Describe the bug
polaris客户端获取不到其他客户端更新的ip地址

To Reproduce
【偶发】客户端一在启动后获取到客户端二的ip地址，并能进行服务转发。
但是客户端二重新部署后，ip变化。客户端一没有监听到客户端二
的变更事件。仍是访问客户端旧的ip地址。

Expected behavior

Environment
版本：
com.tencent.cloud
spring-cloud-tencent-dependencies
1.13.1-2023.0.0
pom

Additional context
[Add any other context about the problem here.](polaris.log.1:12628:2024-07-09 15:16:29.828 INFO [polaris-clean-expire-pendingtask-1:c.t.p.p.c.c.DestroyableServerConnector] [ServerConnector]retry schedule task for GrpcServiceUpdateTask{taskType=LONG_RUNNING, taskStatus=RUNNING, serviceEventKey=ServiceEventKey{serviceKey=ServiceKey{namespace='dev', service='xxxx-base-biz'}, eventType=INSTANCE}, targetClusterType=SERVICE_DISCOVER_CLUSTER}, retry delay 500)