Building Self - Esteem and Self - Confidence

BUILDING SELF-ESTEEM AND

SELF CONFIDENCE

1.I would like to reflect here in my essay that I am a person with a healthy self –
esteem. I’ve been in so much criticisms regarding my own essays saying that I
should comprehend the particular topic rather than copying it even though that I
know in myself that I did not copy pasted my ideas. Actually, it was depressing to
see comments on your essays stating such thing because you’ve been working 5
hours and up to create a quality writing and you will just receive feedback of
doing plagiarism? Well, I take it as a compliment rather than thinking it as a
personal attack because I feel that my works are too standardized for a student
who’s not verbally confident. I just thought where do I lack is it the content? Or
the grammar? Maybe there’s a point on the reader that my essay should meet.
Well, it doesn’t hinder me to create quality essays depending on my capability.
Instead, I convert those comments to strategies on how will I create more
satisfying essay to that particular reader. I am one with my essays, they’re my
ideas so I appreciate my hard work and limitations. I love having these boastful
ideas that energizes my confidence to generate quality writings.
This shows that self -esteem focus on how you value yourself after so much
criticism you have, your limitation, flaws, inculpabilities and other while on the
other side of a book, self – confidence shows how strong believer you are in your
own skills. You know having a healthy self – esteem allows you to confidently face
criticisms and absorbs them positively. Because if you think that you’re worthless
and stupid after so much criticism, you’re just pinning down yourself making you
more arrogant in the eyes of critics.

Before, I am just a little guy who knows nothing but to draw which was my way to
avoid socializing with other’s because I don’t see my self fitting in their intelligent
conversation. Of course, you will know the feeling of being left out because you
cannot understand them until I accept my own flaws for not able to understand and
talk in English like my collogues. So, how do I succeed being a confident person
today? Of course, it is not the people around that has a problem it’s you, the person
within you, I valued everything that I have and don’t ask for much but I developed it
for years. I fixed and developed my self – esteem through appreciating my own
ideas, knowledge and difficulties and through that criticism for me re nothing but a
piece of additional advice. I became confident in certain manners because I
understand my self-worth and that’s what you should have to boost your confidence
and avoid inner critics that would put you in the pit of criticisms and negativities.
Building self-esteem and self-confidence is like building a man out of a guy. It is a
phase of understanding your flaws and limitations as an individual that would lead
you to a better person that anyone else could have ever think. You know this world is
not the dimension you’ve been dreaming all through your childhood, this is the
world of criticism where everyone has something to say that traumatize you day by
day. Budling both self-esteem and confidence is an aid for such character that others
have in a way that they’ll surrender on pinning you down in their miserable pit as
you became a strong person who can face the unfortunate fates and criticisms.
I would say, you successfully built or developed self-esteem and self-confidence when
you look for questions about the feedbacks and criticisms of others regarding your
actions or words where you able to handle things or situations positively without
feeling any hesitations and guilt on your mistakes or flaws. In my experience being
a high school student, I was not given the chance to improve my sills because my
teacher told me that I can’t do particular achievement not like her favorite students.
It brought my spirit down like am I not worth to learn and to be teach? Well, to take
my revenge I cope up with all the mess that she gave me such wasting my tears and
stress into someone’s even worthless than she thinks I am. I absorbed everything that
she told me and realized that I don’t need to prove myself to someone like her or to
other instead I should be doing this for my own good.
Experiences are vital on building self esteem and self confidence in a manner that it
allows us to reflect on previous experiences where we fail to understand ourself and
looked down on our own capability which we can use to energize and rebuilt
everything that we loss such as understanding self-worth and flaws necessary to
provide stronger self for all the probable obstacles and criticisms that would bring your
confidence down. You can have positive experiences if you able to manages self-esteem
because that’s where confidence arises, I you have a fixed and assessed self-esteem then
you’ll be able to act confidently and face criticism in a manner that benefits you.
ACOSTA, CHRISTIAN CYROUS S.

BSTM III - C1
NOVEMBER 4, 2021

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