1 Last Year I Spoke On A Panel During A Campus
1 Last Year I Spoke On A Panel During A Campus
1 Last Year I Spoke On A Panel During A Campus
patriarchy. Afterwards, a young lady asked, “Can I ask you a quick question?” I smiled and nodded
yes. “Thank you. I wanted to ask you, do you think that stereotypes and discrimination will ever go
away?” “But why are you asking me this question?” I asked. She looked stunned. “Well, I guess I
asked you because you’re a professor and you just spoke on that panel, so I assumed you’d be
knowledgeable.” “Precisely,” I said. “We’ve never met before have we?” I asked. She shook her head
no. “Then didn’t you feel comfortable asking me your question because of the stereotypes in your
head about professors?” She grinned. “I get it! I’m stereotyping you now and discriminating against
you based on you being a professor.” “Yes!” I exclaimed.
2 The truth is, everyone stereotypes and discriminates against people every day and for the most
part, no one sees it as an injustice. For instance, I’m willing to bet that you speak differently to your
best friends than you do a total stranger. The way I interact with my students is far different from how
I interact with my parents which is far different than how I act with my friends. We all discriminate
against others around us based on who they are, who we are, and in what capacity we know them.
Neither stereotypes nor discrimination is inherently unjust or immoral
3 When we interact with others, we tailor our performance to what we think our audience expects of
us. Idealization describes the work we do to present a version of ourselves that we believe our
audience will most appreciate. Therefore, the reason we talk differently to our friends, parents, and
coworkers is that we are idealizing our presentation of self to suit the desires of the audience before
us. Or put more simply, when we idealize our presentation of self, we are discriminating.
4 How we behave is influenced by our place within our community’s social hierarchies. Your position
within the hierarchy is determined by the social assets you possess. Social assets can be things that
you are born with or they can be things that you achieve later in life.
5 Take for instance the hierarchy of a family. Often it is the case that children are at the bottom of the
hierarchy, their parents are above them, and their grandparents are above them all. Children hold the
least amount of power and have access to the least amount of family resources. Parents have the
authority to tell kids what to do, but kids do not have the authority to tell their parents what to do.
6 Simply put, we cannot live without stereotypes and discrimination. When we meet people for the
first time we use stereotypes to decipher who they are, what they might want from us, and how we
should present ourselves to them. Our stereotypes are almost certainly not 100% accurate, but when
we meet someone for the first time we have no other information to go on. However, this doesn’t
mean that it’s okay to continue to stereotype people after you get to know them. Once you learn that
your presumptions about another person/group are inaccurate, you are expected to adjust the way
you’re thinking and behaving towards them.
7 The larger idea here is that not all forms of discrimination are viewed as unfair or unjust. Hopefully,
we can all agree that when stereotyping or discrimination limit an individual or group’s ability to
achieve their goals, it is oppressive. For the most part, the forms of discrimination that we find most
objectionable are those that are based on social assets that are beyond the control of the individual.
For instance, being bigoted toward a person based on their race, gender, or disability status is
considered an injustice. However, when the social asset being used to discriminate is one that the
individual could’ve (at least partially) controlled, fewer people will view the discrimination as unjust.
Employers discriminate against applicants who do not have a bachelor’s degree, for example, and
few people complain.
8 Stereotypes and discrimination are tools of oppression, to be sure, but they are also tools we use
to make sense of our world and get through the day. We will never live in a world free of stereotypes
and oppression, but we can strive to live in a world that is free from the injustices created by
stereotypes and oppression.