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Is Casual Sex Bad For You? | Dr. Zhana Vrangalova | TEDxCollegeofWilliam&Mary
Casual sex has long been portrayed as a societal sin. Dr. Vrangalova, a renowned sex researcher, weighs in on the topic.
Zhana Vrangalova is a sex researcher who studies how various expressions of sexuality (particularly casual sex, promiscuity, and nonheterosexuality) are related to psychological health and wellbeing. She holds a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University. She is currently an adjunct instructor at New York University
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
published: 30 Jun 2015
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My Darkest Days - Casual Sex (Lyrics)
I Do NOT Own. All Copyrights go to My Darkest Days.
published: 10 May 2012
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My Darkest Days - Casual Sex (Lyric Video (Explicit))
Music video by My Darkest Days performing Casual Sex. (C) 2012 The Island Def Jam Music Group
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published: 04 Feb 2012
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Casual Sex Doesn't Exist
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In a study that asked 515 people why they went into a hookup, 50 percent of women and 52 percent of men reported that they hoped to trigger a longer relationship.
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HELEN FISHER
Helen E. Fisher, Ph.D. biological anthropologist, is a Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, and a Member of the Center For Human Evolutionary Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University. She has written six books on the evolution, biology, and psychology of human...
published: 24 Apr 2012
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Real Talk: College Girls and Casual Sex
More and more young women prefer casual hookups rather than getting into anything serious while they're in college. When you're focused on your career or your studies, who's got the time to worry about keeping a boyfriend? Check out the hosts' lively discussion on college girls and casual sex.
Find out where to watch: http://bit.ly/RealWIO
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published: 25 Jul 2013
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Casual Sex? Official Trailer #1 - Lea Thompson Movie (1988) Movie HD
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Casual Sex? Official Trailer #1 - Lea Thompson Movie (1988) Movie HD
Casual Sex? Trailer - Directed by GeneviÈve Robert and starring Lea Thompson, Cynthia Phillips, Danny Breen, Steven Ameche, Andrew Dice Clay. Two girls go away to a holiday resort looking for a change of pace, hoping to meet some nice men for a change. They discover that they can't find the perfect man, and this forces them to reconsider their attitudes to men in general.
Universal - 1988
Welcome to the Fandango MOVIECLIPS Trailer Vault Channel. Where trailers from the past, from recent to lo...
published: 10 Jan 2012
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'Not-So-Casual' Sex - Amol Parashar | Divya Prakash Dubey | Spoken Fest Mumbai 2020
Casual sex is great but what happens when feelings start coming in the way? When 'booty calls' turn into 'I miss you' texts and you have eyes for them only? Amol Parashar has his own learnings from this new age love story. Watch 'Not-So-Casual Sex' out now. This story has been adapted from an original story ‘Jeevanshaadi dot com’ by Divya Prakash Dubey.
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published: 13 Feb 2020
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Casual Sex - An Honest Discussion between Men and Women
Thank you so much! You can now buy my new book
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My new book The Game of Desire is now available for pre-order! When you pre-order today, you get access to my private podcast, the first two chapters of the book and several ways to connect with me one on one!
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published: 26 Nov 2017
17:53
Is Casual Sex Bad For You? | Dr. Zhana Vrangalova | TEDxCollegeofWilliam&Mary
Casual sex has long been portrayed as a societal sin. Dr. Vrangalova, a renowned sex researcher, weighs in on the topic.
Zhana Vrangalova is a sex researcher w...
Casual sex has long been portrayed as a societal sin. Dr. Vrangalova, a renowned sex researcher, weighs in on the topic.
Zhana Vrangalova is a sex researcher who studies how various expressions of sexuality (particularly casual sex, promiscuity, and nonheterosexuality) are related to psychological health and wellbeing. She holds a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University. She is currently an adjunct instructor at New York University
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
https://wn.com/Is_Casual_Sex_Bad_For_You_|_Dr._Zhana_Vrangalova_|_Tedxcollegeofwilliam_Mary
Casual sex has long been portrayed as a societal sin. Dr. Vrangalova, a renowned sex researcher, weighs in on the topic.
Zhana Vrangalova is a sex researcher who studies how various expressions of sexuality (particularly casual sex, promiscuity, and nonheterosexuality) are related to psychological health and wellbeing. She holds a Ph.D. in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University. She is currently an adjunct instructor at New York University
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
- published: 30 Jun 2015
- views: 4007059
3:17
My Darkest Days - Casual Sex (Lyrics)
I Do NOT Own. All Copyrights go to My Darkest Days.
I Do NOT Own. All Copyrights go to My Darkest Days.
https://wn.com/My_Darkest_Days_Casual_Sex_(Lyrics)
I Do NOT Own. All Copyrights go to My Darkest Days.
- published: 10 May 2012
- views: 4126468
3:17
My Darkest Days - Casual Sex (Lyric Video (Explicit))
Music video by My Darkest Days performing Casual Sex. (C) 2012 The Island Def Jam Music Group
My Darkest Days Casual Sex available Now!
iTunes: http://www.smar...
Music video by My Darkest Days performing Casual Sex. (C) 2012 The Island Def Jam Music Group
My Darkest Days Casual Sex available Now!
iTunes: http://www.smarturl.it/iCasuals
Amazon: http://www.smarturl.it/aCasuals
https://wn.com/My_Darkest_Days_Casual_Sex_(Lyric_Video_(Explicit))
Music video by My Darkest Days performing Casual Sex. (C) 2012 The Island Def Jam Music Group
My Darkest Days Casual Sex available Now!
iTunes: http://www.smarturl.it/iCasuals
Amazon: http://www.smarturl.it/aCasuals
- published: 04 Feb 2012
- views: 1332143
7:49
Casual Sex Doesn't Exist
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In a study that asked 515 people why they went into a hookup, 50 percent of women and 52 percent of men reported that they hoped to trigger a longer relationship.
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HELEN FISHER
Helen E. Fisher, Ph.D. biological anthropologist, is a Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, and a Member of the Center For Human Evolutionary Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University. She has written six books on the evolution, biology, and psychology of human sexuality, monogamy, adultery and divorce, gender differences in the brain, the neural chemistry of romantic love and attachment, human biologically-based personality styles, why we fall in love with one person rather than another, hooking up, friends with benefits, living together and other current trends, and the future of relationships — what she calls: slow love.
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TRANSCRIPT:
Question: What are the three brain systems for love?
Helen Fisher: I do think that we’ve evolved three distinctly different brain systems for love. One is the sex drive, the craving for sexual gratification. The second one is romantic love, that elation, the giddiness, the euphoria, the obsession, the craving of passionate, obsessive love. And the third is attachment. That sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner.
And rather than being stages, these three brain systems can operate, really in any kind of combination. I mean, you could walk into a party, you’re ready to fall in love, you talked to somebody, they say just the perfect joke and they’re the right size and shape and height and background, and boom. You trigger the brain system for romantic love. And then, once you’ve fallen in love with them, you feel very sexually drawn to them. Or, you can start out with a sexual relationship with somebody and then fall in love with them. Or, you can know somebody for many years. Maybe it’s a boyfriend of a friend of yours and you’re married to somebody else and then times change, people become available and suddenly you’ve fallen in love with somebody who you’ve had a deep and very nice friendship with. So, any one of these brain systems can happen first; attachment, romantic love, or the sex drive.
Question: What does the brain look like when it’s in love?
Helen Fisher: Everybody’s always wondered what happens in the brain when you’ve fallen in love, and we all know actually how you feel when you fall in love. But actually, what happens in the brain is, a tiny little factory near the base of the brain called the ventral tegmental area become active, and in some particular cells, called the A10 cells, they begin to make dopamine. Dopamine is a natural stimulant. And from the ventral tegmental area it’s sent too many brain regions, particularly the reward system; the brain system for wanting, for craving, for seeking, for addiction, for motivation and in this case, the motivation to win life’s greatest prize, which is a good mating partner.
Question: Can casual sex trigger love?
Helen Fisher: I think that all three of these brain systems can interact with one another, particularly when you have sex with somebody. Any kind of sexual stimulation of the genitals triggers the dopamine system in the brain and can push you over that threshold into falling in love with that person. And in fact, with orgasm, there’s a real flood of oxytocin and vasopressin, other chemicals in the brain associated with the feeling of deep attachment. So, casual sex is really never casual unless you’re so drunk you can’t remember it; something happens. As a matter of fact, in one study of over a thousand people, over 50% of both men and women reported that their first kiss of somebody was sort of the kiss of death. They had begun quite attracted to a person sexually and romantically and then when they kissed them, it was so horrible for them that it turned them off completely. So, casual sex is just plain old not casual. Something can happen. You can either fall madly in love with this person, or you can begin a deep sense of attachment to them.
As a matter of fact, I’ve been working with a graduate student named Justin Garcia, and he and I believe that people go into hookups, or one-night stands hoping to trigger a longer relationship. And in fact, in a study that he did of 515 men and women in a college in the northeast, he asked ...
For the full transcript, check out https://bigthink.com/videos/casual-sex-doesnt-exist
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In a study that asked 515 people why they went into a hookup, 50 percent of women and 52 percent of men reported that they hoped to trigger a longer relationship.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
HELEN FISHER
Helen E. Fisher, Ph.D. biological anthropologist, is a Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, and a Member of the Center For Human Evolutionary Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University. She has written six books on the evolution, biology, and psychology of human sexuality, monogamy, adultery and divorce, gender differences in the brain, the neural chemistry of romantic love and attachment, human biologically-based personality styles, why we fall in love with one person rather than another, hooking up, friends with benefits, living together and other current trends, and the future of relationships — what she calls: slow love.
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TRANSCRIPT:
Question: What are the three brain systems for love?
Helen Fisher: I do think that we’ve evolved three distinctly different brain systems for love. One is the sex drive, the craving for sexual gratification. The second one is romantic love, that elation, the giddiness, the euphoria, the obsession, the craving of passionate, obsessive love. And the third is attachment. That sense of calm and security you can feel for a long-term partner.
And rather than being stages, these three brain systems can operate, really in any kind of combination. I mean, you could walk into a party, you’re ready to fall in love, you talked to somebody, they say just the perfect joke and they’re the right size and shape and height and background, and boom. You trigger the brain system for romantic love. And then, once you’ve fallen in love with them, you feel very sexually drawn to them. Or, you can start out with a sexual relationship with somebody and then fall in love with them. Or, you can know somebody for many years. Maybe it’s a boyfriend of a friend of yours and you’re married to somebody else and then times change, people become available and suddenly you’ve fallen in love with somebody who you’ve had a deep and very nice friendship with. So, any one of these brain systems can happen first; attachment, romantic love, or the sex drive.
Question: What does the brain look like when it’s in love?
Helen Fisher: Everybody’s always wondered what happens in the brain when you’ve fallen in love, and we all know actually how you feel when you fall in love. But actually, what happens in the brain is, a tiny little factory near the base of the brain called the ventral tegmental area become active, and in some particular cells, called the A10 cells, they begin to make dopamine. Dopamine is a natural stimulant. And from the ventral tegmental area it’s sent too many brain regions, particularly the reward system; the brain system for wanting, for craving, for seeking, for addiction, for motivation and in this case, the motivation to win life’s greatest prize, which is a good mating partner.
Question: Can casual sex trigger love?
Helen Fisher: I think that all three of these brain systems can interact with one another, particularly when you have sex with somebody. Any kind of sexual stimulation of the genitals triggers the dopamine system in the brain and can push you over that threshold into falling in love with that person. And in fact, with orgasm, there’s a real flood of oxytocin and vasopressin, other chemicals in the brain associated with the feeling of deep attachment. So, casual sex is really never casual unless you’re so drunk you can’t remember it; something happens. As a matter of fact, in one study of over a thousand people, over 50% of both men and women reported that their first kiss of somebody was sort of the kiss of death. They had begun quite attracted to a person sexually and romantically and then when they kissed them, it was so horrible for them that it turned them off completely. So, casual sex is just plain old not casual. Something can happen. You can either fall madly in love with this person, or you can begin a deep sense of attachment to them.
As a matter of fact, I’ve been working with a graduate student named Justin Garcia, and he and I believe that people go into hookups, or one-night stands hoping to trigger a longer relationship. And in fact, in a study that he did of 515 men and women in a college in the northeast, he asked ...
For the full transcript, check out https://bigthink.com/videos/casual-sex-doesnt-exist
- published: 24 Apr 2012
- views: 83463
1:48
Real Talk: College Girls and Casual Sex
More and more young women prefer casual hookups rather than getting into anything serious while they're in college. When you're focused on your career or your s...
More and more young women prefer casual hookups rather than getting into anything serious while they're in college. When you're focused on your career or your studies, who's got the time to worry about keeping a boyfriend? Check out the hosts' lively discussion on college girls and casual sex.
Find out where to watch: http://bit.ly/RealWIO
http://www.therealtalkshow.com
https://wn.com/Real_Talk_College_Girls_And_Casual_Sex
More and more young women prefer casual hookups rather than getting into anything serious while they're in college. When you're focused on your career or your studies, who's got the time to worry about keeping a boyfriend? Check out the hosts' lively discussion on college girls and casual sex.
Find out where to watch: http://bit.ly/RealWIO
http://www.therealtalkshow.com
- published: 25 Jul 2013
- views: 1158226
1:59
Casual Sex? Official Trailer #1 - Lea Thompson Movie (1988) Movie HD
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Casual Sex? Official Trailer #1 - Lea Thompson Movie (1988) Movie HD
Casual Sex? Trailer - Directed by GeneviÈve Robert and starring Lea Thompson, Cynthia Phillips, Danny Breen, Steven Ameche, Andrew Dice Clay. Two girls go away to a holiday resort looking for a change of pace, hoping to meet some nice men for a change. They discover that they can't find the perfect man, and this forces them to reconsider their attitudes to men in general.
Universal - 1988
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Casual Sex? Trailer - Directed by GeneviÈve Robert and starring Lea Thompson, Cynthia Phillips, Danny Breen, Steven Ameche, Andrew Dice Clay. Two girls go away to a holiday resort looking for a change of pace, hoping to meet some nice men for a change. They discover that they can't find the perfect man, and this forces them to reconsider their attitudes to men in general.
Universal - 1988
Welcome to the Fandango MOVIECLIPS Trailer Vault Channel. Where trailers from the past, from recent to long ago, from a time before YouTube, can be enjoyed by all. We search near and far for original movie trailer from all decades. Feel free to send us your trailer requests and we will do our best to hunt it down.
- published: 10 Jan 2012
- views: 299840
14:55
'Not-So-Casual' Sex - Amol Parashar | Divya Prakash Dubey | Spoken Fest Mumbai 2020
Casual sex is great but what happens when feelings start coming in the way? When 'booty calls' turn into 'I miss you' texts and you have eyes for them only? Amo...
Casual sex is great but what happens when feelings start coming in the way? When 'booty calls' turn into 'I miss you' texts and you have eyes for them only? Amol Parashar has his own learnings from this new age love story. Watch 'Not-So-Casual Sex' out now. This story has been adapted from an original story ‘Jeevanshaadi dot com’ by Divya Prakash Dubey.
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Casual sex is great but what happens when feelings start coming in the way? When 'booty calls' turn into 'I miss you' texts and you have eyes for them only? Amol Parashar has his own learnings from this new age love story. Watch 'Not-So-Casual Sex' out now. This story has been adapted from an original story ‘Jeevanshaadi dot com’ by Divya Prakash Dubey.
Video Production: Adsto
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- published: 13 Feb 2020
- views: 16528124
18:07
Casual Sex - An Honest Discussion between Men and Women
Thank you so much! You can now buy my new book
https://www.thegameofdesire.com/letsgo
My new book The Game of Desire is now available for pre-order! When you ...
Thank you so much! You can now buy my new book
https://www.thegameofdesire.com/letsgo
My new book The Game of Desire is now available for pre-order! When you pre-order today, you get access to my private podcast, the first two chapters of the book and several ways to connect with me one on one!
___________________________________________________________
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http://lovecrave.com/shanboody
PROMOCODE: Boody
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Jordan Joseph
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Shannon "Boody" Boodram is an intimacy expert and relationship educator who promotes sexual empowerment through information and conversation. She creates contents for young adults to make better choices in their intimate lives and romantic relationships. For more info on Shan visit
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Music: YouTube library "Erykah"
Endscreen Music
"Get it Girl" By Jared Brady
https://soundcloud.com/jaredbrady/
http://enjoyjaredbrady.com
https://wn.com/Casual_Sex_An_Honest_Discussion_Between_Men_And_Women
Thank you so much! You can now buy my new book
https://www.thegameofdesire.com/letsgo
My new book The Game of Desire is now available for pre-order! When you pre-order today, you get access to my private podcast, the first two chapters of the book and several ways to connect with me one on one!
___________________________________________________________
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The vibrator necklaces that myself and Jared are wearing in this video are available at
http://lovecrave.com/shanboody
PROMOCODE: Boody
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Follow the men in this video
Jordan Joseph
http://instagram.com/imjordanjoseph
Jared Brady
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Dwayne Mooney
https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Man-successful-Polyamory-Relationships-ebook/dp/B013IBSL1C
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Shannon "Boody" Boodram is an intimacy expert and relationship educator who promotes sexual empowerment through information and conversation. She creates contents for young adults to make better choices in their intimate lives and romantic relationships. For more info on Shan visit
http://shanboody.com/presskit
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Endscreen Music
"Get it Girl" By Jared Brady
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- published: 26 Nov 2017
- views: 176900