The Emotional Impact of Diagnosis: Written by Rett UK Initial Responses
The Emotional Impact of Diagnosis: Written by Rett UK Initial Responses
The Emotional Impact of Diagnosis: Written by Rett UK Initial Responses
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It's really important at this time to be around people who can support you, both practically
and emotionally. It may be that you have little or no family around to support you and
perhaps there are some friends or neighbours you can draw on at difficult times. Whether
there is someone there or not, it can feel incredibly lonely and isolating to have a diagnosis.
It is important to know that however alone you feel you are, there is help and support out
there, either from us at RSAUK or from community services.
It can be demanding managing the arrangements to obtain support from social and health
care authorities, from friends and family and from each other. The care routine at home may
take a while to get use to, and it may not be easy to decide who will be the primary carer.
Each parent will learn to cope in their own way and will make the arrangements they feel
most able to sustain. If you are married or in a relationship you may find there is conflict
between you. Under the circumstances this is natural, because a parent or carers situation
is a stressful one. It might be more worrying if no conflict was being experienced as this
might indicate emotions were being suppressed. However much you love your child, the
demands of caring can reduce the freedom of parents or carers and influences future
choices. It can be helpful to openly acknowledge this and talk it through with each other, or
with a trusted friend or counsellor.
You may find there are still many people, including professionals, who have not heard of
Rett syndrome, and this may increase any sense of isolation you have. Many parents
describe how helpful it is to talk to other parents who have been through similar
experiences. Contact with the Support Team at the Rett Syndrome Association UK also
means there is someone who will listen to you, and who can put you in touch with other
families and carers who understand the practical, social and emotional issues in caring for
someone with Rett syndrome. Being able to talk things through is an opportunity to receive
support, share experiences and useful information. The Support Team can also tell you
about therapies and research information that will help you maintain the best care possible,
and support you in trying to access other services.
Receiving a diagnosis is a profoundly painful experience, yet knowing your child has Rett
syndrome also means that the involvement of professionals can be focussed in this context.
This will give your daughter or son the maximum chance of developing and maintaining his
or her skills.
Our Support Team aim to be as proactive as possible so that there is some structured
support in place during particularly difficult periods. They also enable families and carers to
have personal contact with others who have been in a similar situation. RSAUK hope that
everyone who contacts us can be supported in whatever way they need, at the time that is
right for them.
The Support Team can be contacted on there direct line 01582 798911 or by e-mail
[email protected]