Gender: Social and Cultural Perspectives
Gender: Social and Cultural Perspectives
In this chapter we give a brief overview of the ways of thinking about psychology
and gender that have been developed in recent decades. We begin by
sketching the most common ways of conceptualizing gender in psychology. We
then discuss some feminist critiques of these ways of understanding gender.
Then we turn to current feminist thinking about femininity and masculinity, the
production of gender in daily life, gender asymmetries in power, and
intersectionality.
The most prominent cultural theories and research on the psychology of gender
emphasize gender socialization, the process by which girls and boys learn feminine
and masculine identities (e.g., see C. L. Martin & Ruble, 2004). From infancy on, how
people are treated depends on their sex. Nonetheless, socialization is not a passive
process. Rather, as children learn gendered expectations, they also begin actively to
“perform gender,” trying to live up to society’s predetermined gender ideals and
stereotypes (processes we explore in detail in subsequent chapters). Thus, cultural
theorists are social constructionists; they assume that cultural beliefs create most, if not
all, observed sex differences in behavior as people act out cultural scripts assigned to
their gender.
Gender schemas represent habits of mind that persist through adulthood. For
instance, one might assume solely on the basis of their gender that a man probably
prefers watching football over shopping, whereas a woman would likely prefer
shopping
The Evolutionary Approach
Social role theory (Eagly, 1987) focuses on two social structural aspects of gender
relations: a gendered division of labor and gender-based hierarchy (in which men
generally have more status and power than women). The theory suggests that these
structural factors determine the content of socially shared beliefs about men and women
as well as observed gender differences in personality, skills, and behavior. We illustrate
social role theory’s insights, organized according to the advantages of social structural
theories listed previously.
Social role theory observes that roles generate specific demands for individuals to
exhibit particular traits and behaviors. For example, women’s long-standing child-rearing
role requires nurturing traits and behaviors. The cultural assignment of women to a
child-rearing role is rooted in reproductive biology, which ties women to bearing and
nourishing infants. Social role theory suggests that such role segregation produces
stereotyped expectations; for example, because of women’s link to child rearing, people
associate women with communal traits (e.g., helpful, nurturing, and kind). Similarly,
social role theory attributes stereotypes of men as more assertive, competitive, and
aggressive (i.e., more agentic) to their nondomestic work roles, which tend to require
physical bravery and leadership skills.
Gender
Three dimensions
Body
Identity, and
Social
Gender (Three Dimensions)
Body
concerns our physical body, how we experience it, how society genders bodies,
and the way in which others interact with us based on our body
Gender (Three Dimensions)
Gender Identity
our internal perception and expression of who we are as a person. It includes
naming our gender, though this gender category may not match the sex we are
assigned at birth
Gender (Three Dimensions)
Language best communicates our internal experience. As language evolves, a
person’s name for their gender may also evolve. This does not mean their
gender has changed, but rather that the words for it are shifting.
Gender (Three Dimensions)
Social Gender
Language of Gender
Gender Congruence
When a person moves from the traditional binary view of gender to transgender,
agender, or non-binary, and find congruence in their gender
Evolution – the person himself
Gender Dysphoria
refers to an individual’s sense of feeling uncomfortable/inappropriate with their
sex and the gender assigned to them
Gender schemas
play an important role in organizing and structuring the infant’s thoughts about
information such as what behaviors or emotional responses are appropriate for
males/females
Schema
a mental representation that guides the processing of information and
experiences
Electra Complex
The girl’s immature sexual desires then focus on the father
The main way that gender behaviors are learned is through the process
of observational learning
Models
parents, characters on children’s TV, friends within their peer group and teachers
at school
First, the child is more likely to imitate behavior modelled by people the same sex
as it is.
Second, the people around the child will respond to the behavior it imitates with
either reinforcement or punishment
Third, the child will also take into account of what happens to other people when
deciding whether or not to copy someone’s actions. This is known as vicarious
reinforcement.
Third, the child will also take into account of what happens to other people when
deciding whether or not to copy someone’s actions. This is known as vicarious
reinforcement.
Marriage is defined as a legally recognized social contract between two people, traditionally based on a
sexual relationship and implying a permanence of the union. (Note: such definition will be used for this
subject). In practicing cultural relativism, we should also consider variations, such as whether a legal
union is required (think of “common law” marriage and its equivalents), or whether more than two people
can be involved (consider polygamy). Other variations on the definition of marriage might include whether
spouses are of opposite sexes or the same sex and how one of the traditional expectations of marriage
(to produce children) is understood today.
The question of what constitutes a family is a prime area of debate in family sociology, as well as in
politics and religion. Social conservatives tend to define the family in terms of structure with each family
member filling a certain role (like father, mother, or child). Sociologists, on the other hand, tend to define
family more in terms of the manner in which members relate to one another than on a strict configuration
of status roles. Here, we’ll define family as a socially recognized group (usually joined by blood,
marriage, cohabitation, or adoption) that forms an emotional connection and serves as an economic unit
of society. Sociologists identify different types of families based on how one enters into them. A family of
orientation refers to the family into which a person is born. A family of procreation describes one that is
formed through marriage. These distinctions have cultural significance related to issues of lineage.
Marriage Patterns
With single parenting and cohabitation (when a couple shares a residence but not a marriage)
becoming more acceptable in recent years, people may be less motivated to get married. In a recent
survey, 39 percent of respondents answered “yes” when asked whether marriage is becoming obsolete
(Pew Research Center 2010). The institution of marriage is likely to continue, but some previous patterns
of marriage will become outdated as new patterns emerge. In this context, cohabitation contributes to the
phenomenon of people getting married for the first time at a later age than was typical in earlier
generations (Glezer 1991). Furthermore, marriage will continue to be delayed as more people place
education and career ahead of “settling down.”
People in the United States typically equate marriage with monogamy, when someone is married
to only one person at a time. In many countries and cultures around the world, however, having one
spouse is not the only form of marriage. In a majority of cultures (78 percent), polygamy, or being
married to more than one person at a time, is accepted (Murdock 1967), with most polygamous societies
existing in northern Africa and east Asia (Altman and Ginat 1996). Instances of polygamy are almost
exclusively in the form of polygyny. Polygyny refers to a man being married to more than one woman at
the same time. The reverse, when a woman is married to more than one man at the same time, is
called polyandry. It is far less common and only occurs in about 1 percent of the world’s cultures (Altman
and Ginat 1996). The reasons for the overwhelming prevalence of polygamous societies are varied but
they often include issues of population growth, religious ideologies, and social status.
In the United States, polygamy is considered by most to be socially unacceptable and it is illegal.
The act of entering into marriage while still married to another person is referred to as bigamy and is
considered a felony in most states. Polygamy in the United States is often associated with those of the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, although in 1890 the church officially renounced polygamy.
Fundamentalist Mormons, such as those in the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints (a separate and distinct organization), on the other hand, still hold tightly to the historic beliefs and
practices and allow polygamy in their sect.
Residency and Lines of Descent
When considering one’s lineage, most people in the United States look to both their father’s and
mother’s sides. Both paternal and maternal ancestors are considered part of one’s family. This pattern of
tracing kinship is called bilateral descent. Note that kinship, or one’s traceable ancestry, can be based
on blood or marriage or adoption. Sixty percent of societies, mostly modernized nations, follow a bilateral
descent pattern. Unilateral descent (the tracing of kinship through one parent only) is practiced in the
other 40 percent of the world’s societies, with high concentration in pastoral cultures (O’Neal 2006).
There are three types of unilateral descent: patrilineal, which follows the father’s line
only; matrilineal, which follows the mother’s side only; and ambilineal, which follows either the father’s
only or the mother’s side only, depending on the situation. In partrilineal societies, such as those in rural
China and India, only males carry on the family surname. This gives males the prestige of permanent
family membership while females are seen as only temporary members (Harrell 2001). U.S. society
assumes some aspects of partrilineal decent. For instance, most children assume their father’s last name
even if the mother retains her birth name.
Tracing one’s line of descent to one parent rather than the other can be relevant to the issue of
residence. In many cultures, newly married couples move in with, or near to, family members. In
a patrilocal residence system it is customary for the wife to live with (or near) her husband’s blood
relatives (or family of orientation). Patrilocal systems can be traced back thousands of years. In a DNA
analysis of 4,600-year-old bones found in Germany, scientists found indicators of patrilocal living
arrangements (Haak et al 2008). Patrilocal residence is thought to be disadvantageous to women
because it makes them outsiders in the home and community; it also keeps them disconnected from their
own blood relatives. In China, where patrilocal and patrilineal customs are common, the written symbols
for maternal grandmother (wáipá) are separately translated to mean “outsider” and “women” (Cohen
2011).
Similarly, in matrilocal residence systems, where it is customary for the husband to live with his
wife’s blood relatives (or her family of orientation), the husband can feel disconnected and can be labeled
as an outsider. The Minangkabau people, a matrilocal society that is indigenous to the highlands of West
Sumatra in Indonesia, believe that home is the place of women and they give men little power in issues
relating to the home or family (Joseph and Najmabadi 2003). Most societies that use patrilocal and
patrilineal systems are patriarchal, but very few societies that use matrilocal and matrilineal systems are
matriarchal, as family life is often considered an important part of the culture for women, regardless of
their power relative to men.
As we’ve established, the concept of family has changed greatly in recent decades. Historically, it
was often thought that many families evolved through a series of predictable stages. Developmental or
“stage” theories used to play a prominent role in family sociology (Strong and DeVault 1992). Today,
however, these models have been criticized for their linear and conventional assumptions as well as for
their failure to capture the diversity of family forms. While reviewing some of these once-popular theories,
it is important to identify their strengths and weaknesses.
The set of predictable steps and patterns families experience over time is referred to as
the family life cycle. One of the first designs of the family life cycle was developed by Paul Glick in 1955.
In Glick’s original design, he asserted that most people will grow up, establish families, rear and launch
their children, experience an “empty nest” period, and come to the end of their lives. This cycle will then
continue with each subsequent generation (Glick 1989). Glick’s colleague, Evelyn Duvall, elaborated on
the family life cycle by developing these classic stages of family (Strong and DeVault 1992):
Stage Family Type Children
7 Empty Nest Family “Empty nest”; adult children have left home
***Stage Theory This table shows one example of how a “stage” theory might categorize the
phases a family goes through.
The family life cycle was used to explain the different processes that occur in families over time.
Sociologists view each stage as having its own structure with different challenges, achievements, and
accomplishments that transition the family from one stage to the next. For example, the problems and
challenges that a family experiences in Stage 1 as a married couple with no children are likely much
different than those experienced in Stage 5 as a married couple with teenagers. The success of a family
can be measured by how well they adapt to these challenges and transition into each stage. While
sociologists use the family life cycle to study the dynamics of family over time, consumer and marketing
researchers have used it to determine what goods and services families need as they progress through
each stage (Murphy and Staples 1979).
As early “stage” theories have been criticized for generalizing family life and not accounting for
differences in gender, ethnicity, culture, and lifestyle, less rigid models of the family life cycle have been
developed. One example is the family life course, which recognizes the events that occur in the lives of
families but views them as parting terms of a fluid course rather than in consecutive stages (Strong and
DeVault 1992). This type of model accounts for changes in family development, such as the fact that in
today’s society, childbearing does not always occur with marriage. It also sheds light on other shifts in the
way family life is practiced. Society’s modern understanding of family rejects rigid “stage” theories and is
more accepting of new, fluid models.
Stance Three: Collaborating. This highlights an approach to work and family that recognizes
existing gender prescriptions while, at the same time, expresses a desire to transcend these very same
gendered work and family meanings. By collaborating, couples articulate an approach to work and life
that both holds onto and let go of conventional gendered meanings and practices. It involves
acknowledging traditional feminine and masculine roles and subject positions associated with
homemaking and moneymaking while negotiating collaboratively their own arrangements. Couples
portray themselves as a team, emphasizing their equality and respect for their own choices and
responsibilities. Such language seemed self-consciously to shape and reflect the couple’s co-created
discursive space, activities, and understandings of the risks and benefits of their ongoing choices.
Stance Four: Improvising. This articulates an approach to work and family life that attempts to
improvise meaning without taking gender as the primary frame for tasks, identities, or eligibilities. The
improvising stance disavows gendered assumptions and senses of self, at times replacing these
assumptions with the language of personal preference or personality. Couples challenge, and at time
times actively disavowing, traditional feminine and masculine roles and subject positions associated with
homemaking and moneymaking by mutually negotiating and performing alternative arrangements.
Stance Five: Sharing. The final stance centers on sharing as constructed through the language of
co-providing and co-caring. This reflects a consciousness for both creating new meanings and living work
and family file differently. It demonstrate considerable marital fluidity and responsiveness to each other’s
lived contingencies in organizing employment and childcare activities. Both individuals participate in
wage-earning and care-providing and considered each other no less primary in either respect.
ACTIVITY 1
THE GENDERED CLASSROOM
School – The place for contemplation of reality. Teachers’ task is to show this reality to students who are
naturally eager about them.
Education – A social system/unit consisting the roles and norms that ensure the transmission of
knowledge, values, and patterns of behavior from one generation to next. The primary function is to move
people in the mainstream of society.
Intellectual purpose
To teach cognitive skills (i.e. reading, writing, mathematics)
Political Purpose
To inculcate allegiance to the existing political order (patriotism)
To teach student the basic law of society
Social purpose
To socialize children into various roles, behavior, and values of society. The key ingredient in the
stability of any society.
Economical Purpose
To prepare students for their later occupational roles
Formal education – Describes the learning of academic facts and concepts through formal curriculum.
Informal education – Describes learning about cultural values, norms, and expected behaviors by
participating in a society. This type of learning occurs both through formal educational system and at
home.
Manifested functions
Social control
Socialization placement
Transmitting culture
Promoting social and political integration
Cultural innovation
Latent functions
Courtship
Social network
Group work
Generation gap
Gender inequality means that just at the moment when girls lose their voice, boys find one-but it
is the inauthentic voice of bravado, of constant posturing, of foolish risk taking and gratuitous violence.
According to psychologist William Pollack, boys learn that they are supposed to be in power and thus
begin to act like it. "Although girls' voices have been disempowered, boys' voices are strident and full of
bravado,” he observes. But their voices are disconnected from their genuine feelings.” Thus, he argues,
the way we bring boys up leads them to put on a "mask of masculinity,” a posture, a front.
Child Communication
Siblings influence gender
Parents tend to give children gender specific toys
Children gender/sex themselves