Sadh Guru 1

So you are a huge heap of memory in many ways and memory goes into you in

different ways. Through all five senses, Gathering memory what you see, what you
hear, what you smell, what you taste, what you touch are deepest form of memory.
Especially, what you touch .
Creates a certain level of memory in the system. So when you say a spouse, You have
touched and there is a certain level of memory,
Now, your divorce means in some way you’re trying to rip that memory off and
that’s not going to be easy . for various reasons. But at the same time. The very fact
that you’re going through your divorce means you want to be finished with that
memory in some way. Maybe not erase that memory. But someone who was a
spouse,someone who was a in many ways a part of your life, slowly, for whatever
reason, you have begun to experience them as a baggage that you’re unwilling to
carry. So, you wantto keep the baggage aside but you find the baggage is not
something. That you voluntarily carry, it is a something that compulsively sticks to
you. So when whatever sticks to you compulsively, if you try to rip it off. There will
be pain. See if you can get rid of your mother. From your system. You will see it’s
imposible .
So similary, memory has built up about your spouse, you can’t just get rid of it just
like that. If you do it. Even mentally, psychologically, if you equipped to do it. You
will still see the whole system will go through a certain level of suffering, invariably.
Even if emotionally, psychologically, you are in a balance state. That you can deal
with it,the system will go through a certain process. You will see that especiallly when
you are taken away from your spose either through divorce or death . you will see the
memoy within your system plays up, much more strongly when they are not here.
Particularly, when death happens, you will see the memory of your spouse works. In
every cell in your body, if you have lived long enough together. It is not just an
emotional and psychological process, it is a very physical process. So divorce is a
voluntary death. You have decided to kill something. That is a part of you, in some
way. It is because of this reason, that having this understanding of the existence and
the way the system functions, that they always told you, till death do you apart, you
will not part because there is a physical memory about this and the body doesn’t have
the balance of the mind. The mind can decide and turn around bit they body cannot
turn around . The more memory you buid it, the more confused it becomes. So, one
type ofmeory,body handles it much better. Now that you’re chosen to divorce for
whatever reasons which I don’t want to delve into if it could be avoided , that would
be best. But for some reasons, you have come to that situasion where this is. This has
to happen you need to understand this , that divorce essentially means you have
chosen to kill something , which is a part of you, because what you call as myself. It
just a certain volume of memory. Now to how to conduct this gracefully. Most people
think the best way to conduct a divorce is immediately jump into another relationship
and another relationship of the same kind. No, you will because much more
struggle and more turmoil within the system by doing that. It’s extremely important
the body has enough time to work out the memory, the body has enough time to keep
the memory at a certain distance. Otherwise, you will render yourself to a space,
where to make yourself peaceful aedn joyfull will become an extremely hard . Thing
to do in your life. So Conducting this process Gracefully and well is important as it is
important to conduct every aspect of your life gracefully and well. Now two people,
who have shared their emotion, their body, their sensationas and their living spaces,
ripping it apart is because two memories have merged in many ways, ripping it apart
is almost like tearing yourself apart. Even though you might have begun to almost
come to a place, where can’t stand the person anymore, still it hurts, simply because
you’re trying to rip out of memory, which is you, because you are a bundle of
memory,if one does the necessary spiritual sadhana, if one does sufficient inner work
to esblish energies, which is yourself.
You’re only divorcing you spouse, you need not divorce yourself. You’ quite
divorcedfrom your own self. Your existence has been nurtured by making a bond, a
partnership or a bondage depending upon How You’ve conducted this to make
yourself feel whole in some way.
More parthership of this nature are made because by yourself you would feel
insufficient, incompleted.But that’s not how life is. This is a complete life process by
itself. It does not need any assistance from outside.
So, now that you’re some to such a situation, it is time to turn inward and see. It is
time that you fins the complateness of what this life is. It is time you discover that this
being is a complete being.
If does not need any external assistance to be the way it is. To conduct out life in a
society, we may need we are interdependent. But the fundamental existence of this the
balance of what this is, the space of what this is, the possibility of what this is, is a
complete process by itself. Our interdependent is only according to our external
requirements. But our inner existence is complete by itself. You’re divorcing your
spouse. Which is bad enough do not divorce yourself from yourself

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