'My family won't stop mocking my baby's name â they say it's too old school'The pregnant woman decided to share the name she and her partner had chosen with her family, but they all slammed their choice and she doesn't "understand why they're being so rude about it"The woman's family hate her chosen baby name (stock image) (Image: Getty Images)ByJess FlahertySenior News Reporter12:55, 24 Dec 2024|commentsA pregnant woman is upset after she shared the name she chose for her daughter, only for her family to mock it mercilessly. Agreeing on a name for a child can be tricky - after all, it has to suit an adorable little baby and grow with them into adulthood. Finally finding one both parents agree on can bring intense relief - but the drama doesnât always end there. Many parents-to-be keep their choice a secret until the baby has been born - that way, relatives and friends are less likely to pass judgement on their choice. If a parent opts for something controversial, then it can be understandable when well-meaning family members offer words of wisdom or advice. This isnât the situation for one couple, though. They agreed on a traditional name for their daughter and had assumed their family would be in support of it. Unfortunately, the opposite has proved to be true. Sharing her frustration in a Reddit post titled âMy family wonât stop making fun of my baby name," the woman explained: âI told my family Iâm naming my baby girl Melanie, and they all immediately started making fun of it. READ MORE:'Ghost' of woman with red scarf who haunts London Underground every Christmas âMy sister said it sounds like the name of a cat. My brother said it sounds old and dated, like a name from the 80s. Even my grandma joined in, saying it reminds her of someone she didnât like in high school.â She continued: âThey just kept piling on, making jokes and laughing, and I felt so annoyed. I love the name Melanie, and I think itâs beautiful. I donât understand why theyâre being so rude about it. "Now I regret telling them the name, and Iâm considering changing it now. Anyone else have family like this? How do you handle it?â Fellow Reddit users shared their thoughts in the comments section. One person said: âYour family sounds awful. Itâs a nice, normal, pretty name.â Another replied: âI feel like there's a good chance they would have made fun of any name OP [original poster] picked.â A third commented: âThis is why you donât share the name. Only the parents need to like it. Melanie is fine. Your family is inappropriate.â Another shared: âI'm sorry. You can't please everyone, but family negativity can really take the joy out of the occasion. Don't talk to them about names again until they're holding the baby. Melanie is a perfectly good, mellifluous name. There is no reason for their negativity.â One person said: âYour family members are so mean! I love the name Melanie! I wouldnât change it honestly.â And another added: âMelanie is a perfectly lovely name, and while I do know people of my generation with that name, there's also a little girl at my son's preschool named Melanie.âTop Stories Don't Miss FollowMirrorFacebookX (Twitter)Comment MORE ONRedditBabiesPregnancyBaby NamesViralGet email updates with the day's biggest storiesSign upInvalid EmailSomething went wrong, please try again later.We use your sign-up to provide content in ways youâve consented to and improve our understanding of you. This may include adverts from us and third parties based on our knowledge of you. More infoThank you for subscribingWe have more newslettersShow meSee ourPrivacy NoticeStory SavedYou can find this story in My Bookmarks.Or by navigating to the user icon in the top right.