ISIS 'Beatle' Jihadi Ringo begs to return to UK with secret wife and 3 childrenEXCLUSIVE: Senior Islamic State terrorist Alexanda Kotey has a Syrian wife and three girls - and wants to return with themVideo LoadingVideo UnavailableClick to playTap to playThe video will auto-play soon8CancelPlay nowEXCLUSIVE: Jihadi Ringo describes how he laughed at beheading videos and saved Jihadi John's lifeByChris HughesDefence and Security Editor23:02, 17 Jun 2019Updated07:28, 18 Jun 2019 Britainâs most senior Islamic State terrorist still alive, Alexanda Kotey, has a family in Syria â and he wants them to live in the UK. Kotey said he has a Syrian wife and three girls, aged five, three and one. Gaunt and exhausted, 35-year-old Kotey apologised for his crimes but said he is âgratefulâ for his time in IS. He said he is thankful because â overlooking the terror groupâs unimaginable bloodshed and carnage â it led to him getting a jihadi bride. Some women were forced to wed fighters but others saw it as an honour. Kotey â dubbed âRingoâ in the notorious âBeatlesâ cell, which is thought to have participated in the killing of at least seven hostages â also claimed he is as âBritish as anyoneâ. In our interview with him in prison, he admitted abusing Western prisoners before they were beheaded. He claimed he regrets joining IS but, during the conversation in northern Syria, Kotey failed to completely hide his sinister side. He said of the beheading videos: âI didnât condemn it. That was the environment.â ISIS 'Beatle' Alexanda Kotey speaks to Daily Mirror defence editor Chris Hughes at a secret location in Northern Syria ( Image: Rowan Griffiths \\ Daily Mirror) He said that when he saw Jihadi John behead Westerners, he disapproved but merely asked: âIs there no other way to deal with these people?â These are weak words that Kotey knows would make no difference to the bloodthirsty executioner who had become a close friend. When asked if he would have beheaded people, Kotey replied: âI canât say to be honest⦠I canât say I agree with it and I donât know what I would do in that situation⦠âObviously if there was a gun put to my head, I definitely⦠I wouldnât know⦠I would do.â He added he and other IS fighters laughed at the Jihadi John videos. Kotey said: âNobody thought they were beneficial in any way. âWe used to mock them, we would ridicule themâ¦We would laugh at the state, obviously not laughing at the beheadings, but this was all staged.â I demanded to know why he was laughing at the production values, given the content was so horrific. He replied, grinning: âI remember looking at beheading videos from Chechnya⦠this was playground stuff.â He added he watched a video of the IS beheading of British worker Ken Bigley, who was murdered in Iraq in 2004. Kotey said: âI saw this in the UK. What it did â it replaced Hollywood. The chief of the Islamic State group Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi ( Image: AFP/Getty Images) âI guess this is entertainment, unfortunately. Thereâs a large portion of people who see it as entertainment.â Officials only confirmed the interview was going ahead five minutes before Kotey walked in. Gone was the chest-sticking-out confidence he showed months ago when he first appeared and ranted about US-led bombings. IS excused its violence by saying it is comparable to Coalition attacks on jihadi targets, said to have killed many civilians in cities such as Raqqa and Mosul. Coalition commanders admit civilians died, but IS has hidden fighters among the civilian population. Kotey has defended IS atrocities. Now he is turning on the charm, admitting only to smaller crimes and distancing himself from IS leaders. Many of the Western prisoners were beheaded after months of abuse. I asked if he abused prisoners, and he replied: âEr, no. If you mean in the case of torture.â âYou didnât beat them up?â I asked. âErm,â he replied. âDid you ever punch prisoners?â âErm, probably I would have hit them, no punch, maybe yes, a slap or something, yes⦠Hitting is prison.â He mentioned British aid worker Alan Henning, who was kidnapped in Syria and beheaded by Jihadi John in 2014. Kotey said: âOf course I have regret and this standard that they were kept in â the fact that even at the time, people clearly they had come for, to help like, erm⦠Alan.â He talked about being a sniper, and I asked him if he has ever killed anyone. He said: âNo, never.â It was hard to resist replying: âThen you must have been a rubbish sniper.â Syria Alexanda Kotey has been in solitary confinement for a year ( Image: AFP/Getty Images) Earlier an official told us: âThis guy is very clever â donât fall for it. âHe is very careful what he says and I do not believe he has given up his extremist views. He is dangerous.â Kotey deployed control and subtle mind games, trying to appear polite. He passed me tea, smiling, and asked âhow many scoops of sugar?â while discussing beheadings, hangings and gay people being flung from rooftops in ISâs former HQ of Raqqa. Thousands of locals are thought to have been killed in the city during the terroristsâ twisted five-year reign there. Watched in the cell by a Kurdish security officer, Kotey explained his suspicious sudden cynicism towards IS, telling me: âMy main regret is in joining any jihadi orientated organisation or group in Syria or anywhere. âI mean, I donât want that to be misinterpreted as a lack of gratitude as to what occurred. Here I married and had children so it would be very ungrateful.â He said he has a baby girl who had not been born when he last saw his wife, who he packed off to her family in wartorn Aleppo. Kotey â who was seized and jailed by Western-backed SDF troops in 2017 north of Raqqa as he tried to flee to Turkey to escape the Coalition-led onslaught against the terror group â is also believed to have children in the UK. Asked exactly where his wife is, he said: âI would like to know myself. I donât know. âI know I had a baby daughter and she is my third daughter from my wife. Kotey now wants to return to the UK ( Image: Rowan Griffiths \\ Daily Mirror) âI have not been allowed access to communicate with them. âI prefer not to give her name. My kidsâ names are oldest Mariam, five, Sajida, three, and the youngest is a year now â I donât know her name. âI sent my wife out before I left. She joined her⦠family in Aleppo. We were married since the beginning of 2013. Weâve been married for six years.â He said he believes he will be free one day. When asked if he will see his children again, he said: âI like to think so, yes.â Kotey, half Ghanaian and half Greek Cypriot, said he learned his wife contacted his mum in London. He added he wants his wife to move to the UK, an ambition which is almost impossible given he has been stripped of his British citizenship. Kotey said: âI know they have made some kind of contact back to the UK which got put on hold due to some kind of legal issue. There was an attempt to make contact with my mother which got cut, legal issues.â He added: âAs far as Iâm concerned I am British and Iâll remain British. To say I am not British is a big, bold statement or that anyone is more British than me because I made some mistakes â thatâs also a big statement.â We got into a debate about the IS perversion of Islam, and after he began to rant, I told him: âI am talking about throwing homosexuals from roofs â hanging people in the street⦠âThereâs no book where these horrors are advised⦠the hangings, beheadings, torching of pilots in cages.â But he said: âYou can find a classical scholar who will justify it.â Finally, we asked him what he would say to a 15-year-old Kotey whose ambition is to travel abroad for jihad, and he replied: âI would strongly advise him against it.âTop Stories Don't Miss FollowMirrorFacebookX (Twitter)MORE ONJihadi JohnTerrorismCrimeISISGet email updates with the day's biggest storiesSign upInvalid EmailSomething went wrong, please try again later.We use your sign-up to provide content in ways youâve consented to and improve our understanding of you. 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