6) Cracking The Code
6) Cracking The Code
Well, I’ve thought about it and my realization is that women are just like children.
Hear me out:
They get mad when they don't know where you are, just
like kids.
The reason?
Because women are the primary caregivers of children.
IT DOESN’T WORK.
I love women, with all my heart. That’s one of the main reasons
why I started my page, to spread the message;
The worst of the worst and red pill content that turns guys into
women haters.
Let me put it this way, there are 4 types of women in the world.
Hoes
Hot women
Beautiful women
Just forget the hoes and the ones no one cares about because let me
be honest:
I’m not saying that to be rude, no, it’s just a matter of fact.
Just like women don’t care about the overweight, ugly, cashier at their
local gas station, we men don’t care about those type of women.
Likewise, hoes can’t expect to get their hands on a high-value man, because
they haven’t managed to preserve the irresistible beauty they were dealt at birth,
they have lost their value.
Hot women are everywhere. Nice ass and a good rack of tits. They’re
beautified, not beautiful.
They have the kindness, the goodness, the gentleness of the feminine spirit.
“I want to wake up beside you, I want to protect you, I want to care for you, I want
to provide for you.”
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: What Type Of Women Exist?
If you deeply contemplate, I think every man will discover two remarkable
women in his life: one possessing stunning beauty (Beautiful women) and
the other radiating irresistible allure (Hot women)
Not only because they're intimidating to others, but because others put
them on pedestals.
Men are rarely honest with them about their intentions and women are
jealous and mistrustful toward them.
They're placed on a pedestal- in their own little magical realm, far away
from the rest.
Hot women get hit on all the time. Beautiful women rarely do.
Beautiful women on the other hand are mysterious, they have depth,
and complexity to them- it confuses men, hence; they’re looked past.
While the slutty ones who have no grace in public want to be “cuddled”
and cared for.
The innocent ones don’t want to reveal their sexual side because
they don’t want to be seen as a slut.
The slutty types don’t want to reveal their need for love and care
because they don’t want others to think she’s not “strong and
independent”
They’re easy to attract- flash is better than the guy next to you she’s
yours.
Do you think beautiful women care about these things? Hmm, you’re
starting to get it now?
Quality women are beautiful women, and the answer is: No, they don’t
care.
They’re attracted to you- the beauty inside you, what lies beyond your
social programming.
They don’t care about your superficial layers, they want you, for who
you are and only you.
The men who also are set apart by society, but by their own
choice.
The men that chase something more than just the obsession to fit in,
to present themselves in a certain way to please others.
The men who are authentic, something more than just captives of
superficiality,
The men who chase something else than just trying to navigate the
sea of filters, polished images, and hollow validation of modern
society.
The men who measure their worth by something more than the
number of likes, followers, and comments they receive.
These are the classical ‘power couples’ when a high-value man meets a
beautiful woman.
So if you’re ever faced with a decision between choosing a hot woman and
a beautiful woman, ALWAYS choose the beautiful one.
Beautiful women are the most magical creatures on earth, and a smile
graces my countenance just by writing about them.
Stop disliking women as a whole just because you’ve interacted with one
hoe.
Don’t let one woman spoil the way to feel about all women.
Don’t let one bad apple change the way you feel about them as a whole.
Please, whatever you do, don't become a women hater.
In order for you to become better with women, you first have to
understand them.
To that, I say: All women are different, yet all women are
wonderfully the same.
The masculine spirit is slowly dying, but if you want to succeed in the
modern dating market you need to reignite your masculine spirit.
You can learn how female logic works just like you can learn the
functions of a computer or the technical specifications of a car.
Do you think:
or
2) "In order to have sex with that woman I need to make sure the
environment and she is capable of giving our potential children the
perfect conditions."
→b→c→x→y→z→u→a→b→
→a→b→c→d→e→f→g→h→
Instead, they are linked based on how one emotion (let's call it
emotion b) led to another emotion (emotion c), and so on within the
woman.
I'm sorry if this became very academic, but there's no better way to
explain it.
"Imagine you have a magical emotion chain for a girl, and it goes like this: a-x-c-h-
u-a-e-b.
But you're a big boy now, so you know that wasn't the usual pattern of the alphabet.
In this special chain, the emotions are connected in a unique way, not following the
normal rules that we men might understand.
For example, emotion "b" can make the girl feel emotion "c," and then emotion "x"
might make her feel emotion "h," and so on.
There's no specific reason why these emotions are linked like this, and it's a bit like
a magical mystery.
It's not following the usual patterns that we usually see in our everyday lives.
Instead, it's about how these emotions are connected in her heart, like a secret
emotional code.
So, it's all about the feelings and how they make her experience the world, not just
following regular logic or rules. Isn't that fascinating?
Not all women do this, though. For example: If you have a female boss she'll make
rational decisions no matter what, but that's because of layers of social filters, she's not
herself in that moment of time, it's an alter ego, she's a boss.
And it's not so bad that if a girl craves milk, she'll get a glass of orange juice.
For example, if a girl gets upset she'll turn to emotional decision making.
But here's the problem: There is NO clear connection between their emotions and
what causes them.
Even she might not know what caused the emotional outburst.
That's why I always say that women are free-flowing creatures, they do whatever she
feels in THAT MOMENT OF TIME.
That's why women get even more pissed when you are trying to "solve" their
problems with your male logic.
She doesn't want you to solve her problems, all she wants is your support and
that you try to understand her.
All you can do is try to find humor in the never-ending drama the feminine
seems to enjoy so much.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
A smart man once said: "If things were so good before, it would have never
changed."
Just a couple of years back it was completely normal that the man had
complete leadership in the relationship.
It's just in recent years that women have taken more and more control.
The man needs to have a little more control in order for any healthy relationship
to work. Not too much, 60% is the sweat balance.
Why? Well, back in the day, and most men today like to relax when they get into
a committed relationship. In an attempt to relax, the man will start an attempt to
establish control of her behavior as soon as he gets in touch with her emotional
side.
The more logic and control a man attempts to establish, the more the woman
will escalate emotionally. For her, it’s a matter of self-defense to preserve
her sense of identity as a woman.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Psychology Explained
(Same with men, if his women become too controlling they'll put on their armor
to preserve their masculinity.
Anyway, when a man tries to have his woman’s female logic repressed and
transformed into male logic, he actually represses his woman’s sexual
attraction towards him.
You must understand that the kind of emotional thinking within the woman-
which I identify as female psychology is strongly linked to her sexuality.
That's why there some many washed-up couples who resent each other, who
stick together despite the hatred because they're both too scared to be alone.
Dealing with a woman and her female psychology in the proper way is difficult,
but the best advice I can give is that you cannot relax in the way you normally
intend to relax.
This is because if you could naturally understand a woman when she is thinking
with her female psychology, you would no longer be a real man, but rather quite
an effeminate man.
Instead, to make a woman happy and sexually active, you must cultivate a
constant state of awareness within yourself: be aware of her emotional state,
without allowing her emotional state to affect you.
Because the only way to at least try to solve a problem is first to be aware
of it.
From my experience, the best way to deal with female psychology is to help
your woman to actually enhance it, instead of trying to change it.
Obviously; this must happen in such a way that you never lose your masculine
frame, because if you do that then you will become her “male girlfriend”;
emotionally close- sure, but without the sexual tension that is at the very
center of any healthy relationship.
At its core, female logic is somewhat schizophrenic. Haha, I'm not kidding.
You must be able to talk womanese, without ever losing the sexually active and
aggressive frame of the masculine male.
A MASSIVE PROBLEM.
I don't have all the answers, nobody does, and I don't think anyone ever will.
Your takeaway from this chapter is that chick logic is a fundamental weapon in
the female arsenal for managing their relationships with men.
Chick logic leads to notions such as “If you don’t talk about it, it never
happened.”
When you hear a phrase like this from a woman, understand that what this
means in practice is that she doesn’t want to talk about something that “causes”
her to feel bad.
Never mind whether the whole incident was captured on video, that’s
completely irrelevant to her.
As long as she never talks about it, she never has to feel those bad emotions.
If she's happy she can want to have your children today, and break up
with you tomorrow.
If she's upset she can hate you now, and tell you that you're the only one
for her and that she loves you more than anything in the world 15
minutes after.
Well, MPS is the belief that because a woman has a pussy, she is entitled to
special privileges at other people’s expense. Such as free drinks, free dinner,
alimony, and child support.
It's important to note that not all women suffer from this all the time.
For example, I recently met a woman who said she had been dating two
guys at the same time except that she wouldn’t allow them to date other
women.
Now this was not an otherwise bad woman, in fact, she was a good girl.
But she believed that because she was a woman, she had the right to
behave this way, and that the men she dated did not.
Demonstrating that you're above a woman's MPS will disrupt her superior
attitude.
If you show this rare and superior frame, a woman will be wonderfully
transformed into pursuing you.
While many men may accept the MPS frame, only the best (All of you that
own Beyond Seduction) recognize this frame of her, BUT DO NOT
ACCEPT IT.
But you must also recognize women with too much MPS as it can be a
very effective method to eliminate women from your life who will prove to
be a pain in the ass, and you can accomplish this very early on in your
interactions with them.
Now, her next actions are crucial in understanding her behavior and MPS.
If she apologizes and makes it up to you in some way, like offering to pay
for the transportation, then you can let the lateness slide and not worry too
much about it.
Too much MPS, if she shows no consideration for your time or tries to
take advantage of you financially, it's a sign of MASSIVE trouble ahead.
If you don't address this behavior right away, she will continue to act in a
way that tests your limits until she reaches your breaking point.
Most guys let this slide- BECAUSE SHE HAS A PUSSY, but it will only
result in a painful future. She'll officially own you.
Because hoes and hot women are so used to weak men suppressing
their opinions, wants, and desires in an attempt to gain their validation,
they take it as a personal insult when a strong man refuses.
There is nothing you can do to correct these women, and unless you
enjoy pain, lol, it is best to avoid any sort of serious relationship with
them.
They will react with frustration to a man who does not supplicate to
their MPS because they take it as a personal offense.
I bet you can think of a women you know with massive MPS, what it
essentially means is that she feels superior to you.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: The Magic Pussy Syndrome
Origins of MPS
Magic Pussy Syndrome became a thing because female sexual arousal is
initiated by words, whereas male sexual arousal is a result of visual
stimulation.
This creates an obvious mismatch between male and female sexuality, and as
a result- attractive women become overloaded with attention from men.
Typically, men often start interactions with women by showing their attraction
based solely on visual factors.
However, relying solely on her looks doesn't work; every guy gives her
compliments on her look, several times a week, women have become
immune, women want something more, something enigmatic, something
deeper.
The result of this is that, over time, many women believe that they are entitled
to special advantages in our society BECAUSE WEAK MEN PUT THEM ON
PEDESTALS.
With men approaching and giving in to a woman's needs all the time, and
demanding nothing more from the woman than that she looks good, it has
become extremely easy for women to exploit men's weakness:
The effect on men who haven’t come to grips with MPS is something I like to call Pussy
Trance.
Men in Pussy Trance treat all women as if their pussies are magic, where the woman is
literally carrying his balls around in her purse.
1. If you find yourself in the company of a woman, doing something you don’t really want
to do, and you aren’t sure how you came to be doing it, you’re tranced.
2. If you approach a woman you are interested in, and she ends up leading the
discussion in directions that you don’t want to go, you are tranced.
3. If at any time, you make excuses for a woman’s bad behavior just because she is a
woman, you are either tranced or in danger of being tranced. If this bad behavior is
affecting you personally and you are still making excuses for the woman, you are
definitely pussy tranced.
If you see yourself in any of the above situations, you are already ahead of most guys,
merely by the fact that you are now taking steps to understand what’s going on.
Being pussy tranced means essentially that you're a massive, totally, utterly SIMP.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: The Magic Pussy Syndrome
Dealing With MPS
Think of MPS as an integral psychological aspect of most women that needs to be taken
into account when interacting with them or when seducing them.
Since you never can choose a woman (only give her an opportunity to choose you) it
means that biologically, females choose for sex. Therefore, let the woman feel as though
she has free reign to choose whether or not to have sex with you, without any pressure
from you.
If she feels the need for her ego to be stroked (she needs to feel as if her pussy is magic),
it’s no big deal, if your intentions are to cum and run.
This means that you should never, ever allow a woman like this into a serious
relationship with you, without first ensuring that everything else she brings to the table is
complementary to or supportive of your non-sexual interests.
In other words, let the woman choose for sex, but ensure that you, the man, are the one
choosing her, the woman, for the relationship. And you must absolutely ensure that your
choice is not based on the fact she has a pussy and she happens to be physically
attractive.
Golden Rule: When dealing with women who insist on being treated like ladies, first make
sure that they are acting like ladies.
If they aren’t acting like ladies, don’t treat them as if they are, no matter what they look like.
Manipulation is also a learned behavior, due to one’s need for survival, as I mentioned in
the introduction of this book; Women are physically weaker, so they had to adapt.
From a biological point of view, there is not too much of a difference between biologically-
rooted and learned behavior.
In fact, from the point of view of both modern neurobiology and evolutionary psychology,
behaviors repeated and learned over time become deeply rooted in the neurological
patterns within the brain, to the point where the behavior becomes largely unconscious.
As individuals, we are prone to choose behaviors that support survival, and manipulation
has certainly been selected as a desirable survival skill, especially among women.
Manipulation is defined as: "The attempt to influence another person’s mind to achieve a
certain outcome."
I'm telling you this because most of you don't understand women, as said you're always
looking at the world through a male perspective.
4. Have a male to provide materially for both her and her infant child.
6. Wash, rinse, repeat: she will tend to have more sexual intercourse
and more children with other strong males.
• Safety and comfort for her and her children, with their survival being the primary
purpose.
To thereby influence the man’s mind in such a way that he will feel compelled
to protect her and her children, especially before pregnancy, during the
pregnancy, and throughout the children’s early developmental years.
It's like everything: It's hard to push a car, but it becomes easy once the
wheels start rolling.
You must learn to observe female behavior and give the right responses, with
the goal of making her happy on the emotional level, as opposed to
responding to manipulation attempts on a logical level.
• Testing You
• Seeking Communication
• Putting You to Work
• Evolutionary Selfishness
• Self-Determination
A woman instinctively knows that men can impregnate multiple women with
fewer consequences, while she bears a higher risk and burden in pregnancy.
Therefore, she looks for qualities like physicality and leadership abilities in a
man. In modern society, qualities like intellectual capacity and strength of
personality have gained importance, but in times of hardship like war,
physical qualities are more important.
A woman will always test you if she is attracted, seeking a balance between
survival and sexual desire.
Once a woman has tested you and is confident in your strength and suitability, her
focus shifts to making you commit exclusively to her.
Many men, who passed the initial tests, struggle to understand this next stage. It can
be challenging for the average man to recognize this stage (because he isn't aware
of it), and because women often conceal their true intentions behind seemingly
innocent and indirect attempts to communicate.
Women naturally value communication greatly, but at this stage, they often use
language to confuse you, hoping to gain your loyalty and cooperation.
Problems often arise when a woman feels you lack proper communication skills,
even though she's communicating indirectly and unprecise.
Women often place the blame on you, even though she chose you deliberately in the
first stage.
During this second stage, women pretend to seek deeper communication, but in
reality, she aims to test your strength even further.
A strong man will sense the attempt to weaken him and react with anger or
withdrawal, which she'll find sexy, but she'll play upset.
This often leads to the 'classical illogical arguments' that have no clear basis.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Manipulation
Putting You To Work- “Honey, please take out the trash,
and fix the fence and please hurry!”
From that point onwards she effectively owns the frame of the
relationship.
She'll now start her attempts to take over aspects of your life that
directly affect your material interests, a man's weak point, his stuff.
For example, purchase decisions will now be made “jointly” which, in the
cool light of rational analysis, really are the result of the woman’s
manipulation attempts and your desire to maintain some semblance
of peace in the household, because if it's on thing we men value,
PEACE and QUIET.
This stage begins once she has succeeded in having you (formerly strong)
open up to her emotionally.
In this stage, any communication with you is only for the purpose of deriving
something useful for her and her children.
At this stage she will exhibit a total disregard for your psychological and
material interests. You'll constantly be put under the power of a strong and
constant psychological double bind, along the lines of:
“If you don’t open up to me I am not satisfied. You don’t communicate with
me.”
simultaneous with
“As soon as you open up to me I will use the information you provide in a
totally selfish way for my own needs.”
Women will tell you to be vulnerable and use it agaisnt you at the first
opportunity.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Manipulation
Female Self-Determination-
“I am full grown, independent woman now.”
As you start seeking the emotional communication she had been asking
for, she will express feelings of oppression, boredom, or dissatisfaction.
If you decide to detach and not care about her words or actions, she will
label you as an unloving partner, leading to negative emotions within
you. In this stage, women voice their resentment and dissatisfaction,
especially with partners who have become psychologically weaker over
time.
Well, it's not a choice, just like you and I want to fuck every woman we walk
past on the streets, it's something we're drawn towards.
This pattern is not entirely different from some animal species where the
female often harms the male after mating, but in humans, this harm is mostly
psychological.
When all the sexual attraction has evaporated the outcome depends on cultural beliefs.
In cultures where women can't leave their partner the end result is usually clinical
depression.
Clinical depression occurs when her sexual attraction for her man decreases or dies
out completely, and she is prevented from having sex with other males by social
restraint.
The woman in this case has to face a practically impossible conflict between her
emotions, which demand sexual satisfaction, and her societally-restrained behavior,
which prohibits sexual satisfaction.
There you go, gave you a completely different view on relationships, didn't it? Well,
hope isn't lost.
Once you understand the manipulation process, you can effectively counter
female manipulation.
Testing - Solution
However, if you are fully congruent, you'll naturally pass these tests
effortlessly, and they will not have a significant impact.
Maintaining friendships with other women will in fact positively impact the
relationship's dynamics.
All in all, the clue is to continue to be the man you were when you entered
the relationship.
When you hear a woman say, "I don't feel we are communicating," it's not just about
exchanging facts; it's an emotional statement revealing her confusion and disconnection
from the relationship.
When she blames you for her emotional distress, it's because women tend to externalize
their feelings, seeking masculine leadership to handle their emotions without fear.
The most crucial word in such statements is "feel," and it matters more that she feels
something, even if it's not indifference.
It’s so important that in many cases it doesn’t matter what she feels, as long as it’s any
emotion stronger than indifference.
Anything with passion will do, as long as it’s followed up, in all cases, with the
appropriate level of physical commitment.
And always make sure that intense displays of passion are followed by intense displays
of affection. Let me be blunt: Fuck her hard, fuck her good. (See The Sex Playbook:
Part 3)
This can easily be stopped simply by saying “no.” Do it sometimes. Just say no.
If your girl has become accustomed or used to you obeying or complying with her requests immediately without
hesitation, then refusing a request is going to stop her in her tracks.
Lots of drama will ensue, as attack is a usual defense mechanism for women, so be prepared. But note that drama isn't a
bad thing, strong emotions remember?
Another way to handle her constant requests is by teasing and fun. You can gently make fun of her being “bossy,” and so
forth: "Oh, you're a big girl now, bossing around the house."
Yet another effective way to handle her attempts to put you to work is to negotiate with her.
For example, if she demands that you change her tires, you can kindly request that she prepare a special meal while
you're out.
While tit for tat may seem thoroughly unromantic, by the time you're is in this situation, romance is already out the
window.
That's why it's so important to set the culture of doing things, small gestures for each other prior you come to this stage
of the relationship.
Finally, be proactive and act like a leader: women want to feel useful and contribute to something meaningful. Spend
some time to give your her meaningful work, ensuring that you are the one who determines the direction of the
relationship.
You will find that agreeing on specific tasks becomes much easier. When you appreciate a good woman for her specific
contribution, she will be delighted in her relationship, and feel she made an excellent selection in a man.
Most women find it challenging, if not impossible, to feel altruistic or merciful towards a grown man.
Your role as a man is to be her protector, and this holds great value in the eyes of a woman.
To assert your value, you must take the lead in the relationship and give her tasks within that context.
Putting a price on your leadership means having your own moral standards and communicating that you
expect specific behaviors and treatment from the woman to retain your role as her leader and protector.
The solution is to set clear boundaries and follow through with consequences.
Self-Determination - Soulution
There's no solution for this stage, if you get to this stage it's over. In her mind, the relationship has ended or is
about to end.
She is basically telling you that she no longer views the two of you as a unit. As difficult as it may seem, at this
stage you may need to be prepared to let her go. Your best chance to salvage the relationship is to start right
back at the beginning; let her know that you are equally prepared to leave the relationship if you are not
getting the respect and admiration that you want and deserve.
You never want to be in a position where you are chasing or begging a woman. Not only is that a pathetic
position for a man to find himself in, but any shred of sexual attraction that had remained in the woman will be
completely destroyed by doing so.
In reality, a man can survive just about anything, including the ending of a cherished relationship. Therefore,
consider this stage as the ultimate test of how much of a man you really are.
If you fail this test, the game is over ( with this particular woman.)
Hot women usually have daddy underlying issues, having a hard time
submitting to the masculine spirit.
Hoes because they were so used to attention in their 20s but as their
beauty drifted with age they received less; hence betaization of their man to
feel superior again.
The one no one cares about because they were usually looked at as 'the
outcast' and want to feel some control for once in their life.
I'm not saying that beautiful women won't try, but they usually had a strong,
masculine, father so they're more used to 'being under the wing' of a man.
Historically men have always wanted to 'own' their partner's body, as a result,
women have created a language called womenase, also called
subcommunicating.
In this secret language, women communicate their sexuality freely but in a way
that most men cannot hear or understand. Women have learned the hard way
through millennia that men have a psychological need to create a type of
distinction among women, the classical whore and madonna complex; slotting all
women into a category of either “whores” or “Madonnas”.
Back in the days, women faced social isolation, death, and humiliation for being
seen as promiscuous.
But more importantly; Women still fear being labeled as sluts if they discuss their
sexuality openly, especially outside of their trusted circles , and this is the reason
behind their anti-slut defenses, shit tests, and last-minute resistance which I'll
talk about later.
This means there's yet another huge distinguisher between men and women.
Men are more direct and straightforward in their conversations, getting straight to
the point, while women often prefer subcommunication, using indirect and subtle
cues to convey their messages.
The more feminine a woman is, the more she values harmony. In contrast,
men express the truth succinctly, directly, and in a straightforward manner.
Think about it: Men gain social power through logic, mathematics, physical
strength, and endurance, essentially by asserting themselves in their
environment.
Women gain social power through communication. They try to avoid social
conflict and use subcommunication as a tool to manipulate others to give
them what they want.
For example: If you had an alcoholic friend you would solve it by being silent
for as long as possible, but then finally sitting down with him and say: “Man,
you are destroying your health, you gotta stop that drinking now” without too
much concern for empathy or understanding.
When you get caught up in this hypnotic state, you'll end up doing whatever it
takes to make her happy, even if it's not good for you, just to shut her up.
And 1,2,3.. you're pussy tranced. She'll slowly turn you into a beta and lose
feelings for you both romantically and emotionally.
Note- Even though I'm writing from the perspective of being in a relationship
it's important that you realize that subcommunication beings the moment you
see her until she no longer has any feelings for you.
You may think: "Well, women can't be subcommunicating all the time,
because if they were they would never directly reject me."
Women will use logic and direct speech, BUT ONLY when it suits their
purpose.
Beyond Seduction - Cracking The Code: Female Subcommunication
Lets us look at an example: Suppose you are out on a date with a woman, and you say
you have to stop by your apartment to pick something up.
Out of the blue she says: “OK, but we’re not having sex!!!”
Most men would be baffled by such a statement. However, what she's subcommunicating
is something completely different than whether or not she'll have sex with you.
Here is what’s really happening: First, she is testing your response, this is called a shit
test.
If you get flustered by it, she most certainly will not consider having sex with you
. If your response is “Yeah, so, that was pretty random, who’s talking about sex here?”
the door for sexual engagement remains open.
Second, she is establishing a frame of interaction where she is taking no responsibility for
the outcome.
If she ends up naked in your bed, well, that’s not her fault because she said “no sex.”
Never mind that it “just happened.” Third, the next day she can tell all her friends who
ask: “I specifically told him “no sex” before I went into his apartment.”
Women may very well lie, or at least shade the truth, in order to preserve
positive emotional states or prevent negative emotional states.
So back to what I said earlier, and maybe the most important part:
Even when women “lie” with their mouths, their bodies or emotions may
be telling the real truth, so don't listen to what she says, observe what
she does.
Alright, in order to deal with sub communication besides what I said above it's
essential that you strive to cultivate a state of awareness when you're around
women, because subcommunication CANNOT be underestimated.
If you allow yourself to relax too much and keep yourself in an unaware
state, you will completely miss the meaning of female communication.
Accept the fact that it is instinctual for women to express themselves in this
indirect way, just like it's instinctual for you to express yourself in a logical way.
Whatever you do, do NOT take her words seriously. Always think about what the
hidden meaning can be.
For example: You approach a girl with a corny pickup line and she immediately
shuts you down by saying: "I have a boyfriend.", 9/10 times the boyfriend doesn't
exist, she's sub communicating that you're telegraphic too much interest too soon
Another thing that is imporant to note is that female subcommunication often has an
underlying sexual meaning.
The more a woman subcommunicates in your presence, the more sexually attracted
to you she is. She wouldn't bother to maintain inner harmony with a guy she didn't
find interesting, make sense?
Finally, the best way to deal with subcommunication is to learn how to keep yourself
on the edge between masculine and feminine, but with an emphasis on the
masculine.
At times you will want to talk to women in a very masculine way: directly, succinctly,
and logically. At other times, you want to talk to women in a very indirect way. This is
done through disqualifying and other techniques I'll cover later in the book.
For example, telling a brunette girl: "Look, you're cute, but I don't date blond girls" is a
type of sub communicating.
To be able to use subcommunication, you will need to continuously practice the art,
because it is not the natural mode of conversation for a man, but we'll talk more about
this later in the book.
But agian, it's a fine balance. To make a woman happy whether in the context of a
committed relationship or in lighter and less-committed interaction you need to learn
how to talk womanese while at the same time keeping your focus on your masculine
frame.
If you leave out the art of speaking in womanese, you run the risk of becoming a cold,
distant and boring person in her eyes. If you become too much of an expert in speaking
womanese, she will no longer distinguish you from a woman and she will certainly lose
attraction for you.
One basic aspect of the female psyche is the need for both
stimulation and polarity. When you meet that need in a woman you
make her happy.
By being the man who is able to talk womanese while at the same
time remaining a real, masculine man, you put yourself far above
almost all other men in her eyes.
Many young men in 2023 hold a common belief that women are solely
attracted to money, fame, and looks.
Before delving into this new world, it's crucial to leave behind this
misconception at the door; because if you don’t everything will seem
hopeless, like you’re getting into the ring with prime-time Mike Tyson,
when in reality you don’t.
Money, fame, and looks may initially catch attention, but they’re just
superficial attraction switches.
Then tell every woman you interact with that you're poor AF.
What women truly desire deep within their hearts, behind their layers of
superficial social filters, is:
A masculine man.
A man who is self-assured and doesn't seek validation from others, a non-needy man.
A man who naturally draws attention and has a commanding presence in any room, an
alpha male.
A man who maintains strong eye contact, showing his attentiveness and confidence
while building sexual tension.
A man who exhibits chivalry by pulling out her chair, opening her car
door, and helping her with her coat.
A man who prioritizes the safety and comfort of his girl by walking
closest to the curb, standing behind her on the way up on the
escalator, and in front of her on the way down.
A man who understands his own desires and the desires of his
partner.
A man who is strong and assertive, but also maintains politeness and
kindness towards others until shit hits the fan.
A man with layers and depth to him, for example, a man who can be
dominant in bed yet also compassionate and generous towards those in
need.
However, if you possess money, fame, and looks, these qualities will
initially spark initial interest and provide you with more time to
demonstrate your value before rejects you.
When we men scout for girls we immediately think, “She seems cute,
I could definitely fuck her;” or “Nah, pass.”
From that interest, they rapidly categorize men into three groups:
Sure, there are some women, a minority perhaps, who are only
interested in money. But beautiful women are much more interested in
personality than bank accounts.
There are certain personality traits of a man that attract women like a
magnet ...And if you learn what they are and how to use them you’re
game.