Spiritual Growth: Sermon Outlines On The Subject of Spiritual Growth
Spiritual Growth: Sermon Outlines On The Subject of Spiritual Growth
Spiritual Growth: Sermon Outlines On The Subject of Spiritual Growth
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INTRODUCTION
1. The blessings enjoyed in Christ include not only redemption, but renewal...
a. In baptism, we undergo a "washing of regeneration and renewal by the Holy Spirit"
- Ti 3:5
a. From baptism, we rise to "walk in newness of life" - Ro 6:4
2. The renewal we find in Christ involves the concept of spiritual growth...
a. Just as a healthy physical life is one of growth
b. So a healthy spiritual life is a process of growth
3. Sadly, not all Christians grow spiritually...
a. Many have been Christians for years, with little change or improvement
b. They are no more, often less, useful to the Lord than when they first became Christians
c. Failing to grow, they become stagnant, like a pool of water
4. That is because "Spiritual Growth Is A Choice"...
a. It doesn't happen by default (unlike physical growth)
b. Spiritual growth (like emotional maturity) occurs only when we choose to grow
-- If we do not make that choice, and stick to it, there will be no spiritual growth!
[To encourage us to make the right choice regarding spiritual growth, consider that "Spiritual Growth
Is A Choice"...]
I. COMMANDED BY GOD
A. IMPLICITLY STATED IN THE GREAT COMMISSION...
1. The Great Commission is found in Mt 28:18-20
2. Jesus commanded His apostles to make disciples
a. Baptizing them
b. Teaching them to observe all things He commanded
-- Implicit in the command to teach, is that disciples would be obedient learners,
i.e., constantly growing as they learned and obeyed their Lord
B. EXPLICITLY STATED IN THE APOSTOLIC EPISTLES...
1. Peter ends his second epistle with a command to grow - 2 Pe 3:18
a. We are to grow in grace
b. We are to grow in the knowledge of Jesus Christ
2. Peter begins his second epistle describing how we are to grow - 2 Pe 1:5-8
a. Adding to your faith such graces as virtue, knowledge, self-control, etc.
b. Abounding in these graces, being fruitful, which implies growth
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-- Christians who did not grow, were sternly rebuked - e.g., He 5:12-6:1
[Spiritual growth is a not an option, reserved for a few select Christians. The Word of God commands
us to grow! We should also remember that "Spiritual Growth Is A Choice" that...]
II. REQUIRES DILIGENT EFFORT
A. UNLIKE PHYSICAL GROWTH...
1. People grow physically by default (unless there is some disorder)
2. No effort is required on our part; we mature physically whether we want to or not
-- Don't think that just because you grow older, you are growing spiritually!
B. SPIRITUAL GROWTH REQUIRES CONCENTRATED EFFORT...
1. Jesus said it requires labor - cf. Jn 6:27
2. Paul wrote that it requires work, pressing on - cf. Ph 2:12; 3:13-14
3. Peter wrote that it requires diligence - cf. 2 Pe 1:5,10
-- Like physical health, spiritual growth requires regular exercise - cf. 1 Ti 4:7-8
[Spiritual growth is not easy. We must work at it. Today. Tomorrow. Always. But we can take
comfort in knowing that "Spiritual Growth Is A Choice" which is...]
III. ASSISTED BY GOD
A. WE ARE NOT ALONE IN OUR EFFORTS...
1. While we work out our salvation, God is at work in us - cf. Ph 2:12-13
2. Just as He was with us in producing our new birth - cf. Ti 3:5
-- God desires to complete the work He started when He saved us - cf. Ph 1:6
B. WE ARE STRENGTHENED BY GOD IN OUR EFFORTS...
1. He strengthens us by His Spirit in our inner man - cf. Ep 3:16
2. He empowers us with unimaginable power that is in us - cf. Ep 3:20
3. He provides the armor to stand strong in the power of His might - cf. Ep 6:10-11
-- There is no excuse not to grow, for Christ strengthens us! - cf. Ph 4:13
[With God as our aid, spiritual growth is possible. And not mediocre growth, but spiritual growth
beyond what limits we might think hinder us! Finally, let us remember that "Spiritual Growth Is A
Choice" that is...]
IV. BLESSED BY GOD
A. THE BLESSINGS BEGIN IN THIS LIFE...
1. As we grow in grace - cf. 2 Pe 3:18
a. We experience the blessings of the grace in which we stand
b. Such as peace with God, rejoicing in hope - cf. Ro 5:1-2
2. As we grow in the knowledge of Jesus Christ - cf. 2 Pe 3:18
a. We experience the blessings of adding virtue, knowledge, self-control, etc. to our
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b. Such as a victorious life, in which we do not stumble so as to fall - cf. 2 Pe 1:10
-- Indeed, it is spiritual growth that ensures the "abundant life" now that Jesus
promised! - cf. Jn 10:10
B. THE BLESSINGS CONTINUE INTO THE LIFE TO COME
1. We will experience an "abundant entrance" into the everlasting kingdom - 2 Pe 1:11
2. In some way, our works do follow us - cf. Re 14:13
-- At the very least, we know that our labors will not be in vain! - cf. 1 Co 15:58
CONCLUSION
1. We have been talking about growth; but not just any growth, for not all growth is good...
a. The hearts of some grow dull - cf. Mt 13:15
b. The love of many grow cold - cf. Mt 24:12
c. There is the danger of growing weary in doing good - cf. Ga 6:9; 2 Th 3:13
d. There is possibility of growing corrupt according to deceitful lusts - cf. Ep 4:22
e. There is danger of growing wanton against Christ - cf. 1 Ti 5:11
f. There are those who grow worse and worse, deceiving and being deceived - cf. 2 Ti 3:13
-- Like the growth of cancerous cells, the wrong growth can be deadly!
2. We have been talking about spiritual growth, the kind of growth that is...
a. Commanded by God
b. Requires diligent effort
c. Assisted by God
d. Blessed by God
-- It is this kind of growth that Peter enjoined as he closed his epistle - 2 Pe 3:18
3. What kind of growth is taking place in our spiritual lives?
a. Is it a deadly kind of growth, creating dull hearts, love that is cold, weariness in doing
good, even moral corruption?
b. Or is it a vibrant kind of growth in which we are abounding in love, joy, and peace, being
faithful and fruitful in our service to Jesus Christ?
-- The one kind of growth is often the result of neglect, the other kind of growth comes
only when we make the right choice!
If we desire to experience the blessings of the right kind of growth, then never forget that "Spiritual
Growth Is A Choice"! Are you making the right choice today and every day...?
"Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart,
and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is
light." - Mt 11:28-30
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Spiritual Growth And Self-Esteem
INTRODUCTION
1. In our previous lesson we saw that "Spiritual Growth Is A Choice"...
a. Commanded by God - cf. 2 Pe 3:18
b. Requiring diligent effort - cf. Ph 2:12
c. Assisted by God - cf. Ph 2:13
d. Blessed by God - cf. 2 Pe 1:8-11
2. Yet many Christians do not reach their potential for spiritual growth...
a. Character development is minimal, abilities likewise underdeveloped
b. Years pass by with little progress
3. I am persuaded a major reason is poor self-esteem...
a. Causing Christians to underestimate their true potential
b. Hindering their efforts to grow
[What is self-esteem? How does it affect our spiritual growth? Let's begin by taking a look at...]
I. SELF-ESTEEM AND THE CHRISTIAN
A. UNDERSTANDING SELF-ESTEEM...
1. Self-esteem is our internal feelings and evaluation of ourselves based on our
"perceived" self-image
a. How we feel about ourselves
b. Based on how we view ourselves
2. Self-esteem and self-image are closely related, based mostly on feedback during
childhood
a. Feedback may come first from others (parents, peers, other important figures)
b. But then reinforced by our own self-talk (what we tell ourselves)
3. Healthy self-esteem is enhanced by childhood experiences that include:
a. Being praised
b. Being listened to, being spoken to respectfully
c. Getting attention and hugs
d. Experiencing success in sports or school
e. Having trustworthy friends
4. Childhood experiences that lead to low self-esteem include:
a. Being harshly criticized, yelled at, or beaten
b. Being ignored, ridiculed or teased
c. Being expected to be "perfect" all the time
d. Experiencing failures in sports or school
-- People with low self-esteem were often given messages that failed experiences
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(losing a game, getting a poor grade, etc.) were failures of their whole self
5. The consequences of poor self-esteem:
a. Can create anxiety, stress, loneliness and increased likelihood for depression
b. Can cause problems with friendships and relationships
c. Can seriously impair academic and job performance
d. Can lead to underachievement and increased vulnerability to drug and alcohol
abuse
-- These negative consequences themselves reinforce the negative self-image and
can take a person into a downward spiral of lower and lower self-esteem and
increasingly nonproductive or even actively self-destructive behavior
B. THE CHRISTIAN'S BASIS FOR SELF-ESTEEM...
1. The Christian has two primary reasons for having a healthy self-image:
a. Dignity by virtue of divine generation
1) We were created in God's image - cf. Gen 1:26-27
2) We were created to exercise dominion - cf. Gen 1:28
-- God has further demonstrated His high estimation of mankind by His love
- cf. Jn 3:16; 1 Jn 4:10; Ro 5:8
b. Dignity by virtue of spiritual regeneration
1) Yes, we are sinners, but we have been regenerated - Ti 3:5
2) We are now loved as His children - cf. 1 Jn 3:1
2. Christians have other reasons for having a good self-esteem
a. The blessing of continued forgiveness when we sin - 1 Jn 1:9-2:2
b. The blessing of God's Spirit to help us overcome sin - Ga 4:6; Ro 8:12; Ep 3:16
c. The blessing of God's family (the church) to help us - He 3:12; 10:25
d. The blessing of God's own assurance never to forsake us - He 13:5-6
[There is much that could be added to the fact that God highly esteems His children. While we are
sinners, He wants us to have the proper estimation of ourselves. But now let's address more directly the
subject of...]
II. SELF-ESTEEM AND SPIRITUAL GROWTH
A. POOR SELF-ESTEEM HINDERS SPIRITUAL GROWTH...
1. Not believing they are capable of growing, some tell themselves:
a. "I could never do that (teach a class, preach a sermon, etc.)..."
b. "I will make too many mistakes..."
2. Prone to giving up too soon, some tell themselves:
a. "I just don't have the ability..."
b. "I am only a one talent individual..."
3. Poor self-esteem on an individual basis can easily carry over to how the group feels
a. "We are too small as a church to do..."
b. "We are too poor..."
-- All such excuses are indications of poor self-esteem, and prevent spiritual growth
from occurring!
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Goals For Spiritual Growth
INTRODUCTION
1. Thus far in our study of spiritual growth I have sought to establish the following...
a. Spiritual growth is a choice that we must make
1) Commanded by God
2) That requires diligent effort on our part
3) Yet we are assisted by God in our effort
4) And we are blessed by God both in this life and the one to come
b. Spiritual growth is too often hindered by low self-esteem
1) Too many Christians sell themselves short, because they do not view themselves
capable of attaining higher levels of spiritual growth
2) Not believing in their God-given capability, they are prone to making excuses for not
trying, and therefore not growing
-- Yet because God commands us to grow, we need to have faith that we can grow
2. But what should be our goals regarding spiritual growth?
a. For what are we to strive, making diligent effort?
b. By what measurement can we determine that spiritual growth is taking place?
3. As with any venture, having goals and attaining them is essential to success...
a. The athlete excels when he or she sets goals, and attains them
b. The successful business man understands the importance of goals
[So it is with the Christian. We must have goals, and measurable ways of attaining them. In this lesson,
I want to offer some thoughts in this regards. First, for the Christian there needs to be what I call...]
I. BEHAVIORAL GOALS
A. OUR ULTIMATE GOAL IS TO BE LIKE CHRIST...
1. Jesus intimated such in talking about discipleship
a. A disciple is to become like his teacher - cf. Lk 6:40
b. Jesus wants us to become His disciples - cf. Mt 28:19-20
2. Paul made it clear that this is the goal of our redemption
a. God's desire is that we be conformed to the image of His Son - Ro 8:29
b. As we are being transformed, it is in the image of Christ - cf. 2 Co 3:18
c. We are to be renewed according to the image of Christ - cf. Co 3:10-11
-- So an essential element of spiritual growth is to become more Christ-like,
renewing our behavior to conform to the example of Jesus Christ
B. THIS INVOLVES GROWING IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF CHRIST...
1. Which Peter commanded in 2 Pe 3:18
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Habits For Spiritual Growth
INTRODUCTION
1. In our previous lesson we talked about goals for spiritual growth...
a. Behavioral goals - in which we seek to become like Jesus, emulating His character
b. Functional goals - in which we aim to determine and develop our abilities and functions
in the body of Christ
c. Congregational goals - in which brethren unite in our aspirations to grow as a
congregation as well as individual Christians
2. To meet our goals requires the development of good habits...
a. Habits are stepping stones which ensure that we eventually meet our goals
b. Habits are things done on a frequent basis (daily, weekly, etc.) that slowly produce a
certain effect
-- Unless we establish good habits, bad habits will set in that hinder our spiritual growth!
[What are some good habits that will help us meet our spiritual goals? Let's first consider a few that will
help us meet our behavioral goals, what we might describe as...]
I. BEHAVIORAL HABITS
A. BIBLE READING...
1. The Word of God is crucial to growing spiritually - 1 Pe 2:2
a. David described the value of God's Word - Psa 19:7-11
b. He also illustrated the blessedness and fortitude of one who meditated daily on the
Word of God - Psa 1:1-3
2. The Christian who wants to grow spiritually must therefore develop the habit of daily
Bible reading...
a. Such as reading through the Bible each year (about 3 chapters a day)
b. Or perhaps the New Testament one year, the Old Testament the next
-- By feeding upon God's Word daily, we receive the spiritual nourishment
necessary to grow; have you developed the habit of daily Bible reading?
B. PRAYING...
1. The practice of prayer is also required for spiritual growth
a. Through prayer we find mercy and grace to help - He 4:16
b. Through prayer we find peace to guard our hearts - Ph 4:6-7
2. The Christian must therefore continue steadfastly in prayer - Ro 12:12
a. Perhaps emulating the example of David - cf. Psa 55:17
b. And the custom of Daniel, who prayed three times daily - cf. Dan 6:10
-- Just as we must listen to God daily through His Word, so we must talk to Him
daily if we are to grow; have you developed the habit of praying regularly?
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C. SINGING...
1. Praising God in song is also conducive to spiritual growth
a. David, the man after God's own heart, developed the practice of praising God
daily - cf. Psa 104:33; 119:164
b. If we teach one another through songs, do we not also teach ourselves when we
sing? - cf. Co 3:16
2. The Christian should make singing a habit that is second nature to him or her
a. When happy, we should sing - Ja 5:13
b. In times of trial, we should sing - cf. Ac 16:25
-- As we develop the habits of daily Bible reading and prayer, let us also develop
the habit of singing praises to God daily if we seek to grow!
D. ASSEMBLING...
1. Assembling together with other Christians is very important - He 10:24-25
a. It is a means of stimulating one another to love and good works
b. We exhort one another in our service to Christ
2. Therefore Christians should make a strong habit of attending church
a. Attending as often as possible, for worship, Bible study, etc.
b. The more we attend, the stronger the habit becomes; the less we attend, the
weaker the habit becomes
-- Christians who make it a habit to skip the assemblies struggle in their efforts to
grow spiritually; no Christian has become stronger by neglecting the assembly!
[The formation and exercise of such behavioral habits builds the foundation for solid spiritual growth that
leads to maturity in Christ. Bible study, prayer, and singing bring us closer to God which can transform
our character (cf. 2 Co 3:18). Assembling together brings us closer to one another, and provides the
opportunity to develop our functional goals in the body of Christ. That leads us to our next point, in
which we consider what I call...]
II. FUNCTIONAL HABITS
A. ASSEMBLING TOGETHER WITH THE CHURCH...
1. Yes, we have already mentioned the habit of assembling with Christians
a. But that was in connection with your personal spiritual growth
b. If we are to reach our functional goals, it will be within the framework of the local
church
2. Through frequent assembling with the church...
a. We become familiar with identities and needs of other members
b. We learn what functions are needed in the body of Christ - cf. Ro 12:3-8
c. We are given opportunity to be of service to one another
-- The habit of going to church is essential if we are going to be of much use to the
Lord's church; otherwise, we cannot be counted on for much service
B. PARTICIPATION IN THE WORK OF THE CHURCH...
1. Such as the habit of participating in the assemblies of the church...
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The Importance Of A Positive Attitude
INTRODUCTION
1. A good start toward spiritual growth is achieved when we...
a. Accept the challenge to obey God's command to grow - 2 Pe 3:18
b. Believe we are capable of growing with God's help - Ph 4:13
c. Set both behavioral and functional goals as described in the Scriptures
1) Striving to develop Christ-like behavior - 2 Pe 1:5-8
2) Seeking to determine and develop our function in the body of Christ - Ro 12:3-5
d. Create good habits that slowly but surely help us reach those goals
1) Habits that change our behavior (Bible reading, prayer, etc.) - 1 Pe 2:2; Ph 4:6-7
2) Habits that utilize our functions in the body of Christ (assembling, participating)
- He 10:24-25; Ro 12:6-8
2. For spiritual growth to continue, however, requires maintaining a positive attitude...
a. Believing that all our efforts will be worthwhile - e.g., 1 Co 15:58
b. Encouraging us to persevere through difficult times - e.g., 2 Co 4:8-9
[Paul certainly had a positive attitude. But why is a positive attitude so important to spiritual growth...?]
I. IMPORTANCE OF A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
A. THE DANGER OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE...
1. Illustrated in the example of the twelve spies of Israel
a. Ten did not believe they could take the land of Canaan - Num 13:31
b. Their negative attitude discouraged the rest of Israel - Num 13:32-14:4; cf.
32:7-9
c. It led to Israel complaining and rebelling against God - cf. Deu 1:26-28
d. It prompted them not to believe in God - cf. Deu 1:29-33
e. It resulted in many dying in the wilderness - Num 14:26-38
2. When negative attitudes are allowed to develop...
a. We stop believing in God and in ourselves
b. We stop trying to do what God wants us to do
c. We discourage those around us
d. We fail to reach the goals God has placed before us
B. THE VALUE OF A POSITIVE ATTITUDE...
1. Illustrated in the example of rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem
a. The people had a mind to work - Neh 4:6
b. It helped them overcome ridicule by their enemies - cf. Neh 4:1-3
c. It led to the rebuilding of the walls - cf. Neh 6:15
2. When positive attitudes are maintained...
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b.
c.
d.
[Spiritual growth, like any other successful venture, requires a positive attitude! With it, God will help us
reach our goals for spiritual growth. Without it, we fall short of becoming what God would have us to
be. Therefore let's consider a few thoughts about...]
II. MAINTAINING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
A. CHOOSE TO BE POSITIVE...
1. We can control our attitudes, our moods
a. We may not be able to control or change our circumstances
b. But we can control how we react to them
2. For example, we can choose to rejoice when times are hard
a. As James commanded - Ja 1:2
b. As we understand the value of difficult times - Ja 1:3-4; Ro 5:3-4
c. When we know that hope and prayer can help us to rejoice - Ro 12:12
-- With a proper understanding, we can maintain a positive attitude despite our
external circumstances - cf. 2 Co 4:16-5:1; Ph 2:17-18
B. BLOCK OUT NEGATIVITY...
1. By avoiding negative self-talk
a. Such as "I can't do it..."
b. Such as "It's too hard..."
2. By constantly reminding yourself of such things as:
a. You can do what God wants you to do (i.e., grow) - Ph 4:13; 2:12-13
b. The more effort you make, the more results you will see - Ga 6:7-9; 1 Ti 4:15
c. Your labor will not be in vain - 1 Co 15:58
3. By avoiding negative people
a. Choose your friends carefully - cf. 1 Co 15:33
b. Stay away from "toxic" people (whose negativity poisons other people's attitudes)
c. Otherwise you will join what Rick Pitino calls "The Fellowship Of The
Miserable" and the killers of the dream
4. By surrounding yourself with positive people
a. People who will encourage you to do what is right - cf. He 10:24
b. People who refresh your spirit, not discourage it - e.g., 1 Co 16:17-18; Phe 4-7
c. People like Barnabas, "Son of Encouragement" - e.g., Ac 4:36; 11:22-24
-- With the right self-talk and the right companionships, we can avoid becoming
hardened by the sin of negativity - cf. He 3:13
C. LIVE IN THE PRESENT, WITH AN EYE TO THE FUTURE...
1. Live in the present, not the past
a. If anyone could have bemoaned his sinful past, it was Paul - 1 Ti 1:12-15
b. Yet he chose not to dwell on past mistakes (or even past successes), but to press
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The Need For Perseverance
INTRODUCTION
1. In our studies on spiritual growth, we have stressed these essential elements...
a. Making the choice to obey God's command to grow - 2 Pe 3:18
b. Believing we are capable of growth with God's help - Ph 4:13
c. Setting behavioral and functional goals
1) Striving to develop Christ-like behavior - 2 Pe 1:5-8
2) Seeking to determine and develop our function in the body of Christ - Ro 12:3-5
d. Developing habits that help us obtain such goals
1) Habits that change our behavior (Bible reading, prayer, etc.) - 1 Pe 2:2; Ph 4:6-7
2) Habits that utilize our functions in the body of Christ (assembling, participating)
- He 10:24-25; Ro 12:6-8
e. Maintaining a positive attitude about the value our efforts - 1 Co 15:58
2. Another crucial element in spiritual growth is perseverance, or endurance...
a. Which the Hebrew Christians needed to have - He 10:36
b. Which is part of the Christ-like attitude we are to develop - 2 Pe 1:6; cf. He 12:1-3
3. The Greek word for perseverance is hupomone, which is defined as:
a. Steadfastness, constancy, endurance
b. In the NT the characteristic of a man who is not swerved from his deliberate purpose and
his loyalty to faith and piety by even the greatest trials and sufferings (Thayer)
[As our purpose is one of spiritual growth, let's first review some reasons why we need the virtue of
perseverance...]
I. THE NEED FOR PERSEVERANCE
A. SPIRITUAL GROWTH TAKES TIME...
1. Time to grow is implied in He 5:12
2. It takes time to learn
a. To learn the Word of God
b. To learn what is expected of us
c. To learn what areas of service may be open to us
3. It takes time to develop
a. To develop a Christ-like character
b. To develop our function(s) in the body of Christ
-- Unless we persevere in our efforts, there will not be adequate time to grow!
B. SPIRITUAL GROWTH REQUIRES REPETITION...
1. Repetition is implied in the principle of sowing and reaping - 2 Co 9:6
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The Value Of Role Models
INTRODUCTION
1. In previous studies, I have stressed that spiritual growth requires...
a. Choosing to obey the command of God to grow - 2 Pe 3:18
b. Believing that we are capable of growth, with God's help - Ph 2:12-13; 4:13
c. Behavioral and functional goals, in concert with congregational goals - 2 Pe 1:5-8;
Ro 12:3-5
d. Developing habits to reach our goals - 1 Pe 2:2; Ph 4:6-7; He 10:24-25; Ro 12:6-8
e. Maintaining positive attitudes about the value of our efforts - 1 Co 15:58
f. Perseverance to remain steadfast in our efforts - He 10:36-39
2. To aid us further in spiritual growth, we need to appreciate the value of role models...
a. We are commanded to emulate others - cf. Ph 3:17; 4:9
b. Even as they sought to emulate Christ - cf. 1 Co 11:1
[Why are we commanded to imitate others? Perhaps it is because...]
I. WE ARE NATURAL IMITATORS
A. CHILDREN IMITATE THEIR PARENTS...
1. Especially in their early years, children seem to delight in imitating their parents
2. They quickly pick up their parent's mannerisms: the way they talk, walk, etc.
3. It is as though there was some innate reason for them to imitate mom and dad
B. TEENAGERS IMITATE THEIR PEERS AND POPULAR IDOLS...
1. As children get older, they may not seek to imitate their parents, but they are still
active imitators
2. For better or worse (usually worse), they seek to emulate those in their peer group, or
those whom they hold in high regard (athletes, musicians, etc.)
3. Despite frequent claims to want to "be themselves", you can usually tell by their
behavior who they have been watching or listening to
C. CHRISTIANS IMITATE THOSE THEY HOLD IN HIGH REGARD...
1. I have observed that many brethren often reflect the attitudes, dispositions, and
conduct of those preachers or elders for whom they have much respect
2. This can be good, but in some cases it is not...
a. I have known some Christians (including preachers) whose behavior greatly
disturbed me, wondering how they could justify their conduct
b. But when I saw their peers, or those brethren whom they held in high regard
acting in the same way, I began to understand
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[So we seem to be natural born imitators. Why should we be careful about who we seek to imitate?
Consider...]
II. THE VALUE OF ROLE MODELS
A. GOOD ROLE MODELS CAN HELP...
1. By example, they show us what is possible
a. E.g., how a "son of thunder" can become the "apostle of love" - Mk 3:17; Lk
9:54; 1 Jn 4:7-8
b. E.g., how "uneducated and untrained men" can boldly proclaim the gospel of
Christ- Ac 4:13
2. By example, they teach us how to reach the same goals
a. E.g., to enjoy a wonderful relationship with God - Ph 4:9
b. E.g., to remain steadfast despite trials - 2 Co 4:16-18
B. BAD ROLE MODELS CAN HINDER...
1. By example, they fail to show us what is possible
a. Perhaps preventing us from learning of our potential
b. Certainly not encouraging us to strive for excellence
2. By example, we can pick up their bad habits and dispositions
a. As indicated earlier, we are naturally imitators
b. It is not long before our conduct is similar to our role models
[If we desire to grow spiritually, we need to have good role models. Where are they? We are blessed
with many...]
III. ROLE MODELS WORTHY OF EMULATION
A. WE HAVE DEITY...
1. As Christ encouraged us to do, in showing kindness to our enemies - Mt 5:43-48
2. As Paul instructed the Ephesians to walk in love - Ep 5:1-2
3. What better example do we have, than that of God and Jesus Christ?
4. Indeed, some of the very titles we wear imply such imitation:
a. Children of God
b. Disciples of Jesus Christ
-- Do we seek to learn as much about God and Jesus as we do other role models?
B. WE HAVE BIBLICAL CHARACTERS...
1. To the degree they imitate Christ, as Paul wrote to the Corinthians - 1 Co 11:1
2. The New Testament is filled with good examples for Christians today...
a. For married couples, there is the example of Aquila and Priscilla - Ro 16:3-5
b. For those blessed with things of this life, there is the example of Philemon and
Gaius - Phile 1-7; 3 Jn 5-8
c. For women, there is the example of Dorcas - Ac 9:36,39
d. For young men there is the example of Timothy - Ph 2:19-22
3. This does not mean to preclude many fine Old Testament examples as well: Joseph,
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Daniel, Barzillai the Gileadite (an old man who helped David in his affliction - 2 Sam
17:27-29; 19:31-39) and many others
-- Indeed, the Scriptures are filled with many examples worthy of our emulation!
C. WE HAVE MANY FELLOW CHRISTIANS TODAY...
1. As Paul encouraged his fellow Christians to imitate those who provided a similar
pattern as did he - Ph 3:17
a. There are many preachers, teachers, and elders we can emulate
b. There are many older women that younger women can emulate - cf. Ti 2:3-5
c. There are many younger people worthy of emulation - cf. 1 Ti 4:12
2. Yet we should be careful, for not all who profess to be Christians behave as they
should - cf. Ph 3:18-19
3. It is important, therefore, that we know the Scriptures well enough to know when
someone is worthy of our emulation
-- Yet there are many Christians who can teach and encourage us by their own
example, if we will but let them!
CONCLUSION
1. If you seek to grow spiritually, take advantage of role models...
a. Let them show you what is possible!
b. Let them teach you how to obtain the goals you are striving for!
c. Let them encourage you to persevere, knowing that others have traveled the same path
before you!
2. Since we are natural born imitators, let us make the choice to imitate the good - 3 Jn 11
a. Only then do we have the hope of being "of God"
b. The only alternative is to imitate the evil, which prevents us from ever "seeing God"
We conclude this lesson with the following words of Scripture:
"And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence to the full
assurance of hope until the end, that you do not become sluggish, but imitate
those who through faith and patience inherit the promises." - He 6:11-12
Are we imitating those who through faith and patience inherit the promises?
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INTRODUCTION
1. In this series, I've emphasized elements necessary to spiritual growth...
a. Choosing to obey the command of God to grow - 2 Pe 3:18
b. Believing that we are capable of growth, with God's help - Ph 2:12-13; 4:13
c. Setting behavioral, functional, and congregational goals - 2 Pe 1:5-8; Ro 12:3-5
d. Developing habits to reach our goals - 1 Pe 2:2; Ph 4:6-7; He 10:24-25; Ro 12:6-8
e. Maintaining positive attitudes about the value of our efforts - 1 Co 15:58
f. Perseverance to remain steadfast in our efforts - He 10:36-39
g. Inspired by role models whose pattern we should follow - Ph 3:17; 4:9
2. In this final lesson in the series, I wish to offer some concluding thoughts...
a. Pointing out things that can hinder spiritual growth
b. Suggesting steps to take to ensure spiritual growth
[As mentioned throughout this series, spiritual growth is not automatic. Indeed, there are a number of
things that can work against us...]
I. HINDRANCES TO SPIRITUAL GROWTH
A. LACK OF EFFORT...
1. Such as failing to set proper goals, develop the daily habits
2. Those who are spiritually lazy tend to follow the course of least resistance
a. Such will forever remain "babes" - cf. He 5:12-13; 1 Co 3:1-2
b. If they do not fall away altogether
-- Just as the lazy man's vineyard lies in ruins and leads to poverty (Pro 24:30-34),
so spiritual sloth leads to spiritual ruin!
B. DISCOURAGEMENT...
1. Some people make a good beginning, but get discouraged and quit
2. Reasons may vary: church troubles, personal problems, lack of encouragement from
others, etc.
3. But consider the example of the apostle Paul:
a. Few of us would ever have the problems he had - 2 Co 11:24-29
b. Yet he did not "lose heart" (become discouraged) - 2 Co 4:8-9
c. Why? Because he knew his labor was not in vain - 2 Co 4:16-5:1
4. And so he encourages us not to grow weary in doing good - Ga 6:9; 1 Co 15:58
-- Discouragement happens; we must not allow it to deter us from pressing on!
C. LACK OF USE...
1. A knife stays bright when used, but unused it becomes rusty
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