING RATIONALLY
FEELINGS / SENSORY
JOY / CREATIVITY
WANTING / DEMANDING
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES
PARENT
ADULT
CHILD
P
A
C
RIGIDITY / DETRMINATION
TRADITION / VALUES
VANITY / MAGNANIMITY
INSENSITIVE / COMPOSURE
CRUEL / RESPONSIBLE
SLOW / DECISIVE
IMPULSIVE / CREATIVE
SELFISH / LOVING
EMOTIVE / CARING
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES
PARENT
ADULT
CHILD
P
A
C
RITUALISTIC / FLEXIBLE
MORALISTIC / LIBERAL
REPRIMANDING / CARING
INDIFFERENT / REALISTIC
DEMANDING / FACTUAL
PUSHING / LEADING
SENSUAL / SIMPLE
MOODY / INSPIRATIONAL
LIMITED / NO PREJUDICE
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THREE OBSERVABLE EGO STATES
P
A
C
Different ego states
necessary for different situations.
Requiring different responses.
Proper balance & rhythm
necessary.
Fundamental orientation may
show dominance of different ego
states.
Formative years, environment,
and experience brings about
changes.
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
FUNDAMENTAL ORIENTATIONS
P
A
C
P
A
C
P
A
C
BALANCED AUTOCRATIC ARISTOCRAT
P
A
C
CHILDISH
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
COMPLIMENTARY TRASACTION
CONTINUOUS
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
CROSSED TRANSACTION
BLOCKED COMMUNICATION
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES: ONE
WITHDRAWALS
DELIBRATE
REFUSAL
OF
TRANSACTIONS
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:TWO
RITUALS
SOCIALLY
PROGRAMED
USE OF
TIME
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:THREE
ACTIVITIES
COMMON
CONVENIENT
COMFORTABLE
SAFE
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:FOUR
PASTIMES
SOCIALLY USEFUL TRANSACTIONS:
SHOP TALK
WHO WON
HOW TO
DO YOU KNOW
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:FIVE
GAMES
TRANSACTION WITH AN
ULTERIOR MOTIVE
HAS A PAY OFF
TENDS TO BE REPETITIVE
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:SIX
SCRIPTS
LIFE POSITIONS
PRE-ORDAINED / SET PATTERN
SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY
RESTRICTS AUTONOMY
OR LIFE POTENTIALS
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
WAYS TO THWART AND DISTORT
AUTONOMUS LIVES INTO SCRIPTS
UNSUCCESSFUL QUEST
FOR LOVE
NO LOVE
UNABLE TO COPE
WITH THE WORLD
NO THINK
NO JOY
UNABLE TO FEEL /
ENJOY
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
ROBERT KARPMAN
THE DRAMA TRIANGLE
RESCUER
PERSECUTOR
VICTIM
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
VICTIM
OPPRESSED BY ANOTHER PERSON
CO OPERATES WITH THE PROCESS
OF VICTIMIZATION
KEPT DOWN BY THE RESCUER
TRAINING IN POWERLESSNESS
I AM NOT OK : YOU ARE OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESCUER
VESTED INTREST IN INEQUALITY
MORE THAN 50% INVOLVEMENT
ULTERIOR POWER MOTIVE
COMPULSIVE INVOLVEMENT
DOSE NOT ALLOW VICTIM TO
HELP THEMSELVES
I AM OK - YOU ARE NOT OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
PERSECUTOR
CONTINUOUS BLAMING
DISOWNS FEELINGS
DOMINANT PARENT / CHILD
VICTIMISED BY PERSECUTOR
POWERLESSNESS
I AM OK - YOU ARE NOT OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
HOW TO BREAK
THE DRAMA TRANGLE
Scrutinize assumptions.
Believe people can help themselves.
Do not help unless asked .
Do not help without a contract.
Do not do what
you dont want to do .
Help people to find ways to help
themselves.
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
RESPONSES:SEVEN
LOVE
LIFE POSITION:
I AM OK-YOU ARE OK
FREEDOM TO SHAPE
AUTHENTIC UNDERSTANDING
NO ULTERIOR TRANSACTIONS
AUTONOMOUS
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
I
AM
OK
I
AM
NOT
OK
YOU ARE NOT OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
I
AM
OK
I
AM
NOT
OK
CHILD / SENSORY
EXPECTATIONS
BLAMING /
FIGHTING
CRYING
YOU ARE NOT OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
I
AM
OK
I
AM
NOT
OK
YOU ARE NOT OK
DOMINATING
ACCUSING
FIGHTING
CONFRONTATION
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
YOU ARE NOT OK
I
AM
OK
I
AM
NOT
OK
DESTRUCTIVE
SELF-DEFEATING
DISTURBED
DISORDER
KILLING
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
I
AM
OK
I
AM
NOT
OK
ADULT
UNDERSTANDING
MATURE
COLLABORATING
YOU ARE NOT OK
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU ARE OK
YOU ARE NOT OK
I
AM
OK
ADULT
UNDERSTANDING
MATURE
COLLABORATING
DOMINATING
ACCUSING
FIGHTING
CONFRONTATION
I
AM
NOT
OK
CHILD / SENSORY
EXPECTATIONS
BLAMING /
FIGHTING
CRYING
DESTRUCTIVE
SELF-DEFEATING
DISTURBED
DISORDER
KILLING
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
YOU WIN
I
WIN
I
LOOSE
YOU LOOSE
I WINYOU WIN
I WINU LOOSE
I LOOSEU WIN
I LOOSEU LOOSE
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Enhancing Adult Responses
Always remain focused on facts
Use persuasion rather than
authority to over come opposition
Do not put too much vanity into
any absolute certainty.
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Enhancing Adult Responses
Never discourage thinking.
Do not respect anybody blindly,
for there are always
contrary authority to be found.
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Enhancing Adult Responses
Do not use power to suppress
opinion
Do not fear to be eccentric.
Find more pleasure in intelligent
dissent than passive agreement.
BEHAVIOUR: TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Enhancing Adult Responses
Be scrupulously truthful even if it
is inconvenient.
Never be too embarrassed to say
that you care and love.
GOOD LIFE IS INSPIRED BY LOVE; AND
GUIDED BY KNOWLEDGE
BERTRAND RUSSELL
